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post Feb 13 2005, 11:03 PM
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my stepdad threw a glass of water at me... and he didn't miss... isn't that technically abuse? ermm.gif



i wanna get him in trouble. i refuse to take that BS....


and my mom won't believe me... she always takes his side
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
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How often does he abuse you ? IF he does crap to you every week, that's abusing .. if he does crap to you once in a while, then that's okay.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:06 PM
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Isn't all hitting abuse? My teacher says, even hitting for discpline can be abusing. Learn to use words, not physical ability to teach your child a lesson.

or, uh, something like that.

My grandma once whacked me because I wouldn't let go of the phone. GOSH DARNIT, I WAS TRYING TO SAY GOODBYE AS SHE HUNG ME UP!
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
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eh... whenever i make him too mad or make my sister cry, i ususally get the crap beaten out of me... that's not discpline... that's messed up... it's not my fault she's a drama queen.. you can like tap her and she'll cry... it's not hard to make her cry lol (she's just 6 but still)
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
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Isn't all hitting abuse? My teacher says, even hitting for discpline can be abusing. Learn to use words, not physical ability to teach your child a lesson.

or, uh, something like that.

My grandma once whacked me because I wouldn't let go of the phone. GOSH DARNIT, I WAS TRYING TO SAY GOODBYE AS SHE HUNG ME UP
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As long she is still a good person.

My Mom always spank me every week and she blame everything on me when i didnt do anything. That's call " abusing " but she stop doing it.

HELL IS GONE _smile.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:10 PM
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QUOTE(blackmyeyes @ Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM)
eh... whenever i make him too mad or make my sister cry, i ususally get the crap beaten out of me... that's not discpline... that's messed up... it's not my fault she's a drama queen.. you can like tap her and she'll cry... it's not hard to make her cry lol (she's just 6 but still)
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My grandma was screaming at me because.. I just said I missed Vanna. (This little baby that was our neighbour's. She went to hong kong) And she started yelling.. wtf?! mellow.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:10 PM
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Sounds like abuse to me.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:13 PM
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if he does this alot...and it's a habit, then it's abuse..if it's once in a while then no, it's not "technically abuse". happy.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:13 PM
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Yes, that is considered abuse. How can someone 'beating the crap out of you' on a regular basis not be abuse? There are laws against what your step dad is doing to you, you should report him. Take care and good luck
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:15 PM
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i say...kill him while hes sleeping and eat him for dinner ^_^...

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no, but seriously, i am sorry about your situation...thats pretty bad...you should tell another adult like a teacher or something about it....i remember when i was in elementary schol...this one girl's dad used to hang her up the ceiling with rope tied around her wrist..n whipped her..so her wrists would have all these marks...pretty horrible.
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:16 PM
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^ ohmy.gif that is horrible cry.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(llpurpleskyll @ Feb 13 2005, 11:15 PM)
i say...kill him while hes sleeping and eat him for dinner ^_^...

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no, but seriously, i am sorry about your situation...thats pretty bad...you should tell another adult like a teacher or something about it....i remember when i was in elementary schol...this one girl's dad used to hang her up the ceiling with rope tied around her wrist..n whipped her..so her wrists would have all these marks...pretty horrible.
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I agree with the killing him while hes sleeping, then eat him for dinner. hehe.gif

Oh, that's horrible. What his dad did to his dauhter in the elementry school thing.. That's sad. =\
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:23 PM
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I hope he ain't drunk or something... LOL jk jk tell your mom... i hope she'll belive you though...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:29 PM
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actually he's not sober at all... he's usually trashed or high or somehow really messed up... he's pretty twisted... he strapped himself up to the novacaine machine and turned it up on high and zoned out for a while... how sick is that??



and it's not a daily basis... i pretty much avoid him so it's not that often... that's why i'm usually on the computer... i feel safer...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:35 PM
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...You should really report him. That's unsafe...
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM
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i am tomorrow... i'm gonna go to my school and say i'm not comfortable at home anymore
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM
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report his ass! immediately..you dont need that kind of shit..
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:41 PM
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QUOTE(blackmyeyes @ Feb 13 2005, 11:39 PM)
i am tomorrow... i'm gonna go to my school and say i'm not comfortable at home anymore
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i'm never comfortable at home. Even if only few rough things goes around. cry.gif I need to learn how to live!
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:43 PM
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Like others said, you should DEFINTELY tell someone. He's hurting you physically, maybe even mentally! And it's not right... that's child abuse. Don't take that kind of bs from him! Remember that no one is allowed to hurt you (um.. unless it's the government or cops because you committed a felany and they shoot a bullet at you) or abuse you in any way (unless you wanted them to... mellow.gif ).

Aww console.gif You shouldn't even question this.. Report him. Are you bleeding?
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:45 PM
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no but he's hit me and i did bleed for it fallen.gif
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:46 PM
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You should tell someone pinch.gif aww that's horrbile. I hope you feel better
 
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post Feb 13 2005, 11:52 PM
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o gosh..my dad did that at me too..but instead it hit me..but i dont think u can do anything about it...once when my family had a problem like this and the police came, they said its not abuse b/c we r still minors and thats how our parents r making us listen to them...im not sure but they said something like that...and i hope u feel better...i understand what ur going through..i went through the same thing as you..
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:08 AM
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Yeah, get help immediatley, call a hotline, the police or tell anyone you know who is responsible, trust-worthy and who would believe you
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:12 AM
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if he beats the crap out of you, like you say, the yes, THATS ABUSE.


you nedd to contact anyone, a schhol counseler even. Throwing glass at you qualifies.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM
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Eh. I get abused all the time..

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Get used to it.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:48 AM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM)
Eh. I get abused all the time..

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Get used to it.
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post Feb 14 2005, 01:15 AM
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yeah if he repeatedly does that then yes its abuse. i'm sorry to hear that, go get help.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 01:19 AM
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did that crap crack or hurt you bad? dang.... I mean slapping ain't gonna kill you but a glass of water? mmm.... *thinks* Go tell someone.... who'll believe you or something.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:12 AM
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my english teacher hammered me on the head with a stick.. it hurted so bad... and yes, it's abuse.. x.x" all type of hitting is abuse.. there's physical abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse.. x.x"

i think you are being physically abuse.. maybe you should sneak a videocamera somewhere and tape it if your stepdad ever hits you... x.x" or tell an adult you trust.. NOT your mom.. ><"
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 09:54 AM
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is it on a regular basis? but anyways, if you cant stand it, then report him. it'll probably be better if you do.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 11:37 AM
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heh, tell a councelor.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 12:15 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 13 2005, 11:43 PM)
Aww console.gif You shouldn't even question this.. Report him. Are you bleeding?
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blink.gif Bleeding?
From a glass of water? laugh.gif
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 03:19 PM
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If you did something wrong or didnt do what your stepdad told you to that *unless its unreasonable* then it aint abuse.if he just came home and threw a glass of water on you, then thats abuse.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 04:53 PM
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that's awful...with intentions to hurt, that is definitly abuse, you need to take a stand. if it ever happens at all like that again, dont sit around and wait you have to do something about it...and nick, didn't she mean the glass..the cup and all?
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 05:27 PM
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i'm sorry ohmy.gif i really think you should report it or at least tell someone

if anyone HURTS you physically that IS abuse - and no, a paper cut does not count... lol my friend thought that was abuse when her bigger brother ACCIDENTALLY gave her a paper cut stubborn.gif
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:38 PM
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it sorta is. If he does it all the time then it definately is. My mom doesnt believe me with my step dad when he verbally abuses me but I learned to ignore it. I dont like him that much
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:43 PM
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my mom slaped me a few times, yelled at me many of times, got sh*t thown at me.. i got use to it then i moved out
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 06:58 PM
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get help immediately. that's WRONG.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:05 PM
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report him, or wait till things get worse and report him so he'll get more punishment
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:07 PM
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i think it if if he does things like that all the time, but if its just once-in-awhile, i don't think he;ll get in big trouble
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:09 PM
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don't you have scars, you don't need to take taht shit from him, first talk to a consuler in school
 
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i'd try going to ur guidance counselor once the skool gets involved those bastards wont know when to quit trust me worst case scenario would b a restraining order
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:25 PM
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you NEED to tell someone! stubborn.gif it is not right for him to be throwing a glass of water at you. (not even a glass but whenever it is filled with water...)

tell your mom and MAKE her believe you. you are her daughter.

good luck. cry.gif
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 1:36 AM)
Eh. I get abused all the time..

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Get used to it.
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that just isnt right..


theres a millon and one things wrong about that sentence.
 
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post Feb 14 2005, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Feb 14 2005, 12:36 AM)
Eh. I get abused all the time..

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Get used to it.
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yah my parents hit me wiht the "gay mo so" it's this chinese hitting stick with chicker feathers.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 08:57 AM
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Does your dad do that all the time? If he did that to you once, then I don't call that an abuse? Wait... nevermind. It's called an abuse if your dad did that.
 
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