when is the right age for u, for sexual intercource Options

[minimcgrath]

just woundering

[shortiiex]

i think you spelled intercource wrong.....i think it is suppose to be intercourse
anyway......i think guys lose their viginity eariler than girls..girls have a lot risks to take and guys have pleasure most of the time

[teenprincess]

i think you spelled intercource wrong.....i think it is suppose to be intercourse
anyway......i think guys lose their viginity eariler than girls..girls have a lot risks to take and guys have pleasure most of the time

What? Who are the guys doing it with? Wouldn't the girls lose it at the same time?

[minimcgrath]

What? Who are the guys doing it with? Wouldn't the girls lose it at the same time?

lol lol

[EXPLO5ION]

What? Who are the guys doing it with? Wouldn't the girls lose it at the same time?

^please dont spam mini

I think she means that girls are more likely to wait longer to do it because girls can get pregnant and all that stuff. The guys just do it and all they have to worry about is if the girl becomes pregnant or if he gets STDs.

I think 18 and up is good.

[Oranite]

^please dont spam mini

I think she means that girls are more likely to wait longer to do it because girls can get pregnant and all that stuff. The guys just do it and all they have to worry about is if the girl becomes pregnant or if he gets STDs.

I think 18 and up is good.

lol yeah very true indeed though some guys don't really care if the girls gets pregnant or not (I think this is a lack of resposiblility...showing imaturity if it happens....), but yea...we guys do have anything to lose at all... its fun for us with little risk in comparision.... and if your afraid of STDs or Pregnancy use a condom....its not as fun but atleast it won't bite you in the but later on if something happens...

[jennyjenny]

I think whenever you feel you're ready and take responsibility on what would happen if she got pregnant.

[Chii]

What? Who are the guys doing it with? Wouldn't the girls lose it at the same time?

not really, guys can always have sex with girls older than they are...

i think i lost it at the right age...which was 16...the normal age these days is probably 17-18 - i hope

[nevernothere]

When you're 16... if you can drive... you should f**k.

[minimcgrath]

When you're 16... if you can drive... you should f**k.

it seems u dont kare about any risks, u just go for with no kare in the world. Very mature(sarcasism).

[asiu1990]

if girls wouldn't get pregnant, ppl would be making out all the time..

[teenprincess]

not really, guys can always have sex with girls older than they are...

Oh yea, didn't think of that

if girls wouldn't get pregnant, ppl would be making out all the time..

You can't get pregnant from making out

[blah1234567]

hmmm.... i say 16-17 years old for me. you cant get pregnant 12 days before your period because if there is no egg to get ferilized you cant get pregnant

[VGyrl88]

Married..I can't afford to put myself at risk to STD, pregnancy, and other deseases..I like to be devoted to my husband too heh but um I hope I never get drugged into such things

[Derek4jc]

I'm waiting till I get married

[dopeSOUL]

um... married.. trust me it will be worth it... to bad i didnt wait... which i dont regret... but i just think it would be better..

[Rachel]

you can have sex whenever you are completely ready. there is no set age

and its intercourse

[*Programmer*]

when you know your ready.....that's all im gonna say.

[ItzOnlySydney]

you can have sex whenever you are completely ready. there is no set age

and its intercourse

*nods head in agreement* took the words straight out of my mouth

[mactjhs]

haha weird topic but yea if i was to have intercourse id do it with a condom, not only juss to protect myself and the girl im doing it with but because those warm sensation condoms look hella cool! lmao

[auroradude]

15 or 16. thats when i did it. im not immature, and i do care about my girl. i waited til she was good n ready.

[*Weird addiction*]

15-16...

[racoons > you]

well the age of consent is 16, so aroudn then is fine

[BOAmusics]

at least 18 and up, prevent HIV and AIDS stuff
but without it i think any age is ok lol.

[lilJdawg]

I would say when your married but whenever your ready & is willing to take care of a baby & raise up a family, then you can do it anytime.Tha's my opinion.

[lilJdawg]

I would say when your married but whenever your ready & is willing to take care of a baby & raise up a family, then you can do it anytime.Tha's my opinion.

[*wind&fire*]

how bout when youre the legal age

[cLinT_wEStw0oD]

i think puberty is good cuz youre old enough to understand the risks and possibilities of it. just be careful and you aint got nothing to worry about cept what shes gonna think of you after

[michelina0kudelk...]

you guys are all saying 16 is good for sex, I'm 15 and I haven't even had a boyfriend, nor have i been kissed ....am i really that ugly?

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[DrEaMgUy2K1]

whenever your ready for it mentally and physically, and w/e morals u have

[heyyfrankie]

whenever i am in love...

[someflipguy]

How bout whenever you find a person willing to do it.. lol! j/k

like everyone else said when your ready.

[xquizit]

it depends on the person and if they're mature enough to have sex. when it comes to men, often times, age does not determine maturity level, unfortanately.

[racoons > you]

you guys are all saying 16 is good for sex, I'm 15 and I haven't even had a boyfriend, nor have i been kissed  ....am i really that ugly? 

really, really not

lol.

the right guys out there. just hbecause someone loses the'r virginity at a certain age doesn't mean you have to too

[EmmalieV]

depends on the person.

[*tweeak*]

you guys are all saying 16 is good for sex, I'm 15 and I haven't even had a boyfriend, nor have i been kissed ....am i really that ugly?

yeah, well, me too

[Angel_Cece]

i think 18 is an approiate age. you should be on your own and in college, more freedom

[*salcha*]

married, save it for someone special.

[CUTEBUNNY160]

married or 16-17

[kandiapplegrl]

I'll have sex when I'm ready. When the time is right ya know? If someone special comes along.

[*instantmusic*]

the day you can afford it.

[Tung]

when your ready to face the consequences of having sex.

[xD_toooften]

its ur choice so yeah do what you need to do. i think you sohuld wait until you're responsible enough. 18+

[Litt0_TeeZy]

hmm..for me i'd be when i'm married, but for all you others that don't see it that way...just make sure you're ready for it...and the package that comes along with it...nothing is 100%. not condoms. not birth control. but we all know that right? hopefully.. i would say married =)

[Eryi]

Well, I'm against abstonence I believe that people can have sex before their married or when their in their 20's or something.

I'd like to have sex, anytime when I'm ready.

[rainnydaiis]

To me is when your ready or in "love." Because losing your virginity isn't that great at all... anyways

Since I'm a christian and they say no sex until your married... Because if you do have sex before marriage its called ADULTRY...

[ArsonIsFire]

yeah definetly after marriage....... to many people rush into sex mostly because of pressure it sucks. (iv got a guy whos like a stalker trying to get me to hav sex and hes 14 my gosh everyone needs to settle down for a couple more years)

[iwalkbackwards]

I believe that sex is just sex. I don't really see it as a huge matter. :-/ I don't know why but I think you should believe you love the person. Any age really is fine...

[Teesa]

when you are ready. I mean absolutely ready.

[diablo108]

Wait til' you're married if at all possible, but if you TRULY love the person, and want to share your emotions, then that's fine. Just remember: condoms are your friends!

-Alex

[SpedMonkee]

im gonna take a quote from chef on south park "17. Don't know why, just 17."

[teaspoondesigns]

When it's time, you'll know.

[super_grover08]

16 cause its not to young or to old, but if u do it after 16 theres nothing wrong with that

[HoodieObsessed]

What? Who are the guys doing it with? Wouldn't the girls lose it at the same time?

I think she means older girls go with younger guys. in other words guys do it younger. but I see your point

[HoodieObsessed]

you guys are all saying 16 is good for sex, I'm 15 and I haven't even had a boyfriend, nor have i been kissed ....am i really that ugly?

no you are not. you are acutlaly very pretty, I'm not joking. I'd say your'e prettier than me, I'm 14.

here's me:


okay, I don't know exactly what I'm trying to prove by this, cause I havn't had intercourse or even been kissed either so errr....hmmm...well, anyway, probably you just need to wait till the right guy comes aroudn I guess..there's always a bend in the road

[Soleil]

Man..if your religous your forced to think you have to wait...ppl always say True love waits..and thats what im going with...but for others it when ever you think your ready...and that your not forced into it.

[~*Crizzy_Babee09...]

I wunna stay safe, so, Imma wait till im married..

[alsex]

i voted for when you get married...
the test of when you are ready is when you go to that drugstore where you can buy condoms and the computer acts up so the lady at the register has to ring it up 15 times before it registers and there is a line of people waiting and you dont have to buy gum to hide it... and you aren't ashamed or guilty of buying it thats when the guy is ready...

[okiley_dokiley]

i think it depends upon when you feel right for yourself i know i lost it at 14 and felt great like me and him are still together nothing has happened so whenever you want to i guess [but not like 12 thats just disgusting]

[Pinoyboi_510]

not rele in the rush to have sex... i belive in the whole being married before havin sex thing

[Gameboy]

I think it depends on the persons involved

I was 14 and just didn't care, still don't... but others have to go at there own rate...

[ohBrian]

im a virgin and its sad.

[bunny--bunny]

I would say when i'm married. At the earliest 18 and up.

[Eryi]

i say 16 and up

[EddieV]

The right age is actually when you are married, but unfortunetely people don't live by those rules anymore...

Hell I know I'm not...

[the_pale_surfer]

i sorta already did... ehh it wasnt so much by my choice but i did at age 14... i wish i had waited.... no lol 15 sorry

[Wolverine0723]

When u get out of college...maybe...i dunno, it depends WHO IT IS...

[IGB]

I think you probably should just when you think you're responsible for whatever the purposing of having sex is, which is different for a lot of people.

[wickedcurse]

i think it should be 18 and up... but then 16-17 is okey...

[soulless727]

when your married.....

[xMayleex]

Well i was 15, well i am 15 now lol, i think between 16-19+ is the right age but its kinda strange if you have a man/woman in their late twenties who are virgins, they should have slept with someone by then.

[blah122986]

i think ur ready when u find dat one person..unless u wanna just play and hump everything in sight hehehe...

[belg]

the best time wud be after u get married... no more explanations...

[starlette]

the right age is when you are ready. There si no wrong or right time for you. If you do it because you are pressured, its the wrong time,. but if you feel you are ready to handle the big step, and are fully aware of the consquences of your actions if you do mess up, then you are ready. And you gotta make sure the person you are with is ready as well. Remember, no means no. Period. Thats why i lost mine so young. Because someone didnt think no meant no. If I could take it all back I would. SO yeah, be sure its something you really want to do. It is an adult responsibility, if you mess up and get someone preggo, or get urself preggo, so you better be and adult about the initial decision.

and hoodieobsessed, honey, you double post wayy too much. Try the edit button!! If you wanna add an additional quote, just ctrl+c then ctrl+p and there ya go.

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

Well, being bisexual causes some problems here, because it makes you bloody attracted to anything that moves. But really, the problem about not being straight and premarital sex is a contradictory problem. If gays and lesbians aren't allowed to marry, seriously, what choice do we have? But agewise, yes, like other people said, it is up to the person to decide whether or not it is the correct time to have sex. Sex is a very large step in life. Deciding when to pick up your foot is up to you, because you don't want to fall back down.

[neKronos!]

when your emotionally, and physically mature enough to do it

[rOckThISshYt]

Haha. "As soon as possible." I just find that funny. I don't know why.

I answered with 15-16. I hate it how people will think that if a girl has sex under the age of 16 they're a slut but if a guy has sex when he's 10, he's a pimp. That's just screwed up. Damn double standards.

[multifaceted]

for me, it just whenever you are ready to start and take responsibilities for your own actions. sum people can be 15 or 16 and some others (like me) have no sense of responsibilities and just need to wait.

[Lifeguard]

I think you should wait till your married.
1) If your bf or gf isn't willing to wait till marriage, than wouldn't it also make logical sense that if they get fed up with you they might just divorce or cheat on you.
2) The #1 sexualy transmited disease is called HPV. It can not be blocked by a condom, It is transmited by skin contact of the thighs or areas around the genitals It leads to other desease's such as warts, etc. Your kids can also contract the desease. There was a medical case in which the kid contracted Genital warts in the mouth because the woman had sex before marriage, & had HPV. If you've had Sex, I'd recomnd getting checked.

[gOODpIRATE]

When you're 16... if you can drive... you should f**k.

wow. never really looked at things that way.

anyway, probably when i am SURE im ready. because i have this bad habit of doing somthing, and regreating i did it seconds later.

wait til' marrage? i'm hoping. am i sure? no.

[XaZnX07]

hmm when you two are mature enough, when you truly love each other your not having sex or intercourse your making love haha

.:tony:.

[minimcgrath]

just bringing back a dead topic

[*mipadi*]

just bringing back a dead topic

If you're going to do that, at least post something intelligent to bring it back.

[Levy2k6]

lol!

um... when u can drive.... legally... lol..

[PrettyBrownEyez3]

i think you spelled intercource wrong.....i think it is suppose to be intercourse
anyway......i think guys lose their viginity eariler than girls..girls have a lot risks to take and guys have pleasure most of the time

Very true. Not only that, but most guys feel they have more to prove by having it. They get to be concidered "The Man". But i think the right age is whenever you're ready and in love with the guy. But i have my own rules for myself, lol.

[Levy2k6]

Very true. Not only that, but most guys feel they have more to prove by having it. They get to be concidered "The Man". But i think the right age is whenever you're ready and in love with the guy. But i have my own rules for myself, lol.

my gf said she was waiting for Prom Night.... HER prom night.. lol. (she's one year younger than me).. im pretty sure she was joking tho... she's very protective of herself.

the right age is when you know the good and bad outcomes of doing it and understanding it fully.

Edit: ya should add SMART to the poll.

This post has been edited by Levy2k6: Sep 5 2005, 10:37 PM

[Levy2k6]

Edit: OOPPS... delete this one for me

This post has been edited by Levy2k6: Sep 5 2005, 10:35 PM

[latinprep12]

Im waiting for marriage...nothing else...its worth-it when you wait

[*chaneun*]

marriage.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

When you don't need to ask the question "Should I have sex or not?"

[WindSorcerous]

At first I would say marriage. But, as I've gotten older, I'm understanding a whole new light to this topic. Your mind has to be mature, and the moment has to be meaningful. I'm buddhist, so that is a very important key for me. I want my first time to be meaningful, beautiful and with the person I love and going to be married too. If it is before marriage, (most likely) I want it to be with the person I love. If anyone has read Ayashi no Ceres (kinda weird hopeless-romantic example, but) you might understand what I mean. In a situation like that, to me, it's acceptable.

[DizzyDucky09]

i think u should do wen ur absolutly sure ur ready for it, and ur ready to take respnsibility of wat might happen. I personally think they should be in love. "People shouldn't experience the act of love until they are in fact in love" but i mean...watever floats ur boat is fine to juss make sure ur ready for it.

[rinchan089]

I'd definately wait until I'm married. I'd have alot more respect for myself for waiting my whole life for the one person I'll spend the rest of my life with to have sex.

I'd respect a guy who waited, too, for the same reason. It takes alot of self-control to say no.

Rin-chan

[rinchan089]

At first I would say marriage. But, as I've gotten older, I'm understanding a whole new light to this topic. Your mind has to be mature, and the moment has to be meaningful. I'm buddhist, so that is a very important key for me. I want my first time to be meaningful, beautiful and with the person I love and going to be married too. If it is before marriage, (most likely) I want it to be with the person I love. If anyone has read Ayashi no Ceres (kinda weird hopeless-romantic example, but) you might understand what I mean. In a situation like that, to me, it's acceptable.

In Ayashi no Ceres, Toya and Aya CAN"T get married... Toya doesn't exist. So, if I were in their shoes, I would have sex with him if I truly loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him knowing all our children would be born out of wedlock.

I'd rather not do that, but, if I fell in love with some guy who grew into an adult in 10 nights and was raised on an island alone (with an old man who died) and, thus, does not exist (the only one who knew of his existence was the old man. Though Aya did meet him then, she had assumed he was a regular guy), I'd consider having sex lol

Rin-chan

[yupimchuck]

i think.. whatever happens, happens.
no matter the age.

[Paradox of Life]

When you don't need to ask the question "Should I have sex or not?"

Agreed. There's no right age. Whenever I feel responsible and ready.

[AngryBaby]

lol same^ i guess the best age to do it would be when your married, but....i cant wait that long

[hall0w]

married

[Maximum_Tune815]

wen u hit puberty ^^

[Nightmare_Phoeni...]

i'd say around 17/18. you should be mature enough both physically and mentally by then