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 Feb 24 2005, 04:15 PM
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 LaLaLa =]  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,170  |
my best friend is like in love with my ex and i still have feelings for him .. what should i do? i mean i don't want to get in the way if my ex and my best friend have feelings for each other ..
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Feb 24 2005, 04:23 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
do you like still really really like him? if you do just tell her to back off
if you just have a minor feeling for him, since yall broke up already, just let your friend have a chance with him. Share is caring =P |
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Feb 24 2005, 04:34 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
things you could do:
1. Tell her that you still like your EX. If she was really your friend, she would respect your feelings and back off..normally anyway. 2. If you're still friends with your EX..then talk to him about it too. 3. Just avoid them for a few days...maybe weeks and hopefully you'll be over it. Time is an important factor of getting over someone.  4. If you think that your feelings for your EX will fade soon...then I don't think you should stop something from having a chance and beginning. I mean...if it won't be your friend then it will be someone else...sooner or later... |
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Feb 24 2005, 05:01 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
just see what happens. did you break up with your ex or did your ex break up with you? if he broke up w/ you.. then he might not be interested in you.
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Feb 25 2005, 10:01 PM
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well..if u still have feelings 4 him..whyd u break up with him in the first place?
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Feb 25 2005, 10:08 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
wow that sounds exactly the situation that i used to be in..except i was just crushing on my best friends ex, but she doesnt have feelings for him anymore so that made things much easier, but i eventually got over it, but im still friends with my crush..
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Feb 25 2005, 10:30 PM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
does your friend know that you still like him? if she does, then you two should talk about it amongst yourselves and see what happens
if she doesn`t know, then i guess you can either tell her you still have feelings for him, or you can just be a friend and back off |
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Feb 26 2005, 12:30 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 24 2005, 11:34 AM) things you could do: 1. Tell her that you still like your EX. If she was really your friend, she would respect your feelings and back off..normally anyway. 2. If you're still friends with your EX..then talk to him about it too. 3. Just avoid them for a few days...maybe weeks and hopefully you'll be over it. Time is an important factor of getting over someone. 4. If you think that your feelings for your EX will fade soon...then I don't think you should stop something from having a chance and beginning. I mean...if it won't be your friend then it will be someone else...sooner or later...  yup i agree..if u still have feelings about him then maybe u should tell ur friend.. |
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Feb 26 2005, 12:37 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
it all depends on how you ex feels. if he likes you, would you like it?
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Feb 27 2005, 11:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 405 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,232 |
boy do i know what that feels like. of course.. i didnt do anything about it, and i ended up losing in the end. its a sad world.
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Feb 27 2005, 11:11 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
QUOTE do you like still really really like him? if you do just tell her to back off if you just have a minor feeling for him, since yall broke up already, just let your friend have a chance with him. Share is caring =P I agree! You should tell her that you still like him..and if she doesn't care..then she's no friend at all.. |
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Feb 27 2005, 11:34 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
first, tell her you still have feelings for him. if she's a real friend, she'll understand. then decide whether you like him a lot or just a little. if you like him only a little, then drop it and allow yourself to slowly move on. if you like him a lot, well.. i guess try and get him back?
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Feb 28 2005, 01:00 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,200 |
tell your friend u have feelings for your ex and if she's a real friend it will work out. no matter what don't hide it from her.
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Feb 28 2005, 02:36 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
he's you ex.
just tell your friend bout it. but i don't think it's gonna do anything much coz you already broke up with him. |
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