Comparison always destroys friendship |
 Feb 16 2005, 04:07 AM
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Some people just like comparing with others...
When others do better you just feel disappointed...even you and him/her are friends... Why cannot just ignore these stupid thoughts and get along well together? Everyone have different talent...why just cannot stand others doing better in some cases? Friends... |
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Feb 16 2005, 07:43 AM
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You can't. That's how life works. Everyone has compared themselves or someone with another person before. =/ See, comparing can be used for good too. You can compare what's wrong with you and try to fix it =)
I'm sorry, but sometimes I feel sad when I find out a close friend or something, likes my other friend more... x.x" But we still get along. I just envy her =x She's a great friend. =o No. Some people have no talent. I'm sorry, but it's true. Some people are just average. I think I'm one of the average people. My friends says I draw good. But, I'm not great at it. =/ So I'm below average haha. =x Friends are great, once you find the true ones for you. One person may not be the best friend for you, but the greatest for another. I have learnt through experiences that you have to accept someone for WHO they are, their wrongs and their goods (things you dislike about them and things you like about them), til you can finally be happy together =OOOO! I love all my friends. =) I just envy them a lot.. I'm the jealous type =x Life would be boring if everyone was the same. =x |
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Feb 16 2005, 07:52 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yeah..you just have to look past that. me and my friend didnt get eachother much for vtines day, then this group of girls accross the room is like "teehee i got so much lyk omg" cuz they all gave eachother a tonnnnnn...but i have a way better friendship with my friend then they do with eachtgoher =/
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Feb 16 2005, 07:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
thanks for your opinions^_^
i think i know what to do now |
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Feb 16 2005, 12:24 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
yeah comprarison is natural.
if people didnt compare themselves to tothers, they'd never know how to make themselves better. i mean, one of my friends and i are constantly somparing ourselves to one another. its friendly competiton to see who can be the best, and if anything its strengthened ur relationship as friends |
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Feb 16 2005, 02:41 PM
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yeah comparison to others is completely normal as long as you don't let it get too far...you have to keep it 'healthy' in a way.
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Feb 16 2005, 04:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i compare ALL THE TIME... well, everyone is competitive.
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Feb 16 2005, 05:09 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
^ haha me too!
I always compare myself with my friends. Some are better; while some aren't :P. But i change for nobody; so I guess it's okay. Um yeah. 
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Feb 16 2005, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 16 2005, 4:46 PM) i compare ALL THE TIME... well, everyone is competitive.  ^ i agree with you. i compare all the time but like i keep it to myself & never say anything. |
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Feb 16 2005, 10:12 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
it depends. usually when my other friends are better then me at something i support them, unless they keep on bragging THEN its extremely annoying. i compare other things (lives, relationships etc.) but its never really destroyed my friendships... i think... all my friendships that haven't worked out have been for other reasons
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Feb 16 2005, 11:17 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i agree...not only a friendship but any kinda relationship gets ruined...
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Feb 17 2005, 05:59 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
sometimes i guess I do compare myself with my friends but I keep it to myself...I barely ever say anything about it.
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