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wincyyellow
post Feb 16 2005, 03:38 AM
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My mom just cannot stand me dating guys before i finish my studies...
But what's the point?
Dating is really bad for my studies?
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 03:42 AM
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i think there's already a topic on this. anyways, none of my parents allow me to date, it's not like i'm going to. i don't want anyone to bug me on my study.. but this guy i currently like.. is studying me.. _smile.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 04:23 AM
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kinda yea kinda no. im allowed to have a bf. i just cant go on single dates, hold hands, kiss, hug. yea kinda dumb. i dont listen to them anyways
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 07:01 AM
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I'm not allowed too ... but i have one anyways, and it does affect my studies ... it's hard to balance the two, kind of hard to explain.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 11:44 AM
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i'm not allowed to, but i don't plan on it either.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:19 PM
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yes they do. and i do. its all good. actually i think my mom likes my girlfriend slightly more than me. sigh
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:31 PM
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there have been a few topics like this. My mom said I cant date until I'm 16.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:44 PM
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my parentz do.. and im only 13 +_+ lol.. but i dont plan on it.. im kinda .. tomboish? lolerz.. xD
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 02:29 PM
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yeah there have been plenty of topics on this...
but they didn't really say anything when i kind of just started...they just grew to be very strict about it.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 02:58 PM
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Long time ago my said i can't date until AFTER college...now she said i could date now
but really...who listens to their parent about dating?
 
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i dont know, it hasnt mattered yet. sigh.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 03:09 PM
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i think they know ive had bfs but they dont ask me or if they do i say eww and run :D
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE(dani41790 @ Feb 16 2005, 4:23 AM)
kinda yea kinda no. im allowed to have a bf. i just cant go on single dates, hold hands, kiss, hug. yea kinda dumb. i dont listen to them anyways
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thats exactly how my mom is !! she lets me have a bf, but she doesnt want me doing any of the conditions that comes along with it .. im like 'wtf, then whats the point?!' but i still date anyway.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 04:42 PM
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no, they are really traditional
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 08:39 PM
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they'd shoot me if they ever found me with a guy. oh well, i go behind their backs anyways tongue.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 09:44 PM
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yessire. they have never really stopped me
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 10:09 PM
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Dating is really bad for my studies?

Yes it is. It is a distraction. When you date, you go out a lot. No time for studies. When you get into a fight, you get all depresete, and you can't concentrate anymore.

I am allowed to date, but not my sister. Its quite sad, just because im a guy. Anyways, i choose not to date, but my sister is already dating. Awkward eh.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 10:13 PM
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im not allowed but i do.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 11:13 PM
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im not allowed to date but i could really care less.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 04:24 PM
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Im allowed to date...i dont understand why anyone wouldnt let their kids date..
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 04:35 PM
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Not sure, they really don't remind me everyday I can't date. My aunt and my mom seem to want me to start dating. I have a bf, I'm just thinking whether or not I should tell them about him. My dad is so psycho about guys, he threatened my bf in 3rd grade. stubborn.gif Scares my guy friends away too.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 05:16 PM
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kinda, when i kept goin out with my bf, my dad was pissed off and said that my grades will drop, and i told him i will prove to him that it wouldnt, and so i did it, so he has nothing to say now
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:06 PM
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am i allowed to date?? uhh i don`t know, i never asked - doesn`t matter ;)
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:08 PM
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my grades aren`t dropping, but then again my boyfriend is really realy smart >< so i dont wanna look stupid. its a bit hard to balance it but unles u really dont care about your work ur grades wont drop. (:
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:10 PM
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yes, my mom allows me to date. but dating does in some ways affect your studies...some can handle it..some can't.... whistling.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:35 PM
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My mom says I can't date until I'm out of college.

What she doesn't know won't hurt her..
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 06:46 PM
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my parents said that i can't date until i am 16. just about 10 more months. _dry.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 07:10 PM
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QUOTE(danishcookiez @ Feb 16 2005, 8:39 PM)
they'd shoot me if they ever found me with a guy. oh well, i go behind their backs anyways  tongue.gif
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yes laugh.gif thats wut i do but i NEVER had a bf so i never did..but i will..my sister dated a kid when she was nine and when mai parents found out.. mellow.gif ..smackd her azz..so i have to be secretive about it and make it non obvious that im dating.. shifty.gif
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 08:33 PM
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lol i dont even know. never brought any of my girlfriends over before.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:28 PM
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My parents disapprove, but don't really do anything about it.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:35 PM
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i've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months already. yesterday was our ten months! so to answer yur question, yes.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:41 PM
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no. but i do it anyway.

im doing better
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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my parents doesnt allow me to date...but one time this girl (a frd) came to my house my mom said 'ok'...too bad i dun that kinda feeling for her...
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 11:01 PM
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Nope, but like Eve said..
What they don't know, can't hurt them.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 11:29 PM
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Kinda, my parents don't really want me to date- but I have a boyfriend already. And yeah, it does affect my studies... but this time, positively because my boyfriend wants me to do really well in school.
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 12:45 AM
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haha. I have asian parents, What do you think

Hell No!

but anyways. I am always a rebel, been with my boyfriend for 10 months. It's kinda strange but when I automatically got with him, my grades had been sky rocketing. He is the one who encourage me to study, the boyfriend can effect you in a good way or in a bad way.

Mine made it good =)
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 05:25 AM
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I'm not allowed. =[ But I date anyway. Actually, I have a boyfriend right now. =]

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post Feb 18 2005, 03:03 PM
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I don't know..never really..like..told them..
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 05:45 PM
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Nope.. My parents would kill me if they found out! I would probably get beat pinch.gif

I keep my relationship on the DL (down-low) around my family.. But my real sister and one of my half-sisters knows.. They'll keep it a secret. My sister has a bf and she shouldn't either, and my half-sister I can trust her with a lot of things. :]

My father HATES guys and doesn't even like me going to a friend's house (who is a girl)! So yea.. he's crazy. And he even yelled at his friend's son because his friend's son called me to return something. He's evil!
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 17 2005, 3:35 PM)
My mom says I can't date until I'm out of college.

What she doesn't know won't hurt her..
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^ EXACTLY.. whistling.gif I think my mother would only accept me getting married when I'm 25. -_-
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 05:52 PM
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Whoa..So you kept it as a secret for 2years and 2months? (I got it right this time)
 
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