He was friendly..., until I told him I like him |
 Feb 16 2005, 03:51 AM
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BEFORE There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.
The same guy...and for like 2 months or so I've been feeling so confused, so depressed 'cause he's giving me no MAJOR signs that he likes me or whatsoever. It's not like he doesn't know I exist. We have a lot of eye contact (I mean, a lot, he never looks away), talk a bit and he basically does most of the things people say when a guy like you. So I've been trying to know this guy I like better and today...I saw this girl flirting horribly with him and at one point she was trying to touch him and he got so uncomfortable with it. So I looked at him...and said 'so now you're having fun with HER' he looked at me and seemed a little...hurt. Last night the guy like just went online (once and only time). The one I have a crush on, the one I thought that likes me. And he asked me who I like. I told him I like him after a little bit of hesitation. I dunno what happened but I asked him who he likes and he said "actually nobody". I feel SO bad, sooo lame, soooo embarassed. And after that he said bye. AFTER... There was less eye contact, close to none...and today he completely ignored me. Like I'm nothing, when he used to talk to me and stuff. The biggest slut in school was flirtinig with him and he let her. WHY is he doing this to me??? |
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Feb 16 2005, 07:34 AM
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maybe you offended him by your question. i'm not sure, ask him yourself. =) maybe someone told him something.. like maybe there's a rumour bout you out there or something.. happens to me.. ><" stupid rumours. lols! anyways, maybe he just isn't interested in you anymores... sorry, i'm no help...
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Feb 16 2005, 07:38 AM
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Is this...you scared a shy guy away?
Try your best to remain friendly as him,and just play tricks on him to get the situation back! |
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Feb 16 2005, 07:45 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
sorry... you picked the wrong guy and got shot down... it sucks, it happens
the awkwardness will fade... try ad move on, plenty of fish in the sea and all that crap. you'll be fine... promise 
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Feb 16 2005, 08:43 AM
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The problem is, he asked me who I like, so he made me think that he WOULD like me. So why is he ignoring me??
Would it be because I didn't show obvious enough that I STILL like him?? Gawd people I need help I'm sorry
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Feb 16 2005, 09:34 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
thats happened to me before. i told a guy that i liked him, and then afterwards he ignored me and told other people that i was stalking him. that jerk. anyhow, its usually that he just doesnt know what to do, so he ignores you.
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Feb 16 2005, 11:30 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Feb 16 2005, 7:45 AM) sorry... you picked the wrong guy and got shot down... it sucks, it happens the awkwardness will fade... try ad move on, plenty of fish in the sea and all that crap. you'll be fine... promise  what he said. 
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Feb 16 2005, 02:25 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Just tell him that you liking him doesnt have to effect your friendship. Tell him if he doesnt like you, thats fine, but you still want to be friends.
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Feb 16 2005, 02:27 PM
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well he probably just feels awkward now because he's now aware that you do like him...just try to relax. it'll be over (the awkward-ness) eventually.
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Feb 16 2005, 03:02 PM
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guys....can't understand them...but you just can't live with out them
Guys usually flirts with girls even if they don't like them... and you need to talk to him....tell him what the hell is going on between you two |
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Feb 16 2005, 03:07 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well , sorry btu he sems like an utter jerk what i would do is go up to him andask him why hes ignoring m - flat out basically.
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Feb 16 2005, 04:45 PM
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wow... it's like the situation i am in right now, guess i am right that i didn't ask him out.
act normal right now, that's all you can do, be happy, act so careless around him and make him wonder. |
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Feb 16 2005, 04:59 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
He's a loser, then. LOL. If he can't face the fact that you like him, then's he's a wimp. He's not worth for you to admire over. I'm like in that situation too. And my crush knows that I like him. That's when he started to ignore me.. Argh. Well try to just say hi to him. And start up a conversation. He's probably ignoring you because he's shy. =] You never know.
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Feb 16 2005, 05:03 PM
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 ;) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,573 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,124 |
Don't feel bad, it happens to the best of us.
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Feb 17 2005, 06:06 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well...the only thing you can do is tell him you were joking and that you only want to be "just friends" with him...why? becuz when you tell a guy that you only want to see him as "just a friend" he will want to be more than "just a friend."
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Feb 18 2005, 10:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
He started to talk to me yesterday. A lot of eye contact as well.
I'm not getting my hopes up but, I think he ignored me 'cause he was jealous of..this guy or something- there was this point when I was laughing with this guy (just a friend) he looked at me looking a little hurt and dashed right off. |
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