if you don't like his friend, will it be an obstacle? |
 Feb 17 2005, 06:47 PM
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if you DON'T like your boyfriend's best friend at ALL, and you told him that.. and he understand.. will this bother the relationship between you and your boyfriend.
how about if you get married? and have kids and children.. and you still don't like his best friend, is it going to be an obstacle? you don't like the things he does with ur guy, you don't like them hanging out late at night and all that junk. |
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Feb 17 2005, 06:48 PM
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i don't know, there was one episode on will and grace once, jack didn't like grace, and will didn't like karen, it was really mutal, but then they got to know eachother and because really good friends.
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Feb 17 2005, 08:21 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well it might affect the relationship just a little depending on how close he is to his bestfriend, but it's better to be honest about you not liking his best friend.
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 17 2005, 08:29 PM
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^^
i agree. but if he's okay with it and you guys (you and his best friend) at least are respectful and considerate of each other just politely and whatnot, it should be fine. |
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Feb 17 2005, 08:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
If you guys do get married, then you'll have to see him everytime they kickit. i mean it's your BOYFRIENDS' BEST FRIEND. it might ruin your relationship because, he has to give up something for something else? Talk to him about it, when he comes over just go out with your girlfriends. [[:
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Feb 17 2005, 08:42 PM
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it shouldn't affect the relationship THAT much...but welll just tell him and he'll probably understand?
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Feb 17 2005, 09:02 PM
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 the Ray... it filters through Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 |
I don't think it should be that big of deal. You'll prolly just avoid the best friend.
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Feb 17 2005, 09:02 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
its a sacrifice you have to make to be in the relationship. it may be a problem at some point, but you just have to handle it maturly. you'll probably be seeing eachother a lot and will just have to put aside your differences
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Feb 17 2005, 09:59 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it may be a problem but not as big as you think...even if you do get married and have kids, how does his best friend factor in? it's not like he's going to be there every waking moment...that would be scary
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Feb 17 2005, 10:00 PM
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no.. i wouldn't give up someone for hatred.
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Feb 17 2005, 10:01 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Feb 17 2005, 3:21 PM) well it might affect the relationship just a little depending on how close he is to his bestfriend, but it's better to be honest about you not liking his best friend.  i agree...just try to be polite to his friend when ur around him... |
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Feb 17 2005, 10:47 PM
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Yes, it would affect the relationship.
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Feb 18 2005, 09:29 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well , jus ignore the best friend hes not the one having the relationship with you is he ?nop.
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Feb 18 2005, 04:54 PM
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QUOTE no.. i wouldn't give up someone for hatred. god, do you have a problem with my topics or me? first, you replied to my other topic saying i was picky and i should break up with my boyfriend, and now you respond to this topic and say "no.. i wouldn't give up someone for hatred. "?? wtf? i didn't ask if i should give up my boyfriend just because i do'nt like his friend.. and my dislike on his friend ISNT" hatred! get it straight. QUOTE its a sacrifice you have to make to be in the relationship. it may be a problem at some point, but you just have to handle it maturly. you'll probably be seeing eachother a lot and will just have to put aside your differences oohh!!! i really agree with what you said! thanks! |
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Feb 18 2005, 08:54 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
if his best friend was a girl, i`d have a BIG a$$ problem with that. if it was a guy, i`d just be annoyed by him being such an a$$. it would be a problem, but if the problem started to come out more, then i`d address it with my boyfriend and if he doesn`t care, that`ll be okay. but if he has a problem with me hating them, he`ll just have to accept the fact.
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Feb 18 2005, 11:40 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
well it may be a problem sooner or later.
try befriending his friend. just TRY |
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| *salcha* |
Feb 19 2005, 01:15 AM
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probably depends on their relationship
ask him. |
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Feb 19 2005, 12:23 PM
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 School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
im sorta in dat situation
my friend doesn't like the boy im messing with n he is the best friend of the boy that she is messing with 
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Feb 19 2005, 12:25 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
actually it probably wont ... cause i dont like my boyfriend's best friend either .. and well sometimes in the end though, they may help your situation ... so it doesnt affect my relationship that much t.t i still hate his best friend
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Mar 2 2005, 10:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
hmm it's like sacraficing something that you like to do with your best friend for your girl.. or something like that.. confusing..
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Mar 3 2005, 03:52 PM
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 music lover Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999 |
who cares for the best friend.
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Mar 3 2005, 09:18 PM
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i dont think that he will know his best friend for that long...i dont think it will be a challenge...
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May 1 2005, 12:16 AM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Feb 17 2005, 7:21 PM) well it might affect the relationship just a little depending on how close he is to his bestfriend, but it's better to be honest about you not liking his best friend. i agree |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 1 2005, 10:51 AM
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Well i think that would be a problem because his best friends are where he gets advice and this and everything. You should get along with his best friends to have a successful relationship.
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May 1 2005, 10:54 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
It shouldn't be. I mean, he's entitled to his own friends. Just don't hang around him while he with his friend.
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May 1 2005, 11:57 AM
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i would never tell him b/c that would ruin the realitionship between us or him and best friend......you can't tell people who they can't be friends with
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May 2 2005, 11:56 PM
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hmmm i think i would live with it.........i know it would be hard on my bf cuz then i wouldn't want to hang out with his friends.......but i love my bf's friends......they are awesome.........so the obsticle thing doesn't apply to me!
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May 3 2005, 12:51 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
oh sick shit, okay my ex's BESTEST best friend, was a f**king hottie, i never got to meet him cause yeh broke up w/ him..but his other best frd..went to my school..n f**k man i hated him soooooooo muchhhhhhhhh..
cause my bf would go high school n i was in middle..so his best frd would like watch what i did n shit..oh so gay. hah...i told my bf bout it..he was cool with it..didn't conflict. |
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May 3 2005, 02:29 AM
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boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Well, you're dating him. Not his friend.
But it's always good to have a good relationship with his friends. |
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May 3 2005, 04:38 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I think it would be okay just as long as you two don't like fight with eachother constantly because then I think it would affect the relationship. Just make sure you two won't have to make your boyfriend choose sides or something.
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Jul 1 2005, 05:09 PM
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I don't think it should be problem, just don't be all fixed on the fact that the friend is ew.
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Jul 1 2005, 09:07 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
i dont think it matters.
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