if you loveD someone, really loved them.., how did yall broke up? |
 Feb 17 2005, 07:07 PM
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before, you felt that you really really love them.. and you did love them.
how did yall broke up? do you still love htem? |
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Feb 17 2005, 07:20 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i dont like how you use the word love.
i mean, i realy liked the person, but not as much as love. maybe later in life.. |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 17 2005, 08:20 PM
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QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Feb 17 2005, 4:20 PM) i dont like how you use the word love. i mean, i realy liked the person, but not as much as love. maybe later in life..  i agree. if you ended up breaking up...i doubt it was "love". |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:09 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just because two people really love each other doesn't mean they should be a couple, there are different kinds of love. most people who date think they love each other romantically but it's probably just a friendship type love.
i loved my first ex, i don't love him anymore, but we broke up because things just weren't working out. he was 16 i was 14, i wanted to do things with my life...i was young, i didn't want to be tied down so soon...and he was a little too clingy... i know that was a stupid reason, but hey i was a stupid little girl. he's a great catch but i believe that what's done is done, he's probably better off with someone else. |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:16 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
I went out with a girl for about 3 years. Really loved her. Wasnt a releationship based on lust. We decided to break up because her family moved all the way to CA. (Im in NYC) No sense on keeping a long distance releationship
 Still keep in contact tho.
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Feb 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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i think if you really love someone you wont break up with them...you just cant stand the fact that being apart just doesnt feel right
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 18 2005, 10:12 AM
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distance killed it...like it does all things....i still like her...but love...that's a strong word.....
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Feb 18 2005, 10:53 AM
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you cant break up with the person you love, or else ull regret it.
ive been in a long distant relationship for 2years now exactly, visiting each other every 2-3months and our love is stronger than ever.. u know its love if u work for it n keep trying.. |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:59 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
we had our diffrences in opnion and on life.so jeah.
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Feb 18 2005, 12:42 PM
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If I really love someone, I wouldn't want to break up with them..
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Feb 18 2005, 04:10 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Maybe you'd break up with someone for their own good... for example you love a person but you feel your holding them back in some way. So, you break it off to insure that they have a successful future-- even if it's not with you.
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Feb 18 2005, 04:13 PM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 17 2005, 8:20 PM) i agree. if you ended up breaking up...i doubt it was "love". thats not true people who love each other break up all the time to SAVE each other |
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Feb 18 2005, 04:34 PM
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QUOTE thats not true people who love each other break up all the time to SAVE each other QUOTE Maybe you'd break up with someone for their own good... for example you love a person but you feel your holding them back in some way. So, you break it off to insure that they have a successful future-- even if it's not with you. i agree. |
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Feb 18 2005, 04:41 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(Heathasm @ Feb 18 2005, 4:13 PM) thats not true people who love each other break up all the time to SAVE each other i really agree with you. yeahs; sometimes if you really love someone you'll sacrifice to that extent. |
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Feb 18 2005, 05:11 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I really loved or so I thought I loved my ex of 6 months. he was perfect. We broke up because:
1. I was to clingy 2. he lost his love for me so he wanted to get out before I started to really fall over heels for him 3. He only loves me as a friend.. It hurt...alot..He broke up w/ me in sept. 2004. Im still tryin to get over it..but im slowly getting over it If I really loved him I have to let him go... |
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Feb 19 2005, 02:55 AM
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I always thought about this...
If you really loved each other, then you wouldn't break up with them, cause love is 'forever'. I dunno what love is, but if you broke up with them, then there has to be some problem, it's probably more 'like-ness' than 'love' between the 2 person. I don't believe you can fall out of love. you can only fall out of 'like-ness' or interest of another person. |
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Feb 19 2005, 06:24 PM
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QUOTE I always thought about this... If you really loved each other, then you wouldn't break up with them, cause love is 'forever'. I dunno what love is, but if you broke up with them, then there has to be some problem, it's probably more 'like-ness' than 'love' between the 2 person. I don't believe you can fall out of love. you can only fall out of 'like-ness' or interest of another person. that was what i thought when i didn't love him yet.. but trust me, once you love them, you'll understand the difference. but again, what do i know? when i get older.. love could be something totally different from what i'm think it is now. i'm just on my journey in defining love, i feel it tho. |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:51 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 17 2005, 6:20 PM) if you ended up breaking up...i doubt it was "love". thats not always the case...First loves are hard to get over and most of them end QUOTE(sheepy @ Feb 18 2005, 2:41 PM) i really agree with you. yeahs; sometimes if you really love someone you'll sacrifice to that extent. SOMETIMES is the keyword. and sacrifice can mean BREAKING UP. i was in love...well i still love him... and then i had to move...alas, i decided to break it off because it would be hard enough leaving, but leaving being attached 
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Feb 19 2005, 10:52 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
mother f**king double post....stupid computer
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Mar 2 2005, 10:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
i guess your first love will always have a place in your heart and you would probably still love them..
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Mar 2 2005, 10:59 PM
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love doesn't equal being together forever. even though u may still love the person, things change and people change. sometimes it's just better for both of you to move on
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