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post Feb 14 2005, 03:20 PM
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My fam works hard.



We got some descent things. Tv, computers, etc.

On the outside, we look rich, but in reality, my father works two jobs, my mom works over time all the time, i work 10-12 hours a day.

I think we are poor. We pay all our bills by the minimum, and money gets tight at times.



How is ur family status?
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:23 PM
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well, i am not "rich rich", but i can afford things i want but i am not spoiled, we still use our money for useful things
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:24 PM
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i don't think we're poor. i think we're in the middle even thought we got a lot of debts. We pay for 2 houses and the rent of the bakery. We don't have a lot of money but somehow we always make it.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:29 PM
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my dad is an entrepenaur (own his own business) and he has his own office and sometimes works from home.

my dad saves all of his money...we have a lot of nice things in our house...but hes not one of those ppl that blow all of their money on material things all the time.

the government considers us "upper-middle class".
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:36 PM
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Well, I don't care about you but.. I'M POOR!! and I'm not embarrassed to say it! I have about two or three thousand in bills and debts. My husband gets paid every two weeks and the checks are about thirteen hundred. But we have to pay bills and all that debt, plus we have kids, so most of it goes to them, clothes mostly. We're living right now check by check. Man, we need to start putting some in savings...okies, enough info.. ermm.gif See yah around.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:56 PM
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i'm sure that everyone's definition of "poor" differs. to some, being "poor" simply means that they cannot afford everything they want. idk, i think that most CBers are pretty well-off. however, different families have different priorities and values.. for example, instead of dumping money on me for clothes and CDs, my parents choose to invest it all in my education, which they believe is far more valuable.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:21 PM
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When you can't seem to buy any thing useful. I.E: Food, clothes, ect.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:42 PM
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sometimes we struggle from time to time. but we have everyday luxuries like television/dish and dsl/computer and nice cars but my parents don't really have their financial priorities straigh. :-/
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:43 PM
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ppl think they are poor when ehwy have average cloth and avarge typical 40k anual pay for a family

but u compare that the ppl at afican or something, they are so poo r that they get diease and just laying on the street to get rotten and die
so don't complain that ur poor when there much more unfortunate ppl.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:48 PM
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I guess we're normal. I don't know. Probably almost poor because my mom was going to get a second job. =x and nobody's working with her, except her bf, but iunno if he helps us pay the bills. Well, we were going to move to las vegas if my mom got this new job that could make us rich!
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:50 PM
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not being able to pay for nessesities

we arn't millionairs or anyhting, but we arn't poor. we dont have a ton of money laying aorund the house or anyhting, but i'm pretty blessed
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(mysticalazxn @ Feb 14 2005, 4:43 PM)
ppl think they are poor when ehwy have average cloth and avarge typical 40k anual pay for a family

but u compare that the ppl at afican or something, they are so poo r that they get diease and just laying on the street to get rotten and die
so don't complain that ur poor when there much more unfortunate ppl.
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true, but different societies have different standards, and technology and industry have created new needs for our society that have not spread to this.. er.. "poor African society" as much.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 05:49 PM
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Some people think I'm like, poor because of the way I dress.
Some people think I'm spoiled because of the things I have.
*shrugs

I know poeple who are worse off than me and are actually on welfare, so I limit myself to say that I'm poor.

Yes, we are on a tight budget and save all we can. I get a lot of stuff I want, but partly I pay for it.

I guess we shouldn't judge people on their wealth/poverty status just because of the person.

This girl in my schoo, everyone thinks she is like, poor cause she wears the same thing everyday and has crappy clothes and stuff. But I don't think she's POOR, she's just not rich.

And I hate people who are all " Omg, I'm getting ________. ________, _______, _______ and the latest nextel phone! " and the another day going " omg, I can't believe my mom! She wouldn't buy me ________ "
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:13 PM
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poor is like when you make $20,000 a year or less... but if it enough to have a roof over your head and food on the table then your not really poor
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:25 PM
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My parents work hard as hell.. I don't really think about being poor, I mean.. I can't really afford things for myself yet because I can't work, and my sister works and takes care of the family too.

I don't think I'm poor.. But I'm not considered rich either. To me, being rich is having anything you want and being spoiled and yadayada. And being poor is living out in the streets, with the exception of living in a house/apartment with no money to buy food/pay water bills/pay landlord/pay electric bills/is a dump.

There's a lot of things that I want that I can't have, but there's already a lot of things that I DO have.. and I guess I'm pretty much satisfied with that.

I think we look rich too, just because of our house. Our house is.. pretty damn nice, but it's really messy in the inside.

And.. meh.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:33 PM
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I wouldn't consider our family poor...more like middle class.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:02 PM
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We have dial-up; therefore, we're poor to some extent.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:18 PM
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My friends think im rich although i dont have the same opinion. it only looks that way just kus of the big house.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:48 PM
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hmm plenty of people call me rich and i guess we're not poor...but i don't think we're rich. perhaps upper-middle...we do have a decent house but not big at all and the stuff inside our house is pretty nice, but i've seen lots nicer. i guess its cause i own a lot of somewhat expensive stuff i suppose...
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:52 PM
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my mom and cousins say i am spoiled because i was born in the us and that i got much more then they did. i am glad about what i get but sometimes i forget and i compare my stuff to my friends which they are like 100Xbetter.
i define poor as people who can't afford things that they actually need like food, clothing and shelter.
DUDE, i sound like my general business teacher! scarry!
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:58 PM
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My extended family is poor. Trailor trash broke. My family is middle class. We live in a kinda crappy suburban barrio in a one-story house. All my friends are upper-middle class. They live in the nice "white neighborhood" with huge houses and luxeries that frighten me. Who has money for all that? O_o
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 08:59 PM
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My family is also poor, i wish we can win the super lottoery! lol
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:10 PM
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well..i don't think we're rich, let's say..middle class. but i'm still very thankful for what I already have.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:23 PM
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My family is middle class, but my parents have worked really hard to have what we own now. I'm proud of them. My defination of poor is too be needy and struggling to pay for simple necessities to survive.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:25 PM
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poor? poor is when you need to count your money a lot and always make sure you've not buying too much. of course theres a point where you are just completely out of money and need outside help. but most people that are "poor" can definately afford food, clothes, and the necessities. Its all the other stuff that you aren't thinking of. a CAR for example. a car drains a shit load of money if you think about it.


but i think people are getting the wrong idea of being "rich". rich is when you have too much money to spend. very few people are rich. upper-class would be a better term to use. supposedly its like when the home income is $200000+ a year, but obviously you can't put a number to it.

anyway, there are too many ways to be "poor" i doubt that you're all that poor if you have a computer and an internet connection.

i dunno, just my thougts
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:56 PM
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I think people are really poor when they start looking for money for ordinary things, like groceries, toothpaste, etc. if you're worried about what you're going to eat tonight, that's a problem. everybody has their own interpretation, though. i think i'm in the middle-lower class, b/c i have to watch how much i use for lunch money, and thats a problem: also i dont really get gifts and stuff, cuz my parents cant afford it.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 10:04 PM
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poor is when can't afford food that night. thats poor.

i don't think im poor...more like upper-middle class. I get everything i want, but i don't ask for much. We have money for whatever we need. Mostly my parents save up for college. so yeah.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 10:08 PM
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Poor is not rich. We may appear as poor but deep inside, truly... we're rich.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 10:10 PM
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My family appears rich on the outside, we have many good things 3 houses, nice things, food, clothes. But really my parents are telling me to save more because it's hard working for things we would like. I may not look like i'm spoiled but i think i am, whatever i want, my parents sometimes give in and give me it.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 10:36 PM
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hobbo homeless that kind of poor

and thats bout it...so i dont think that im poor nore do i think i am ANYTHING near being rich.......well not me....my parents......so yea.....were inthe middle ><

trust me thats what you want....well for a normal family thats what you want
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 10:41 PM
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I used to be filthy rich when I was younger...

We had a big, gated house, guard dogs, maids, chauffuers, designer clothing (well, I myself didn`t have much of those because I was 1-6 years old at the time), and cars (including a limo).
At one point, I even lived in a hotel suite.


Eh, I guess that is why I grew up to be so materialistic and spoiled.

Right now, I`d have to say my family is doing okay. We own three houses, there is no problem paying the bills, my parents have a stable job, and I get to receive most of the things that I want.

....BUTISTILLMISSMYOLDLIFE.

I believe I mentioned that I am spoiled. *Needs to learn to appreciate things* pinch.gif

xo, Pauline
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 03:59 AM
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Yeah same here. In the outside we look rich.
But in the inside, we're poor.
But God's here to save us -- wheeeee!!
My definition of poor is like people who
has a low income. That's what I think.
Under $22,000 income.
Well whatever is the lowest.
I'm not a spoiled brat either.
My sister and I worry about our lunch money
whether we still have money from my
mom's bank account.
I don't always get what I want to have.
My parents are divorced right now.
My mom is a waitress at a Korean restaurant
and taking of her 2 daughters including me.
We have a car which I'm glad that we do have one.
Well my dad is kind of rich.
But I don't always ask a lot of stuff from him.
Because I know that, that my dad is working very
hard at his work. I'll just wait until he gives me
moneys again. My dad lives in Utah by the way.
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post Feb 15 2005, 03:01 PM
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To me, poor is when you're having trouble getting by without the needs for living, aka shelter, water, food, clothing.

But I guess the middle class of people are starting to be considered poor..
Because more and more people are now able to buy more expensive things.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 03:18 PM
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Holy crap - three houses? Pft. You can hardly call our singular one a house - our bathroom ceiling collapsed the other day.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 06:51 PM
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QUOTE(SMUSHiENESS @ Feb 14 2005, 5:18 PM)
My friends think im rich although i dont have the same opinion. it only looks that way just kus of the big house.
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same here. it used to be holy shit, you must have millions of dollars, you live in a country club, well, yea we got that house for cheap laugh.gif And now people think im rich because i wear hollister... huh.gif And omg you have a summer house? Umm yea, its probably only worth 200,000 dollars though, the bottom level has mold everywere. Its reallll fancy and expensive cool.gif laugh.gif
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 06:56 PM
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my family is not rich-rich. i think i live in an ugly house, but it's pretty decent. all my friends at school thinks im some kind of rich-freak because i get all i want. it's not my fault my parents give me fifty dollars each month. people probably even get more. x.x" its not MY fault that i saved my birthday money, christmas money, and new years money. x.x" you see.. i don't like to spend. so when my friends ask me how much i have, they get all weird and stuff.. because they spent all their money and now they probably have one five cents or something.. those.. spending-freaks lol~ but i love them =x

anyways, i think you're not poor. you are in the middle. your family just shouldn't try too hard... t.t' because working too much is bad for you, ya'know? get some rest. =x tell your parents to take a rest for at least ONE day.. x.x its better than working EVERY SINGLE DAY, overtimedd and twice or something =x

good luck. hope you feel better.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 06:58 PM
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QUOTE(rememberme @ Feb 14 2005, 2:20 PM)
My fam works hard.
We got some descent things.  Tv, computers, etc.

On the outside, we look rich, but in reality, my father works two jobs, my mom works over time all the time, i work 10-12 hours a day.

I think we are poor.  We pay all our bills by the minimum, and money gets tight at times.
How is ur family status?
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Same here! I look like I be "geared" up all the time with a fresh pair of shoes every month and new clothes every week. We have a nice big tv, a nice comp. and all them other goodd xtras. But we work REALLY hard for them. I wont consider myself poor. We too pay bills by the minimum. But we're not poor. At least we WORK for our shit. Some ppl are spoiled & get everything from their Daddy or Mommy lol. I think you can feel more proud of yourself if you earn things.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 07:37 PM
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Poor... well sometimes it's not about money.

I rarely get what I want... But I mean I guess I can ask my mother for money when I need it. Money is tight for me personally, only because I hate to ask my parents for money. I try to use whatever I have, rather than saving it and asking my parents. My dad does work, though. We sort of have a decent house.. It's a house, at least. Sometimes money is tight.. :/ But I know some people who are worse off than me. But then again, I also don't have a job.. I will soon though.

I believe I am poor, then. :/
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 07:41 PM
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I actually think of poor as on the streets. I didn't think that until I went to India..
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 08:07 PM
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poor = not enough money for necessities.

i don't think your family's poor.

mine's well off, i guess. my parents have high positions in their companies and spend money wisely (most of the time), so i'm pretty fortunate for that.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 09:12 PM
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when u have no home, stuck in debt, or cant afford things you really need. That's wat poor means 2 me..
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 09:23 PM
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My family has debt. i live in a trailer, I Have a crappy car. Everyone else things we're poor, but I think long as we can survive we arne't poor. I mean, i have everyting I "need" to survive, and so does everyone else in my family. So, to others I may be poor, but my deff of poor is not being able to afford food. and my family can, most of the time.
 
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my dad is lucky enough to have a job, my mom stays at home to take care of my sister and me.
cons: uhhh..let's see, we use coupons for everything, we go to Ross to buy clothes, we buy/sell stuff off ebay for that extra money, i don't have a college tuition/allowance and i have to work for other people to buy my own clothes and stuff _dry.gif
pro: my dad has a job, i have a two story house, i have food, i have shelter
good enough for me.
 
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we have enof money to get things i want but we ave. were not rich, we have enof money to live
 
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we have enof money to get things i want but we ave. were not rich, we have enof money to live
 
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QUOTE(PAULiNE_x @ Feb 14 2005, 7:41 PM)
I used to be filthy rich when I was younger...

We had a big, gated house, guard dogs, maids, chauffuers, designer clothing (well, I myself didn`t have much of those because I was 1-6 years old at the time), and cars (including a limo).
At one point, I even lived in a hotel suite.
Eh, I guess that is why I grew up to be so materialistic and spoiled.

Right now, I`d have to say my family is doing okay. We own three houses, there is no problem paying the bills, my parents have a stable job, and I get to receive most of the things that I want.

....BUTISTILLMISSMYOLDLIFE.

I believe I mentioned that I am spoiled. *Needs to learn to appreciate things*  pinch.gif

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poor is when you have to save water to take baths no cable no electricity some days. if you can keep these things runnning consistantly you're well off
we used to be poor but now we're out of it and doing really well
 
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My family is poor. My parents used to half own the house with my uncle. But since we need the money, we sold our half to them. Now my parents pay $800 dollars each month or year (not sure) for the rooms and the bathrooms we use. It's effed up because we're family. We could split the bills but noooooo they want money.

My friends think I'm rich or something because of my house. My house is big, I guess, but my family is barely making it through. One day we're gonna get kicked out of the house because my aunt's mom and sisters are coming over from Vietnam. My parents are looking for a house or a townhouse. But even if we buy one, we probably won't be able to pay the bills and everything.
 

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