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 Feb 21 2005, 01:10 PM
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Does anyone else have parents that wont really let them date??
 Im 16 and my parents wont let me. Although... i have a b/f that i love more then anything in the world! I will tell them some day. They know we like each other and when i ask them if i can hang out with him... it takes them days to give me an answer.  (if you want to get some idea WHY) I've grown up in a christian home all my life and so these standards and rules have been all i've known. (don't get me wrong, most christian familys i know don't have these rules. And i do understand them...) But once i met someone and fell in love with him... it seemed a lil rediculous. But i love my parents and respect them.... which is why i haven't told them... right. 
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Feb 21 2005, 01:15 PM
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i use to can't date but now i can....but i won't tell them i have a bf or not..
noone tells their parents if they have a bf or not |
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Feb 21 2005, 01:18 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
uhhh....the only person that makes decisions on these things are MOM...and as far as I know...she doesn't mind.
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Feb 21 2005, 01:19 PM
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I'm not really sure if I'm allowed to date.. even though I do it anyway. I don't really discuss that kind of stuff with my parents. (I don't discuss anything with them for that matter)... They barely know me. Eh w/e.
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Feb 21 2005, 01:20 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
my parents...dont mention it. i dont think they care though
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Feb 21 2005, 01:50 PM
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Well, my sister brings along her boyfriend to our house and my mother doesn't seem to mind.
My jokingly told me not to date until I was married. But yeah, I don't think I have any rules on dating judging on the way they let my sister have a boyfriend.  I don't intend to get a boyfriend, so yeah. |
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Feb 21 2005, 01:57 PM
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I think my mom is ok with it as long as he's a good person and I really like him. I'm not sure about my dad because he's really protective, but the last time I invited a guy friend to my house he was ok with him.
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Feb 21 2005, 01:59 PM
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i'm not allowed to date =\ because my parents are overprotective...especially my mom
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Feb 21 2005, 02:30 PM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
I have b/fs, and my parents used to have this huge rule that I couldn't, but I did anyway. When they asked me about it, I told them openly. They really don't care now...as long as they know we don't mess around. They don't let me go on dates that often, so I just tell them I'm meeting some friends at the movies or something.
((I live in a Christian home, too, and I agree. Not everyone has this strict of rules. |
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Feb 21 2005, 02:48 PM
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i don't know if I can have a bf or not :/
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Feb 21 2005, 03:19 PM
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I've never confronted my parents with it. They'd get ANGRY if I went out on a date. They'd be REALLY mad, & they dont belive in all that stuff. Pity me. |
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Feb 21 2005, 03:23 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
yeah.. all i have to say is that your parents suck. i was aloud to go on a date since sixth grade. lol. my parenst are pretty laid back a lot of the time. they had to meet him first, though. since then, i've become a bit more... umm... bad and yeah... so i don't let them meet the guys i date. lol. some of them are really nice, but they're older. so yeah.....
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Feb 21 2005, 03:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,556 |
no my parents let me. but it's not uncommon that some parents don't. their just overprotective of their kids getting hurt
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Feb 21 2005, 03:28 PM
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 iiiiii'm a cucumber! Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,556 |
I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16. (In... 6 months. *twirls finger* Yahoo.) It doesn't really matter though... we're moving and I'm not really looking at the moment.
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