theres this girl.., i dont know what to think.. Options

[lexaa621]

so theres this girl ive liked since 8th grade. its pathetic, but i still like her.. (im in 10th grade now) we go to different schools now but we still see each other once a week and even if i try to "stop liking her" i cant. until a few months ago she was friendly to me, talked to me a bit, smiled at me, did that "eye contact" stuff and all that, but then at her school some guy asked her out and she ended up having a bf for a week or so and then he just left her so now she just seems cold towards most guys. i tried talking to her on aim but she seems to have changed a lot and i just dont know what to do... what makes it worse is that she laughs at my friends jokes and seems to like him more than me now. i just dont get it.

and i know this is sorta changing the subject, but can someone explain the whole eye contact thing to me? theres another girl who i make eye contact with at school in one of my classes and shes pretty cute and nice and all but i doubt she feels anything for me.. just wondering. im more concerned about that first thing i said ^

[_sarcastic_]

well the eye contact bit might just tell you that she likes you or she was just looking at your direction o_O

anyways, bout the girl you like, i think you should get to know her better, and theres no harm just telling her how you feel. who knows, she might like you too.

[iheartsimba]

well..you just need to hang out. see if you still do have feelings with her. if not...it might be hard but you just have to move on...there are really so many girls out there..people just glance right past them. give other girls a chance, and dont rely on that one person.

and eye contact..its definitly important. its a sign that your listening to them. which is a lead to a very good strong relationship I think. eye contact is definitly important

[DixieDaCutie]

if uve liked her for this long, dont give up whenevr u see her, just keep being friendly& urself... if she likes ur friend more than u, there's not much u can do, just give it time... does she know u like her>?? cuz maybe she just c's u as a friend

eye contact thng __ depends... doesnt alwys mean they like u but if they notice u enough 2 look @ u, u probably have some chance


sry dunno if tht helped @ all

[y0urelectrikk]

Hang out with her more & become closer friends. if you dont think anything will happen between you two..then try to meet other people. Theres Many Fish in the sea.. as they say

[lexaa621]

the thing is that now she tries to avoid looking at me... i dunno whether its her shyness or just that she doesnt like me and we both laugh at what my friend does but i wish i could make her laugh like he does. without being a dumbass while im doing it i guess.. i just gotta be more interesting =/

[lexaa621]

[whomps]

Heh heh. I love making eye contact. Especially when both of you guys don't look away.. and it's just like.. locked.. Heh hehhehe. :D

Don't give up on the girl if you've been waiting for three years.. that's a really long time. And to waste it all would be a shame.

[lexaa621]

just for clarification:

the eye contact isnt when we're talking its like when we're across the room and end up looking at each other. made me feel warm inside lol

and its not like something that only happened once.. happens all the time. or used to i dont get girls..

[topsyturvy]

Oooh, if it's all the way across the room then I'll say it's pretty strong.
There are two options. Either she was staring because there was something wrong with you, or she's interested.

Maybe she's just hurt that her ex broke up with her.. or *maybe* somebody said something about you that makes her want to avoid you??

[d0rkbaby]

the eye contact isnt when we're talking its like when we're across the room and end up looking at each other. made me feel warm inside lol

that happens to me all the time. actually just happened today. one of my guy friends got a new haircut and it made him look sooo cute =D so i couldnt stop looking (we were at opp ends of the room too) and one time we locked eyes for 2 secs and then we both looked away.. i got the "warm" feeling inside.

dont give up! i've liked my -crush- for a year we've had our bumps. but then we had something for a while.. but then we're just friends now.
i think you should tell her how you feel. it helps if you want to "get over her" cause then you dont have the thought of "what if" and its nice to get something off your chest.

[sleepieeeXOXange...]

she's probably still hurting from her old relationship. give it time, and hang out with her, and drop hints.

[Shattered_Hope]

eye contact doesn't mean anything....or sometimes it does....depends on the situation. She may have eye contact with you because her eyes wander or w/e or the fact that she has feelings for you..you won't know until you talk and hang out with her.

[Shattered_Hope]

eye contact doesn't mean anything....or sometimes it does....depends on the situation. She may have eye contact with you because her eyes wander or w/e or the fact that she has feelings for you..you won't know until you talk and hang out with her.

[lexaa621]

what makes girls laugh or like me?

[my_sunshine]

eye contact = i like you .. usually

anyways, i think that, this might be heartbreaking but, she`s trying to avoid you because she doesn`t want to give you mixed signals? i mean, she`s liked you before, but got with another guy? and now it`s possibly that she likes your friend?

well, advice you for, it`s pretty much your choice. if you think that 2 years was worth holding on to her, then keep on trying! if you think you want to move on and find another girl, you can do that too

[yukichan]

try become her friend..get to better know her...she might have changed b/c of things she went through...well anyways get to better know the new her...and dont give up on her..good luck..

[lexaa621]

i think she thinks i like someone else... but i dunno... dont know what to do

[dilutedheartx]

theres this girl I once knew. She talked shit abotu evrybody i caught her several times. she think she can get all the clothes she wants. she takes popullaity too far. It sucks to be around girls like that. When they hate you, its just because they are jelaous or if they talk shit. the guys at my school have no clue who she is, they onyl think as her as pretty. Damn, i get so mad that karma never hits her. meet her shes a total bitch.