there is a girl who is one of my best friends, plz help me |
 Feb 22 2005, 12:15 AM
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 brandon demarin  Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512  |
there is a girl who is one of my best friends...she sed i was "one of her best friends" but her true best friend is a guy named jack...jack and her talk on the phone and spend way more time together...recently, ive kinda been falling in love with her but im not so sure...should i stay best friends with her even though her "true" best friend is jack or should i like her and take my chances? plz answer back
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Feb 22 2005, 12:28 AM
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 Basketball is my Anti-Drug Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,461 |
what's bothering you? The fact that you're not her "true" best friend or that she's hanging out with this Jack? If she shows signs of liking you then I think you should go for it. Hope I helped
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Feb 22 2005, 12:50 AM
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well its up to you...depends how close you think you are to her as friends and how much you like her.
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Feb 22 2005, 12:53 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
... ONE of her best friends... She never said you were her truest best friend or anything.. And well just remember that it's harder and more awkward to date a best best friend...
But it seems like you really want her attention and you don't want to share her with that Jack guy... Try to spend more time together. You never know.. she might like you back... Just that Jack is her bestest best friend... It doesn't mean that she loves him or anything like that. |
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Feb 22 2005, 01:11 AM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
^ yea, thats true, just because she talks to him alot doesn't mean she likes him. i have a guy best friend and i talk to him all the time and we kinda act like we're all into each other but just for fun. i have no interest or intentions of getting with him at all... so maybe she's like that with that jack guy.
and if it does happen where she likes jack, and then stuff with jack and her don't work out.... who will be their to cheer her up and be there by her side? her other best friend of course! (that's where you come in) |
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Feb 22 2005, 01:19 AM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
omg........thank u guys so much.......i love the people here at createblog......everyone here always makes me feel like family.......<3 everyone here
thanks. any more advice? |
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Feb 22 2005, 09:09 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 21 2005, 9:53 PM) ... ONE of her best friends... She never said you were her truest best friend or anything.. And well just remember that it's harder and more awkward to date a best best friend... But it seems like you really want her attention and you don't want to share her with that Jack guy... Try to spend more time together. You never know.. she might like you back... Just that Jack is her bestest best friend... It doesn't mean that she loves him or anything like that.  ^^i agree. spend more time with her. don't be jealous because she spends more time with another best friend. you can't own best friends, or even friends or anyone for the matter. all you can do is spend as much time with them as you can. who knows? she might like you back.. or she might just like you as a friend.. here's a flower 
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Feb 22 2005, 09:11 AM
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 please love me when im gone Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,374 |
wat lately has been bothering me...dis gurl i like...her name is Hui Wen and den she said i was one of her best friends and stuff...and by the way she treat me and the others at school...i getting to like her even more...i have a bigy...a giant crush...what should i dooo...
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Feb 22 2005, 09:21 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
jebus, just ask her out.
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Feb 22 2005, 05:37 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
if you think that the feeling of you liking her will go away then I think you should feel content with being friends for now....but if you like her enough then yes....I think you should take a chance and maybe try and spend more time with her....and tell her how you feel.
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Feb 22 2005, 09:19 PM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
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Feb 22 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
G0 F0R iT, Y0U`LL NEVER KN0W UNLESS Y0U D0 S0METHiNG. if she dont like you back, at least you tried and you wont go on with life wondering if there could have been a chance. if she D0 like you back, then huzzah,
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Feb 23 2005, 04:53 AM
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 I will rise up Group: Member Posts: 112 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,037 |
my guess is, that the reason she said you were one of her best friends... is because she wasn't interested
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