exboyfriend & best friend?!? |
 Feb 27 2005, 08:47 PM
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 Yea Yea.  Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366  |
okay.. this was like a month ago but i felt like sharing. umms.. my boyfriend broke up wit me and whatever and i still liked him... the weekend after we were at a party together and i was still not over him but i assume he was over me or whatever bc he had is arms around one of my best friends, she didnt like it so she told him to stop.. so he went to my other best friend who had a thing for my exboyfriend forever so she let him and put her head on his shoulder and they were like sitting right infront of me.. okay i was telling myself, "don't let it bother you. you're not his girlfriend anymore." so i wasn't mad about it but it still really hurt. do you think i was being too emotional to let it bother me?
*my boyfriend was putting his arms around my best friends not to be like serious, as a joke. but still. **i am completely over what happened now but i still wanna know what you think about it. |
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Feb 27 2005, 08:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well she was your best friend and he was your b/f and it had only been a week since you two broke up..so I guess you didn't take the situation too emotional and it was kind of right to bother you because you still had feelings for this guy....
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Feb 27 2005, 08:58 PM
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 Philly Girl 4-life Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,772 |
I would let your best friend know how you feel, say it doesnt nessecarly bother you but shes your best friend and she should stand by your side not his. It's completely normal to feel the way you do..
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Feb 27 2005, 09:09 PM
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 Azn at heart Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,772 |
hey, I hate to say it, but this guy sounds like a creep who wants to make you feel bad, it might be a joke, and he might not know it hurts you...with out knowing if he knows how you feel, its hard to help.
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Feb 27 2005, 09:12 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
if your best friend knew that you still liked your ex, i'd whup her ass.
but if she didn't, go talk to her and tell her . |
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Feb 28 2005, 04:39 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(Boyfriendless @ Feb 28 2005, 10:09 AM) hey, I hate to say it, but this guy sounds like a creep who wants to make you feel bad, it might be a joke, and he might not know it hurts you...with out knowing if he knows how you feel, its hard to help. ^ You're right. I mean, it's possible but not likely that he'll date you, break up with you, and then go for your best bud. Even if that's true, he should wait a while before he starts dating again. This shows that he doesn't really care about the breakup. Hmm.
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Feb 28 2005, 05:05 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
seems to me like maybe he wanted you to be jealous. how emotional you were depends on what you guys shared and did when you guys when out.
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