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 Feb 13 2005, 10:02 PM
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 i need an sn change.  Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746  |
o geebus.
My dad just found out that i've made out before and have a boyfriend. But he told me before i should not be dating and blah blah blah. He's gona come home soon. O crap. What should i do? |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:04 PM
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 baker o.O Group: Member Posts: 446 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,190 |
uhh nothing because its your life? haha wow over procted dad?
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Feb 13 2005, 10:06 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I say run away
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Feb 13 2005, 10:06 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
u dont understand. he's going to chew me out, send me to an all girl school, and ack. im gona die
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Feb 13 2005, 10:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Could you possibly deny it? How did he find out?
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Feb 13 2005, 10:13 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
hide in the closet 0_o...
explain to him that your mature enough and everyone goes through that stage to calm down. |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:13 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
well. my boyfriend and i like took a picture of us kissing. and he put it on as picture id on my phone. and well. guess who called at the wrong time....
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Feb 13 2005, 10:14 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE u dont understand. he's going to chew me out, send me to an all girl school, and ack. im gona die thats why you just run away..far far away.. |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:15 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i know. if he does, im seriously just going to hide out in the park for a couple weeks..
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Feb 13 2005, 10:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Bah. That happened to me once...except we were making out on Halloween and my mom caught us... The guy...he ran. I just sat there going "uhhuh" "okay" and started making answers to her million questions shot at me...
 Anyway...there's not much you can do. Is your mom siding with you? |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:17 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
my mom and i hate each other.
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Feb 13 2005, 10:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Oh..sorry. =\ Do what Steph said..or just go to a friend's house and stay there.
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Feb 13 2005, 10:19 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i duno. how bout like i be mature and tell him like to meet with him and see what he thinks of him?
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Feb 13 2005, 10:19 PM
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 Whats wrong with my life? Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755 |
taht works....
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Feb 13 2005, 10:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Yeah! Lol...why didn't I think of that. Poo.
Anyway, if you plan on doing that, hope it goes well. :] |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:20 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
Ahahaha. let's hope im still alive tomorrow.
:( valentines day. i miss my honey. |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
You'll be alright.
 When my mom caught me.....hahaha that was..amusing. :] It's illegal for parents to kill their kids. *thumbs up* Happy V-day! :D |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:39 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
run!!!!umm well talk to ur dad...and introuduce ur bf to him..if ur dad finds hes responsible he might not get that mad....
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Feb 13 2005, 10:47 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
When your dad comes home, APPROACH HIM ABOUT IT FIRST. That shows maturity and that you are dealing with your responsibilities. Tell him how sorry you are about having to keep it from him but then explain that you didn't think he would accept it and that you really liked this guy. Tell your dad that you want to continue to see this guy but if it's not okay with him, you won't. That also shows maturity which will be a big thing in this talk. Then ask if your dad could please meet him so he could make his own judgements and see what a nice guy he really is. Good luck =)
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Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM
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^^
i agree. but yeah i'd be murdered too if my parents knew what i've done.  so good luck!!
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Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM
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y'all can run all u want. it'll still haunt u, and u'll still have to face it. grow up, stfu, and just deal with it. BE A MAN, er....BE A WOMAN! sit down, tell him that ur old enough to have a bf, tell him how ur not going to let him affect ur grades or whatever, tell him that ur growing up and that u need ur freedom, tell him how ur sorry for lying about not having a bf, tell him u want him to get to know ur bf, etc etc. running from ur problems never works. makes them worse.
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Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
yea u should say ur old enough to have one or ur responsible on ur own mistakes and that ull learn from them..and that its ur life and if u choose to have a bf u will and if u get hurt then its ur fault..i duno..dont listen u me..u prolly already faced ur dad anyways x)
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Feb 14 2005, 12:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
mann i wuda been in deep crap w/ my parents if they found out... if i waz u , honestly i wud be screamin bakk at my parents, but then again they juz wanna protect me... but THEN AGAIN, we're growin up , we not their lil 1 yr old babies nymore, we're teenagers...
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Feb 14 2005, 12:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
sry i posted ...again
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Feb 14 2005, 01:21 AM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
Just tell him ur really really sorry! It works everytime. ;)
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Feb 14 2005, 01:54 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
its part of life. You can't change time, so be brave and go through it. Its not like he's gonna kill you right?
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Feb 14 2005, 09:44 PM
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 the chick who is the alien Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 |
just explain to him about it
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Feb 14 2005, 09:46 PM
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 who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
i agree with the other people.just explain it to him.i hope it works out.
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Feb 14 2005, 11:45 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM) ^^ i agree. but yeah i'd be murdered too if my parents knew what i've done. so good luck!! my parents would kill me if they knew that i'm not a virgin...  just talk about it...my parents didn't want me to date until i was in college...when they found out about my boyfriend they were mad but they eventually accepted it you're parents just want the best for you...even when they don't show it  they don't want you dating so you'll do good in your school work...just let them meet him and prove that he's a good guy...you're grades are good right...? if not you can always say that he's helping you do better  that's what i say to my parents  it'll be a lot worse when you come home after you've run off...they'll be more pissed... |
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Feb 15 2005, 04:39 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
how'd he find out?
edit.// wait. oops, sorry. deny everything u possibly can. say it's ur ghost twin-sister ??? i dont know.. or u can tell him that he's stupid for not letting u date.. blah blah blah*.edit.edit.// shouldnt be dating at 18?? wow.. that's a biggie. |
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Feb 15 2005, 04:46 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
dont run away, it'll probably make things worse. sit down with him and talk to him about it.
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Feb 17 2005, 08:32 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
tell him you were a victim to the guy's words and actions...show him that you regret making out with this guy..he'll feel so sry for you, he'll forget the whole thing...at least....you better hope he does.
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