Best way 2 get a guy, hmm |
 Mar 1 2005, 10:50 AM
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Your mom goes to college..  Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,541  |
I'm like secretly in love w/ this guy. And I need to get his attention.
Any Ideas? |
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Mar 1 2005, 11:53 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
heres one good tip :
flash him lol jk* |
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 1 2005, 12:01 PM
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^^^
umm.. har har? im going through the same thing. im practically in love with this guy named johnny. hes my friend..and i talk to him in school..but ive never had the guts to actually tell him how i feel. i think i will though. your best bet is to get to know him better and send him messages that you're crushin on him. then .. maybe end up tellin him straight up? |
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Mar 1 2005, 03:02 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
talk to him.
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Mar 1 2005, 03:55 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
get to know him better
be yourself |
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Mar 1 2005, 05:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
talk to him..maybe tell him how you feel
 ..or just make eye contact..and you know...drop small hints..if he's smart..he should get the idea that you like him..if he's not...then...you can decide then what... 
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Mar 1 2005, 06:02 PM
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 music lover Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999 |
follow your heart...what ever it tells you to do, do it.
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Mar 1 2005, 06:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Seduce him...
just try to do somethign noticable..... |
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Mar 1 2005, 06:37 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
communication is good. talk to him in person & try to get his phone number after having a good conversation with him in person. he`ll find out that you`re an AWESOME person and will totally love you back.
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Mar 1 2005, 09:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,692 |
I'm in the same situation, too! I have this major crush on this year older guy at my school.
But I'm a chicken when it comes to guys I don't know. . . I hate being so shy. I swear, I'm one of the shyest people you will ever come across in this world. |
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Mar 1 2005, 10:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
Be his friend.
Get to know him. Talk to him. *shrug* |
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Mar 1 2005, 10:39 PM
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 so give me all your posion and give me all your pills Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,345 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 1 2005, 6:06 PM) Seduce him... just try to do somethign noticable.....  hehee SEDUCE!! YAY!! or become his friend.. if ur friend is his friend.. ELLO HAVE UR FRIEND INTRODUCE u to him! always works for me =D 
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Mar 1 2005, 10:47 PM
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haha when you walk past him, smile. and make it obvious.
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Mar 1 2005, 10:52 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Well, like try to get his attention by like smiling at him in the hallways, or just like make eye contact. If like he sees ur interested, he might like just talk to you and be interested in you, too. ^_^ A simple, 'hi' won't hurt either. =]
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Mar 2 2005, 08:59 PM
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I think you shuld be yourself but also try and be a bit touchy see if he will get touchy back sometimes it takes a while but thats okay maybe he likes you back but doesnt know you like him try it out
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Mar 2 2005, 09:01 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
even if you find the best way he still might no like you.
it either he like you or not. there this girl she bugg me a lot on aim, i get he intention, but i don't like her. |
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Mar 2 2005, 09:13 PM
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I'm having the same problem... but you already talk to yours. I don't have any classes with teh guy i like but I met him. He asked for my name and he told me his=)
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Mar 2 2005, 09:20 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(seremela_culnamo @ Mar 1 2005, 6:12 PM) I'm in the same situation, too! I have this major crush on this year older guy at my school. But I'm a chicken when it comes to guys I don't know. . . I hate being so shy. I swear, I'm one of the shyest people you will ever come across in this world. so not true! I AM the shyst person in the wordl!!! no joke...I hate it too, drives me nuts, why can't I be like everyone else and find it easy to say stuff and sound good??! |
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Mar 2 2005, 09:26 PM
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QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Mar 2 2005, 7:20 PM) so not true! I AM the shyst person in the wordl!!! no joke...I hate it too, drives me nuts, why can't I be like everyone else and find it easy to say stuff and sound good??! no u're not either i am the shyest person on the planet |
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Mar 2 2005, 10:45 PM
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music lover Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999 |
im shy.. but not that shy... im only shy in class.. out of class im hyper/wild/crazy/fun lol
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Mar 2 2005, 10:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
take away the shyness.. and talk!
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Mar 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
stare at him, drop hints, flirt
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Mar 3 2005, 09:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Just go up to him, & talk. Be yourself & whatnot. once you get to know him, tell him your feelings.
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Mar 3 2005, 10:18 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Flirt with him?
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Mar 3 2005, 10:20 PM
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 sunny Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,919 |
I know this has been over-said, but be his friend! FLIRT & be yourself! It`s the only way, unless you use evil tactics like voodoo? lol. JK
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Mar 4 2005, 12:46 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
Yeah, agree with mostly everyone above! ^^
Become his friend.. talk to him.. get to know him better.. send him hints.. The only thing I would add is food, lol you know what they say.. 'The way to a mans heart is threw his stomach.' |
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Mar 4 2005, 12:48 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Just try to flirt with him. Or you can just ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something and then start talking about stuff.
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Mar 4 2005, 01:01 AM
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I'm like going thru the same thing with a guy named Kevin at my school... the best thing you can do is just flirt and get to know him. mostly be your self. drop hints here and there... what i'm planning to do is to ask my guy to the dance.. maybe you can ask him to one too, just as a friend, and see if he wants to go as more than just friends!
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Mar 4 2005, 01:39 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,088 |
Make eye contact... flirt... make him feel special... get ur friends to introduce u to him... lotz of wayz to get a guyz attention... evn some i hvnt listed...
 - Joe  [EDIT]: The "get ur friends to introduce him" to u works... meh friends hav done it to meh... worked out fine and i got a g/f    ... but juss incase u havnt noticed... fo sum reason... dont kno y u wouldnt... ima guy 
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Apr 21 2005, 05:30 PM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
drop hints
try to be his friend tease him |
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Apr 21 2005, 05:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,112 |
approach him casually about something and just make conversation. itll be pretty obvious whether or not he shows interest in you. if you dont see any signs of interest within several conversations then hes probably not into you.
you could also get to know his friends and question them. |
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Apr 21 2005, 06:50 PM
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do things that get his attention, for example bump into him on purpose, if he is in ur classes drop ur pen or paper and ask him to get it for u, always smile at him, if u have a friend that is friends with him try to be with that friend when they are with him.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:27 PM
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i've never had a bf, but it think you should just be yourself and try to drop hints that you like him. if he doesn't get it, then ask him out or tell him how you feel. it coun't hurt.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:42 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
if hes in your science class, ask him to be your lab partner. sometimes we have to do experiments in pairs where one partner has to be a girl and the other has to be a guy.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:55 PM
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Just be yourself. If he doesn't like you for you then he's a jerk. Um, talk about something you both like. If he's in one of your classes, talk about the subject or teacher.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Get a friend to ask if he likes you. Or do the "I heard you liked me" thing.
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Apr 22 2005, 05:17 AM
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SHOW HIM THAT YOURE FUN TO BE WITH.. IF HE PASSES BY YOU... MAKE SURE YOURE BEING SILLY WID YOUR FRENS AND JUSS HAVIN A GOOD TIME.... I MEAN.... WHO DOESNT LOVE AN OUTGOIN GURL??! RIOTE?
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Apr 22 2005, 07:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
i think you may need to know what types of girls he like...
or you may do something he dont like if he dont like girls who flirt,then you had better not flirt |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:18 AM
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 *~*Yo IcY FrEsH AzN!!*~* Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,747 |
well u could alwayz be urself..daz da best choice....cuz then...if he likes u...then he really likes U..not someone ur not...
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Apr 23 2005, 10:01 AM
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 x0x- Alana*Michelle Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,382 |
STALK HIM.
Just kidding, since that's probably the worst thing you could do. Write him notes, say hey in the hallway when your switching classes. If you have any friends that are friends with this guy, ask her/him to mention you to him...that should send some hints. And if hes interested, trust me, you'd know it. Just wait for him to come to you, you'll get your chance. |
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Apr 23 2005, 10:09 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
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