Help. Sort of. Kind of. PLEASE., I SAID PLEASE. Options

[AnoTheRxAzN]

This's my first post here, so I'm new, dadadadada, and I'd really like some help.

This is kind of a long story, and it's been going on for a long while. I'm really not sure what to do with this, lots of people are telling me different things; move on, ask her out, talk to her, be friends, you get the point. I'm just really confused.


Last year, people were running around screaming we should go out, ..because we were about the only two azns our school, and those whores basically thought it'd be the cutest thing in the world (yeah, we're both short too..).

Later, we got to talk to each other. Well, she was really nice and funny, ladadada, 3 months passed, and I saw her again. We started talking a bit, but then I guess I screwed up somewhere in there. I was a total ass to her, only I didn't really see it till later.

She stopped talking to me, and she started avoided me. I didn't really noticed till I tried to say hi to her, and she just told me to go away, and ran away (Ran.). Then, I kinda noticed she *might* hate me.

We just sort of -completely ignored each other, avoided each other, just all the time. There was an empty spot at our lunch table, and it happened to be next to me, and the only one there. She didn't say anything, but she sat by a bunch of people she didn't know to eat. I don't know if I was supposed to notice that, but ouch, that hurt.

Around christmas break, (yeah, it's been going on that long) we kinda lightened up on avoiding each other. We'd actually hang out with other friends in a group, even if we never talked to each other. We'd laugh at each other's jokes and so, and yeah.

A couple weeks passed, and I hadn't seen her in a while. Out of nowhere, she just started avoiding me. And I suppose I did the same thing.

We're friends with alot of the same people, I've talked to them, asked for help dadada, they all say different things, and they all seem to make sense. I don't know what to do. Last year, people would have freaked out if I said I liked her. Now, basically I do. Only it's not the way I'd have imagined it.

Sorry if I seem kind of desperate, but I suppose I am, and sorry if the story makes no sense, I try my best. We're in 9th grade, I suppse this's a bit young to be getting into something like this. Help?

[aicilah999]

uh..i dont get it?

[aicilah999]

uh..i dont get it wut u r talking about..sry im stupid

[*jooleeah*]

^ Please dont' double post

Anyway. Your situation kind of sucks >< She probably just got freaked out that everyone wanted you guys to go out. I"m not sure if i have enough details from your situation to figure anything out though. What have your friends said?

[_sarcastic_]

^ i agree, she's probably just freaked out that everyone is like expecting the both of you to go out. give her time, get to know her better, maybe you might have a chance

[AnoTheRxAzN]

Basically, half of my friends don't take me seriously. They don't think she's the kind of person to hate someone, and they don't think me the kind of person to be such a .. uh.. meanie? The half that does, they want me to do all these different things.
"Talk to her, dada, she doesn't really hate you..", just get over her, ask her out, grab her in the hallway and tell her you're sorry (I did that before the person recommended it. It would have worked out nicely, but she kicked me. And ran away.), just get over her. Basically, I've heard everything.

And I'll try to edit it later so it's simpler.

Basically;
Boy meets girl
Boy and girl become friends
Boy and girl don't see each other for a while
Boy and girl see each other again
Girl hates boy
Boy finds out
Boy and girl avoid each other

And that's where I'm stuck.
Boy being me.

I want to say I'm sorry, but I'm not sure what to say what I'm sorry for. Not like I'd get close enough to do so anyways.

[Nugget]

o wow the same exact thing is happening to me too!! except ppl are asking me if i would go out wit the guy and all cause we asians too and basically the only ones except i saw another grl so they prolly gona go to her instead and tell her to go wit him..they prolly together now i duno..anyways..everytime one of his friend would liek pass or someting they would hey look! its ren (the guys name) girlfriend..then im like o god..we,as in me and ren,dont even tlk to eachother or even look..he doesnt even kno my name prolly...anyways they would always say will u go out wit ren!? every time and i would always say noo..and sometimes i would see ppl out of no where say look its rens gf and its really bothersome..y?? bc now i have grown a crush on him thats y..and now it sucks..i dont wana ask Him out cause i want him to approach me if he really does like me..i gota tlk to him one day..

anyways

in ur problem i would say just leave her? i duno.give her some time or something..she may come to u and say sorry or something.and if u really wana talk to her go up to her and say sorry for w.e u did and u would like to be friends or something...talk to her and be sincere..i duno

[topsyturvy]

Like jooleeah and _sarcastic_ say, she might've just freaked out at the fact that everyone wants you two to get together. She probably thinks that if the two of you are seen together anymore, everyone will start rumors or tease you guys or whatever.

And yes, it's partly your fault since you offended her with your language. Try talking to her online. Nobody can catch you guys chatting on AIM or MSN.

[--x who0ps]

whoaa thats an interesting story. well do you know what exactly you`re doing thats freaking her out ?

[AnoTheRxAzN]

I dunno.. I used to be all open with her and be loud around her till she kind of told me to piss off, and then yeah, you get the point. I guess I was an a-hole to her or something, other than that, I don't know.
I don't really think I'd bother with chatting on aim, b/c iunno if she'd really listen once she found out it was me, and it's kinda lame to be spilling your heart out when the person can't even see you, or at least hear your voice.

Right now, I don't really know what to do. I'll probably ask someone to tell her something, like I'm sorry or something of the sort. I'm just kinda confused now.

[blah1234567]

i have no idea of what to say xD well mabye you should try and talk to her when you get a chance

[*mishyerr*]

TALK TO HER. Jeez. Nothing's gonna happen if you sit at home and whine about it at the computer. Ask her for forgiveness and ask her what you did wrong and tell her you wanna try to be friends with her. Take a step.

[AnoTheRxAzN]

I did. She kicked me.

[UrF4vL!pGl0Z...]

if you try and talk to her and she kicks you again and runs. RUN AFTER HER! ok? Then be like "WAIT I ReALLY NEED TO TALK TO YOU" scream it, yeah scream. if that plan fails well then....
You could always buy her chocolates and write a cute little note.

[lilJdawg]

Well, i think that you should talk to her about it. Find out what's wrong, ask her,"why she's avioding you?" Yeah. that would help a whole grip, if you simply asked her "what's wrong?". Good luck.

[--x who0ps]

hmm well .. seeing how she kicks you and tells you to piss off.. im pretty sure that means to jst leave her alone ..

but if you jst absolutely have to be involved with her, why dont you ask your friend to ask her why she doesnt like you. make sure you tell your friend not to tell her that you asked

[whomps]

Rofl she KICKED you? Hahahhahahha..
Oh man, you must've done something bad or she just doesn't know how to deal.
She's probably confused with how she feels towards you, and kicking you (HAHAHAHA)/hating on you is her way to cope with it.

So you just grabbed her and she kicked you? Hahhaa.. Well obviously you'll never have the chance to talk to her so cross off that option.

Is she really close with any of her friends? You could ask them if she really hates you. If she DOES hate you.. well.. well that would suck.

[misoshiru]

talk to her. and be persistent.