can you tell the difference between, flirting or just talking to a guy? |
 Mar 1 2005, 03:21 PM
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 music lover  Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999  |
i remember one time i was just hanging out with my friends.. and i was talking with one of my guy friends (we'll just say his name is brian)....then when most of the people left and it was just me and one of my girl pals were still there, she was like were you flirting with Brian? I was like no i was just only talkin to him. She looked at me like "i know u were flirting" kind of look. I was just talking to the guy and had no intention of flirting with him.
does that happen to u .. like ur friends were like ur flirting and u have to tell them it was just nothing... and how can someone tell the difference between flirting and just talking. |
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Mar 1 2005, 03:23 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
well it depends on the person..if you're normally shy and you talk a lot then maybe it's flirting? i don't know..it really depends on you.
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Mar 1 2005, 03:24 PM
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 rainy days fade away.. Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,261 |
haha i can totally agree .. i bet the people that say "your flirting" just are jealous or something. they can get lost in a trashcan or something
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Mar 1 2005, 04:16 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
yeah i can i always flirt on purpose.
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Mar 1 2005, 05:31 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Not really...I'm talking to this guy and later on my friend says I'm flirting...I can't really tell the difference...
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Mar 1 2005, 06:44 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
well when you talk to a guy, you want him to know that you like him (as a friend of course) and not dislike him for no reason. i know i don`t wanna sound bored of someone!
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Mar 1 2005, 06:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
haha this reminds me.. i was talking to my 'brother' (great friend-brother)and i asked him for his jacket because i was cold.. and they were like.. 'i saw you flirting with him" i was like.. 'HAHAHAH he's my brother.. "
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Mar 1 2005, 06:59 PM
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 Afflicted: Hurt. Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
Happens to me all the time. I'm NOT a flirt. But I have all these guy friends and I joke around with them.. they hug me sometimes, and it just gets taken wrong.. uck.
Just don't be as touchy?? Erdon'tknow. |
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Mar 1 2005, 08:06 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Well, it's kind of hard to tell sometimes when a girl talks to a guy non-romantically. You were probably acting very friendly, but that's how some girls flirt. Most girls "joke around" with their guy friends, but to someone watching, who doesn't know that they're just friends, it can look pretty flirty...
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Mar 1 2005, 08:08 PM
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yeah thats happened...but its hard to tell since girls all flirt differently so yeh.
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Mar 1 2005, 08:24 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
i cant really tell the difference. i've had people come up to me and ask if i was flirting. i think when i get in a really good mood im just happy around everyone cuz im not a flirt. me and my friends are a pretty close group and we all hug but it never goes past that trust me! i guess theres a fine line between flirting and being friendly but i sometimes have a hard time finding it!
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Mar 1 2005, 09:47 PM
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 KUH - rasy . Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,456 |
my friends cant tellthe difference if their lives were depended on it.
to them, talking to a guy = flirting with major love connection 
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Mar 1 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
umm no. my friends can actually tell if im flirting or not. but i have a bf so its ok
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Mar 1 2005, 10:42 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I can't tell what I do either. o_O I remember going to this theme park with my friend, and at the end she as like, "Oh, were you flirting with my cousin??" I'm like, "What?! No.".. I guess it's just how I act? >_<
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| *salcha* |
Mar 1 2005, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE haha this reminds me.. i was talking to my 'brother' (great friend-brother)and i asked him for his jacket because i was cold.. and they were like.. 'i saw you flirting with him" i was like.. 'HAHAHAH he's my brother.. " hahahaha |
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Mar 1 2005, 11:30 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Eh, sometimes I can't tell when I'm flirting or just joking around.
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Mar 1 2005, 11:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
girls have diferent opions on what flirting is
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Mar 1 2005, 11:48 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,200 |
i think it's really annoying. they keep saying "your flirting" when im asking him a question? and then they make up rumors...makes me want to tear they're head off
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Mar 2 2005, 01:30 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Well what I think is that if you laugh in a cute way or give that look of showing your cute side toward him or your sexy look. That's what I call flirtatious. Maybe your friend didn't really know what flirting means?
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Mar 2 2005, 02:34 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
but you didn't intend to flirt. so i guess its not?
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Mar 2 2005, 07:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
That happens all the time. Maybe its because I used to be really shy, but now I talk a lot and people think that means that if I all of a sudden talk to a guy I'm in love with him or something. I actually find it kind of funny.
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Mar 2 2005, 08:55 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no i cant tell at all.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:28 AM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Well, i have 2 friends that flirt all the time, they dont' actually realize they're doing it, but they do. and When i bring it to their attention, they were like, I wasn't. I dont even like him/her... and im like u so were!
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Mar 2 2005, 06:59 PM
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music lover Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999 |
i think its odd that my friends know when im flirting but they don't know when they themselves are flirting.
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Mar 2 2005, 07:02 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
well yeah there's a big difference when your flirting your like moving alot and smiling and nudging them with your elbow and when your talking your just talking xP
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