can't understand... Options

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

if a guy has been calling me up every day for the past month
and we talk for hours a day.(if we have nothing to talk about then i say.."hmm..well i think i'm gonna go now"
and he says.."no..let's talk a little more" and "i like you" etc.)

why would a guy like that suddenly stop calling?...

what should i do??

[AnoTheRxAzN]

I dunno if I were you, but if I were the guy, I'd feel kind of sad. I mean, he did tell you he liked you. But I don't really know enough about your situation. I've been in one like this, I just ended up calling her again after a while. But I don't know, maybe you should call?

[aznhunnie6o1]

Talk to him about it.

[*stephinika*]

call him instead.

[smilz2dasun]

last time that happened to me, the guy had gotten a new gf.

[topsyturvy]

Hmm.. kyootE_krn_bebe, you say he suddenly stops calling. I dunno but the way you're saying it, it sounds like you care that he calls.. ? Do you like him?

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

Hmm.. kyootE_krn_bebe, you say he suddenly stops calling.  I dunno but the way you're saying it, it sounds like you care that he calls.. ?  Do you like him?

yea..i do..ever since i was little

[xSiLLyMex]

Thats how my xbf nd I were. Even wen were frends. Now..he stopped calling me. Nd everytime I call him..he seys hes busy. I think he found sumbudy new to talk w/. In ur situation..I think hes either busy or he found sumbudy new. Mayb u should call him up nd ask?

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

call him instead.

and wat do i say???
"why didn't you call me"???
i mean..i don't wanna sound..like a desperate b!tch..
you know??

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

a letter i wrote..it's also in the interest/writing section..

to you:

we were going to be alright together. or at least i thought we would be. this will be the third time you will be doing this to me. making me think all the good things will happen to us..and leave me lonely and cold. why did you stop?? why did you stop calling? is it cuz you don't care anymore? or is it that you never did? becuz of you i can't seem to let my fone out of my sight and out of reach even though i already know in the very back of my mind that you won't be calling. the things you said to me...i took very seriously..i don't know if it was the game you were playing..but i wish you were being sincere with me. i don't want to say anymore to you. it's not like i didn't try calling you. i did. several times. yet you're the one that didn't pick up. why?? what did i do wrong? did i say something wrong?? was it something you didn't like? but..i don't know anymore. i'm mad at myself for not being able to move on. you left me this way. now fix it! i want you to fix me!

becuz right now..i feel like i'm a broken toy that you threw in the corner of the room.

i miss you. i still care. i still want you back and i'm waiting here for you.. can't you feel it? sense it? if you didn't care..and you were gonna do this to me..you should have never sed the five words you did say.."wrong answer..i like you" why? when i guessed that you liked me as a younger sister you should have just said yes so i wouldn't be so god damn hurt. never in my life have i felt this way. for the first time in my life i actually think you're a bastard. a jackass. and all the other bad things that guys are. you tricked me. you played me. you hurt me. and you forgot me.

either that..you still care. you still miss me. and you still want me. but you can't show it or you don't want to.

i just wish..that if there was a reason to the end of our "relationship"..i just wish you would have told me and then left. so i would have known why..and so i wouldn't be so hurt.

but becuz..this letter will never get to you. i'm make a wish for you..a wish that you would know..that one day, i'll be in front of you. and i'll make you fall for me. and leave you. leaving you wondering..why the hell i left you. cuz then..you'd know what if feels like to be left alone without a clue of why i left.

i love you. i loved you. i despise you. i hate you.

don't you ever hurt me again..becuz i've cried too many nights..to where i wont be able to cry till you're dead. even if i wanted to...i'm dried out. i brokedown and you didn't even know. i was hurt and confused and all the shit people go through when they're in pain. but after all the things i wrote in this letter..the worst thing you did..was that you never knew all of the shit you put me through, you f**ker.

but..even though i called you a f**ker...why is it that i still want you?...
damn you for making me feel this way.
i dare you to do it again.

[topsyturvy]

Goodness. What a meaningful letter. I like it

But watch out though. You're sounding a wee bit desperate. I say you call him up for homework and then eventually lead to this topic.. about him not calling you. Say something like, "Have you been really busy lately?"

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

hmm...

[xj_liana_tx]

talk to him, and go casually: oh btw how come you didn't call me last few days...

[VGyrl88]

How long has he not call back? If not more than 3 days then wait a little more...There may be emergency over at his place, he's caught up in something serious, he can't see if you like him back (and is just confused in his world thinking), or (hate to say this but..) another girl moved in..?

[Shattered_Hope]

it could be that something's happening. Or the fact that there's someone else. Call him and ask..

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

How long has he not call back? If not more than 3 days then wait a little more...There may be emergency over at his place, he's caught up in something serious, he can't see if you like him back (and is just confused in his world thinking), or (hate to say this but..) another girl moved in..?

it's been about 3 weeks?...but he called a couple times..at first i didn't answer cuz i was pissed at him.. and then, i called him back and he didn't answer.

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

it could be that something's happening. Or the fact that there's someone else. Call him and ask..

well..from what he told me..he only had one gf and..he also told me that he wasn't intersted in anyone else...he lives in kali. so i can't..i know..i can't believe him..

[perfectxflaw23]

Try calling him, he'll be happy to hear from you and it won't kill you. And talk to him about it.

[*Programmer*]

man efffff the phone....confront him....ask him wtf is going on...your making it sound like a long distance relationship when it's really not. chill with him....go to a park or somthing or ask play some basket ball with him but talk with him ask him what's up...and get all of your questions out of the way.

[laur3nw]

When you see him, talk to him about it. If you 2 are good friends, you shouldn't have a problem talking about it.

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

to tell you the truth..i don't think i have the guts to talk to him.

but..i'm planning to go away for awhile..and maybe..later on
i'll go to him..and tell him then.

thanks for everyone's comments..
now..i think it might just...

oh sh!t!

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

so guess what. at the time i was writing that..
he called. yet he acts like nothing happened.
and he thinks we haven't talked in "a week or i don't know"

ok...you guys think that gurls are confusing..but
guys are more confusing..

and you know wat guys are really good at?
disappearing.

[angelrevelation]

maybe he got tired of talking everyday? i would... lol srry maybe he's going through a tough time (family problems or something) and wants to be left alone for a bit

[yukichan]

call him and ask...maybe hes having trouble or something...calling him and asking is the only way to find out..

[WrathOfOnigo]

I agree with what everyone else said... talk to him. He might think that you don't like him and just doesn't want to seem desprate by calling you every day... have you told him that you liked him?

[TrUePaInX]

i dunno....it seems kinda strange...u should go up to dat person and see whats going on...

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

I agree with what everyone else said... talk to him.  He might think that you don't like him and just doesn't want to seem desprate by calling you every day... have you told him that you liked him?

yea..i told him.. but..maybe..i mean..i might have been
a little held back..you know?..but he has been too.

[lexaa621]

maybe u said something that made him think u dont wanna talk to him so hes not talking much to u cuz he thinks something? haha ok that didnt make any sense. just tell him how u feel i guess.

[mzawesome]

call him up and ask why havent you been calling or maybe u guys can meet sometime for a movie or something

[h0y_Kalbo]

maybe he thought he was bugging you a lot? or is moving or cant use the phone since he use it to much i dont know haha

[hayan24eva]

if a guy has been calling me up every day for the past month
and we talk for hours a day.(if we have nothing to talk about then i say.."hmm..well i think i'm gonna go now"
and he says.."no..let's talk a little more" and "i like you" etc.)

why would a guy like that suddenly stop calling?...

what should i do?? 

i would probably call him first and ask him whats going on? i woudln't sit and wait until he calls me back again,,i dont know,,with mai personallity i woudlnt' wait for anyone,,,...= ( hope i helped..