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 Feb 18 2005, 10:55 PM
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hm. this may sound retarded but.. i have trouble trusting anyone ever. this has effected my relations alot. this prolly goes back to my daddy not bein there etc. stuff like that. any advice. or is this to retarded of a topic
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| *mishyerr* |
Feb 18 2005, 11:16 PM
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Well. Maybe.. you should try opening up to one of the people who open up to you. Take little steps in confiding. To people.. that would appear you can trust and/or trust you.
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 19 2005, 01:51 AM
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i agree with michelle...just take little steps at a time.
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Feb 19 2005, 02:14 AM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
i've been having a lot of issues with trusting people lately too....i've come to a point where i can't even trust the people who are the closest to me. i've also become a standoffish towards a lot of people especially towards guys... thats probably not good. i think we should just give it some time i guess.....
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Feb 19 2005, 07:57 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Well, I have the same prob. Maybe because I was teased, and people used to act like they were nice to me, then, torture me when I was around them thinking they were my friends... So up to this day, I still have prob.
Well, first, get just one person, and trust them. Small steps, but, not trusting everyone is a good thing... (sometimes) |
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Feb 19 2005, 08:32 PM
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Learn to trust & open up to people more.
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Feb 19 2005, 09:26 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Since I've been hurt in the past, I never trust anyone anymore. But I get to play counsellor[sp] when people have problems.
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Feb 19 2005, 10:45 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
First off, this isn't a retarded topic. Notice now many people can relate...
Second, ask yourself this: Does anyone ever trust you with anything? Third, realize that you shouldn't LET something like your dad not being there get in the way of your trust. Don't think that everyone's out to get you. And I gree with mishyerr... Opening up to someone, at least. You'll realize that you can put your trust in someone.. :] Try not to push people away. |
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