this guy..., ...is kinda freaking me out. |
 Feb 22 2005, 07:47 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯)  Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583  |
so this guy at school got these two girls to come over to my lunch table today to tell me that he thinks im hot...so i was like "okay..."
then they make me go talk to him, of course, and so its like really awkward and everything and hes SOOOO nervous...i was like whoa. am i that intimidating? so then we talk for a few minutes and hes a nice enough guy, and i feel like i handled it pretty well and so i went and ate my lunch. then the girls come back with a piece of paper with his number (cell and home) and his name. so my friends pressure me into giving him my number, so i do. lol. and so yea he said he'd call me after school. so i wait and wait. and then i text him. and he called me but i missed the call. since then hes called me three times and left 3 voicemails. [i didnt answer because i was nevous. haha] hes a senior and he's 18. i JUST turned 16 (sophomore) and im not that interested in him... so i guess my question is this: what do i do?? im not sure i like him, but im not sure i just wanna blow him off either... thanks for any advice. <3kristen |
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Feb 22 2005, 07:49 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
if you're not interested in him why did you give him your phone number? also why did you feel too nervous to pick up the phone when he called?
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Feb 22 2005, 07:51 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
im not sure about that part. because my friends pressured me into it and not that many guys are interested in me right now...probably not the best reason
and for the phone thing: i dont really know... im really nervous when it comes to talking to guys on the phone. i guess im weird... |
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Feb 22 2005, 07:54 PM
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well, my $.02 of advice is as follows.
1.) If you like this guy and feel something might happen in the near future go for it! 2.)Dont feel scared to pick up the phone, he cant bite you ^_^. 3.) If you dont feel like things are right, just offer to be friends and ask him (nicely) not to call if you dont want him to. |
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Feb 22 2005, 07:56 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
i guess that sounds about right, i dont know i think i would just feel more comfortable talking to him on im or through e-mail. i feel really stupid that i gave him my number...
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Feb 22 2005, 08:08 PM
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 Vyna Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,332 |
If you're nervous, I bet you have at least a little thing for him
 haha why not give him a chance? one sec? one minute? one hour? who knows, this little time may lead to a long time!
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Feb 22 2005, 08:13 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
why don't you just give him your screenname then? you should give him a chance, but make it clear that you're not sure if you want to be in a relationship right now...(something like that, but tell the truth) if you're still not interested, then whatever you were up front with him, don't give into peer pressure. this is your life, don't date anyone you don't want to date.
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Feb 22 2005, 08:57 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
so basically i imed him
and its going well so far except, he cant type very well and it seems that hes been stalking me for quite some time now....cough. im a little freaked out, but ill let you know how it turns out. |
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Feb 22 2005, 09:18 PM
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be careful, he may want something very valuable of yours. but don't brush off the guy so quickly, his feelings may be legit
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Feb 22 2005, 10:14 PM
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 chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
 be like im sorry but im not really interested
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Feb 22 2005, 10:30 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
well maybe you guys can be friends, or just tell him that you dont want to rush things too fast..
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Feb 22 2005, 11:43 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
tell him the truth and say you're not interested
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Feb 23 2005, 12:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,794 |
just tell him your not interested no point to string him along.
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| *salcha* |
Feb 23 2005, 01:58 AM
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tell him the truth
that you just want to be friends. |
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Feb 23 2005, 02:02 AM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
t r u t h `.. tell him the truth.. or in the end.. sumones gonna have hurt feelings.. <3
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Feb 23 2005, 06:09 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
I'm not quite sure why you gave him your number then. But if you end up going out with him, since you're nervous about him and you don't really know him, go somewhere public. Not necessarily the movies though, it's dark in there.
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Feb 23 2005, 06:28 AM
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 please love me when im gone Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,374 |
two words....ditch em'
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Feb 23 2005, 08:57 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
ignore your friends and tell him that you're not interested
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Feb 23 2005, 02:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you could try to go out with him....or say you are not ready but...you two could hang out as friends and see how that works out before getting serious
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Feb 23 2005, 02:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Tell him its best that your friends cause hes a freakin you out lol
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 23 2005, 03:01 PM
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hell...IM isn't gonna work unless you want a text relationship lmao....just talk with him on the phone give it a time limit like 10 min if your not intrested by then just call it all off and say "hey i gotta go"
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Feb 23 2005, 04:30 PM
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not to sound like a complete stalker, but i saw you go over there with some girls to talk to some guy. thats all i have to say though, so yes, this post is completely irrelevant, but no relationship advice coming from me is worth anything
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Feb 23 2005, 08:58 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
hahaha nikki, its not stalker-ish! you sit at the table next to me at lunch!! hahahaha.
but yea. i called it off. he lied about his age and hes really freaking scary so i was like "i cant trust you" etc etc and so yea. its over guys. thanks for all your advice. |
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Feb 23 2005, 09:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
If you don't like him, just tell him that you rather be friends with him. Don't let your friend pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do. I just hate people who does that.
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Feb 23 2005, 09:06 PM
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ok, thats good. i watch people a lot at lunch, because i get bored lol. if he lied, how old was he really?!
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