Question on Sex!, Does it hurt the first time? o.O |
 Feb 13 2005, 03:04 AM
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There will never be a day when I won't think of you  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,522  |
Curious...
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Feb 13 2005, 03:06 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Depends on how the guy is doing it.
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Feb 13 2005, 03:06 AM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Depends on how the guy is doing it.
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Feb 13 2005, 07:37 AM
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 Brittney Bo Bittney!! Group: Member Posts: 581 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,282 |
diddo...^^
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Feb 13 2005, 09:02 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
um.. idk.
diddo?? isnt it ditto? |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
^ probably her own special way of saying it?
anyway...i have never experience it so i wouldn't know |
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Feb 13 2005, 10:38 AM
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Brittney Bo Bittney!! Group: Member Posts: 581 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,282 |
haha yeah I dunno thats how I spell it?!?! look in the dictionary if u care so much! lol
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Feb 13 2005, 10:41 AM
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 This Life Has Been A Test... Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,729 |
i wouldn't noe...i heard it does though...
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Feb 13 2005, 10:49 AM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
i heard it does.
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Feb 13 2005, 11:24 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
too much information..lol
OH YES. IT DOES. SO DON`T HAVE SEX. 
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Feb 13 2005, 01:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,119 |
**Jessica posting**
My first time didn't hurt. Don't get grossed out by this, but if you have your guy finger you a lot before you do it...not like right before but I mean like if you guys hang out and stuff and if he fingers you every so often then and then you guys have sex...because of him fingering you it stretches you out. I am pretty sure that's why my first time didn't hurt... :-) |
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Feb 13 2005, 01:21 PM
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Go ask your mommy.
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Feb 13 2005, 01:24 PM
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Yes, it is.
Because the first time you do it, the guy breaks the hymen. And that probably hurts. And it also depends on the guy and if he's doing it too hard... or erm, y'know. Hope that was pg-13.... 
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Feb 13 2005, 01:26 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
usually it does hurt...some people dont feel it as much as others...
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 13 2005, 01:37 PM
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For some girls it hurts the first time because the hymen is torn.
However, some girls' hymens have already been torn (tampons, horseback riding, etc.) so it doesn't hurt. 
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Feb 13 2005, 01:39 PM
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Yes. Don't do it. He'll give you STD's!!11one!
Well, yes, it does depend. It may or may not hurt. And it may hurt a lot or a little bit. And even if it doesn't hurt your first time, it may hurt the following few times. yeah. |
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Feb 13 2005, 01:51 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
you'll probably die. so dont do it. yup yup.
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Feb 13 2005, 02:24 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
It depends on you, if your nervous, it will hurt, but if your relaxed and calm, it won't. I learned that in SEX ED!!!
 I feel so proud for listening. 
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 13 2005, 08:28 PM
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yeah it all depends on the girl really...like most said, mainly depends on whether the hymen is broken already or not.
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Feb 13 2005, 08:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
^^ yah it depend on how you fel.
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Feb 13 2005, 09:59 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE you'll probably die. so dont do it. yup yup. If you have sex, you will die...Havent you seen Mean Girls |
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Feb 13 2005, 11:02 PM
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QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 13 2005, 8:28 PM) yeah it all depends on the girl really...like most said, mainly depends on whether the hymen is broken already or not.  so if your athletic your hymen is most likley broken? i skateboard on the halfpipe and i fall hard sometimes...do you think its broken or no? sorry for asking so many questions. im just curious. iv never had sex before either. thats why im asking all this...please someone answer my question |
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Feb 13 2005, 11:25 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i heard from my friends who have done it that it does hurt the first time. also to answer gponce10104, it kinda is a most likely if you're athletic. and uhh for you it might be broken. idk.
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Feb 13 2005, 11:30 PM
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 Clawdia/Violette wants ur eyeballs Group: Member Posts: 2,116 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,477 |
pain is good.
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Feb 13 2005, 11:34 PM
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DON'T HAVE SEX! EVER! You'll die a thousand times if you do, and burn in hell with Satan himself
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Feb 13 2005, 11:35 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 13 2005, 1:21 PM) Go ask your mommy. lmao. no it is said to not hurt for all females. |
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Feb 13 2005, 11:40 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
I wouldnt know cuz i havent had sex yet. But i heard(sp?) that it dose hurt.
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Feb 13 2005, 11:41 PM
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it depends. its different for every girl.
personally it was pain that didnt really hurt...it was bearable pain. But my other friends say it did and they couldnt stand the pain.
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Feb 14 2005, 12:18 AM
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Lolz, I've seen Mean Girls~ Such a funny movie!
"Don't have sex, because you will get pregnant and die! Don't have sex in the missionary position, don't have sex standing up, just don't do it, ok, promise?" - Coach Carr If its ur first time, then it will hurt like others have said previously. I haven't had sex but yea, it'll hurt a lot for some and not much for others. |
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Feb 14 2005, 12:25 AM
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QUOTE(HotStuffff09 @ Feb 13 2005, 10:38 AM) haha yeah I dunno thats how I spell it?!?! look in the dictionary if u care so much! lol i'm glad you didn't put a l instead of one of the d's... anyways... for some it does, for others it doesn't. it depends on certain factors, i.e. the dude, the dude's techniques, the sexual position [now, now children... play nice], and the girl of course. p.s. - i never actually encounter sexual activities[ha... i sound like it, huh?], so don't ask me specific questions. |
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Feb 14 2005, 12:43 AM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 13 2005, 1:21 PM) Go ask your mommy. LMAO!! yup shes right, u should ask ur mommy about it, but i know that i coulda never asked my mom that, so ummm, like mostly everyone else said, it really depends on the person your with, if they really want to hurt u they could, so i would definitely make sure the 1st on is the right one cuz u only get one chance to make that decision, once u give that away u cant give it to someone else, the first time that is. i shoulda listened to my mommy when i was ur age cuz if i could change it i would......... |
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Feb 14 2005, 11:43 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
i wouldn't know.
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Feb 14 2005, 12:05 PM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
Eww how would I know?
Don't wanna think about it .. nope nope not me. Having the s word after wedlock is the way to be!! 
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Feb 14 2005, 04:51 PM
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~*Pretty Girls Make Graves*~ Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 93,989 |
Like everyone says it just depends if the hymen is torn already or not. Like my first time didnt hurt..and I was so freaked out it was going. It also depends how gentle the guy is with you..if it is your first time, let him know that way he doesnt scar you for life!!
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Feb 16 2005, 08:49 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
ha ha but i bet once you get goin its not gonna hurt anymore...its gonna be fun
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Feb 16 2005, 10:06 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
for all of you who keep saying "i wouldn't know i haven't had sex" get the fuccck out then...this topic is meant for people who have/who know...
and yes, by the way, it hurt for the first couple times but now it feels great =) |
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Feb 16 2005, 10:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
AHAahahha.
You're funny. My sister told me when she did it (and it was her first time) that it hurt. Only because his "goods" were way too big. AHAHhahaha. |
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Feb 16 2005, 10:57 PM
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QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Feb 13 2005, 8:02 PM) so if your athletic your hymen is most likley broken? i skateboard on the halfpipe and i fall hard sometimes...do you think its broken or no? sorry for asking so many questions. im just curious. iv never had sex before either. thats why im asking all this...please someone answer my question You have to be REALLY athletic. It doesn't really have to do with injuries, just being althletic.. Like say if you ran ALL the time and did track and I don't know. QUOTE(tresa1992 @ Feb 16 2005, 7:27 PM) AHAahahha. You're funny. My sister told me when she did it (and it was her first time) that it hurt. Only because his "goods" were way too big. AHAHhahaha. Wow, I would be terribly HORRIFIED if my sister EVER talked to me about her first time or even sex in general.. Gosh that's it's sickening to even think about it EWWWWWWWWWWW. I mean.. it's my sister!!! |
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Feb 17 2005, 12:25 AM
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Think it yourself!!!!See you love him or not!!!!
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Feb 17 2005, 01:15 AM
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 title? Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,676 |
....lol it does and if you pay attention in biology and life science, youll learn all about thos special organs
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Feb 17 2005, 02:27 AM
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Gosh darn, do you guys watch Bernie Mac???
"SEX IS BAD. AND IT HURTS." Duh. |
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Feb 17 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
Lol..if you have sex..you will get chlamydia and die
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Feb 17 2005, 02:21 PM
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 aka babiebubblez03 :o) Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 |
haha it didn't hurt for me... well... as far as i can remember.. and since i dont remember that well, i'm guessing it doesn't. But I wasn't 13 either... so I dunno for you youngins... lol who shouldn't be having sex in the first place ;)
My hymen didn't break either, so i'm guessing it was already broken 
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Feb 17 2005, 02:43 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE But I wasn't 13 either... so I dunno for you youngins... lol who shouldn't be having sex in the first place Just because you're young doesnt mean anything...i really dont think that they should have an age on when u can have sex. Bc in MI, 16 is the legal age..and I kno a ton of ppl who have had sex before 16! |
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Feb 17 2005, 03:36 PM
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 To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
my first and only question.. how old are you? wait until marriage... once you have a sexual relationship with a guy feelings get attached and then when one breaks up with the other it will cause SOO much drama and it will explode and you will wish you never had sex with him... dont get me wrong sex is a the most amazing thing ever, thats amazing when you find that special someone that you are going to spend the rest of your life with and be faithful to.. so yeah wait until you are marriage(i wish i did that so now i'm preching to everyone to wait until marriage lol) so yeah just wait..in the end it will be worth the wait :)
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Feb 17 2005, 09:08 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(bravodancer04 @ Feb 17 2005, 12:43 PM) Just because you're young doesnt mean anything...i really dont think that they should have an age on when u can have sex. Bc in MI, 16 is the legal age..and I kno a ton of ppl who have had sex before 16! what the f**k, they cant make it illegal for you to have sex if your under 16. it is considered stagitory rape or whatever if your under 16 and the person is over 18 but other than that there can't be laws making it illegal for you have sex. |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:24 PM
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 the Ray... it filters through Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 |
It won't hurt if you're a guy.... unless you're doing it horribly wrong.
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Feb 17 2005, 09:29 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
heh. i honestly thought it hurts for first timers
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Feb 17 2005, 09:40 PM
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QUOTE(babiedoll03 @ Feb 17 2005, 2:21 PM) haha it didn't hurt for me... well... as far as i can remember.. and since i dont remember that well, i'm guessing it doesn't. But I wasn't 13 either... so I dunno for you youngins... lol who shouldn't be having sex in the first place ;) My hymen didn't break either, so i'm guessing it was already broken well like how the other person said: 'when i had sex it hurted becuase his 'goods' were big...' something like that but to get to the point mabye your guys 'goods' were not huge or something so then i didnt hurt.. or like you said your hymen was broken...i think its the second one i think though... |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:42 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 13 2005, 9:59 PM) If you have sex, you will die...Havent you seen Mean Girls hahahahaha yes. and he hands them condoms anyway. |
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Feb 17 2005, 09:57 PM
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no, it is not supposed to hurt whether your hymen is still attached to you or not
when a girl is really ready to have sex, it won't hurt. but if she's unsure, her vagina stays shut because her body is telling her that she's not ready and also, you're not supposed to bleed anytime you have sex...if you do then the guy must have torn some of your inner tissues it's something like that, that's what i learned in sex ed, this sex therapist lady came in |
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Feb 17 2005, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 13 2005, 1:21 PM) Go ask your mommy. lol..exactly |
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Feb 17 2005, 11:44 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
i dunno
but ppl keep making sound of moarning or scream when sex happen =P so yes i think it must hurt first time! |
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Feb 18 2005, 02:33 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 17 2005, 7:57 PM) no, it is not supposed to hurt whether your hymen is still attached to you or not when a girl is really ready to have sex, it won't hurt. but if she's unsure, her vagina stays shut because her body is telling her that she's not ready and also, you're not supposed to bleed anytime you have sex...if you do then the guy must have torn some of your inner tissues it's something like that, that's what i learned in sex ed, this sex therapist lady came in no. if the girl has done OTHER things before having sex then it won't hurt as much..but if not, its obviously going to hurt |
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Feb 18 2005, 02:37 PM
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My first time didn't hurt... at all [yes, because we did "other things before]. It wasn't till the 2nd and 3rd times that it did
 But it's bearable. 
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Feb 18 2005, 02:38 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Feb 13 2005, 3:06 AM) Depends on how the guy is doing it. lmao exactly |
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Feb 18 2005, 03:08 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
If hes too big (in that way >__>) he could tear you open and then it gets all bloody and ooky and just plain icky.
We're gonna scare this girl so much shes never going to have sex... In all seriousness, it does but only because your cherry's popping. For some girls it already may have becuause of tampons. |
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Feb 18 2005, 10:38 PM
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I wouldn't know because i didn't have sex & i'm saving it 'til marriage.
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Feb 18 2005, 10:47 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
hmm yea ive heard it hurts...
but i guess pleasure overpowers pain~
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Feb 18 2005, 10:53 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE If hes too big (in that way >__>) he could tear you open and then it gets all bloody and ooky and just plain icky. aww..dont scare her lol |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:06 PM
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... your like 12.. "7 February 1992"
jesus dont even worry about sex or you'll prolly end up liek a slut in grade school god i hated those girls... my g/f said it didnt hurt and im pretty well equipt she doesnt play alot of sports but then again i was gentle so idk what to tell you maybe you should wait till your older to worry about it |
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Feb 18 2005, 11:10 PM
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 she doesn't even know Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 |
QUOTE(XxSpitBubblexX @ Feb 13 2005, 1:20 PM) **Jessica posting** My first time didn't hurt. Don't get grossed out by this, but if you have your guy finger you a lot before you do it...not like right before but I mean like if you guys hang out and stuff and if he fingers you every so often then and then you guys have sex...because of him fingering you it stretches you out. I am pretty sure that's why my first time didn't hurt... :-) that's sorto..... different.
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Feb 18 2005, 11:40 PM
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Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer
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Feb 19 2005, 01:05 AM
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wouldnt know... but i heard taht for alot of girls it does =P
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Feb 19 2005, 01:27 AM
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 ambition would be made of stronger stuff Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,098 |
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Feb 13 2005, 1:51 PM) you'll probably die. so dont do it. yup yup. lmao. and just repeating for like the 100th time, it depends. 
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Feb 19 2005, 12:18 PM
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 School's out...Summer's IN Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,177 |
yeh when he starts entering for the first time it hurts..but all that screaming is unnecessary..it feels good after a while..n ditto to "it depends on the guy"
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Feb 19 2005, 01:11 PM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Wow whats up with everyone tellin her not to have sex...she never sad she was going to shes just asking a question...so dont give her a bunch of crap she doesnt want to hear.
And like everyone said it depends on how "loose" you are and whether or not your hymen has been broken. For some it doesnt hurt at all and I know some people who had to try a few times before they succeeded becuase of the pain. |
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Feb 19 2005, 01:11 PM
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Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
Wow whats up with everyone tellin her not to have sex...she never sad she was going to shes just asking a question...so dont give her a bunch of crap she doesnt want to hear.
And like everyone said it depends on how "loose" you are and whether or not your hymen has been broken. For some it doesnt hurt at all and I know some people who had to try a few times before they succeeded becuase of the pain. EDIT:sorry for the double post |
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Feb 19 2005, 01:15 PM
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yep it does
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Feb 19 2005, 02:24 PM
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ask yourself, do you want to die?
i think not
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Feb 19 2005, 05:15 PM
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yeah, a lot of people who do sports probably already have their hymen torn
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Feb 19 2005, 10:26 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Feb 18 2005, 9:40 PM) Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer are you joking??? if not, im so sorry! |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:42 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer Umm...im hoping you're either joking, or..hmm..yea |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:44 PM
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yes i am joking
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Mar 12 2005, 05:49 PM
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yea it does da first time (if ur a grl)...unless ur hylm (spelling?) has already been broken somehow..
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Mar 12 2005, 09:30 PM
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it depends on the girl but it also depends on the guy. if the guy is big and your small it will hurt even if u have broken your hymen.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM
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Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE i dunno but ppl keep making sound of moarning or scream when sex happen =P so yes i think it must hurt first time! lol..umm the moaning and screaming isnt cuz it hurts.. |
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Mar 12 2005, 09:39 PM
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um well depends how stimulated the girl is , if shes stimulated enough it wont hurt as much.
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Mar 13 2005, 03:30 AM
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Break the hymen? But what if you use tampons - Doesn't that do it?
Anyway - how is this pg-13? |
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Mar 13 2005, 07:42 AM
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I wouldn't know, but I heard it hurts. ><
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Mar 13 2005, 02:26 PM
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Well I think if you have someone whose inexperienced it would hurt cuz he doesn't know how to position it yet...and if you have someone more experienced they would understand...and I think it doesn hurt the first time cuz yur tissue down their rips!!!...but once you do it it feels good and yu keep on doin it...cuz yu have done it b4 and the tissue would already been stretched and healed...and it won't hurt unless the nexx guy is bigger...hehe
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Mar 13 2005, 04:26 PM
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My first time having sex did hurt alot. I didn't bleed at all during sex, so I didn't have to worry about any 'mess', but becausemy vagina had only been used to small, tampon size stretching it, having a larger object (penis) stretching it caused most of the pain. Though after maybe 20 minutes, it wasn't so bad.
The next day though when I went pee, it stung a little peeing, and I had little spotting of blood, but other than that, it wasn't so bad as everyone had said it would be. But then again, everyone's body is different, and handles things differently |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Feb 13 2005, 9:02 AM) um.. idk. diddo?? isnt it ditto? yeah its ditto Well it probably depends if your body produced some type of liquid or something.. like if you were raped... it hurts b/c your body didn't produce the fluid to make it go smoother and less painful..(heh... thanx to health class..im just so educated) |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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The first guy I had sex with, didn't hurt at all. However the second guy...did. very much so. His shlong was a lot bigger though.
But yeah...all depends on size, if your hymen is torn already and...I had to be like, disgusting how wet you are. I mean, if it's slippery...it'll go in without having to be like...forced. |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:44 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(brainxdamaged @ Mar 12 2005, 3:49 PM) yea it does da first time (if ur a grl)...unless ur hylm (spelling?) has already been broken somehow.. have you even had sex? im sure 1/2 the people who answered in this topic have never had sex. everyone is different. my first time didn't hurt really at all, the day after i was a bit sore but oh well |
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Mar 13 2005, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 13 2005, 9:59 PM) If you have sex, you will die...Havent you seen Mean Girls lmao, i saw it, and i agree. Virgins for life... or non virgins w/o a life lol jpFrom what i have heard, it depends on you. Also it depends on the guy. If he makes sure ur relaxed, and hes not rough, than it shouldnt hurt alot. But if your tense and worried, and ur muscles are tight, then it would prolly hurt more Hope that helps 
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Mar 13 2005, 05:08 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Mar 13 2005, 4:32 PM) The first guy I had sex with, didn't hurt at all. However the second guy...did. very much so. His shlong was a lot bigger though. But yeah...all depends on size, if your hymen is torn already and...I had to be like, disgusting how wet you are. I mean, if it's slippery...it'll go in without having to be like...forced. That's why you buy lubricated condoms, hello. It's not entirely soaked, but enough so it lessens the friction and lets it in easier. |
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Mar 16 2005, 03:15 PM
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I havent had sex yet, but i have a pretty good understanding about it, most likely if it hurts, its just your mind making you think that it hurts..or your doing something wrong..or its how the guy likes to do it.
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Mar 16 2005, 03:41 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Mar 16 2005, 3:15 PM) I havent had sex yet, but i have a pretty good understanding about it, most likely if it hurts, its just your mind making you think that it hurts..or your doing something wrong..or its how the guy likes to do it. You can understand sex a bit, but you can't understand it 100% until you've had sex. It DOES hurt your first time having sex, that is unless you use dildos/vibrators, and have already gotten used to larger objects being put into your vagina. |
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Mar 16 2005, 10:31 PM
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lols [: i just noticed that the question was if the first time hurt, but then we changed it to how to spell "ditto / diddo" . but it is ditto [:
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Mar 16 2005, 10:48 PM
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QUOTE(ch33sylici0us @ Mar 13 2005, 12:30 AM) Break the hymen? But what if you use tampons - Doesn't that do it? Anyway - how is this pg-13? Tampons don't usually break your hymen, I've worn tampons for a year and my hymen isn't broken, plus all my freinds I knwo wear tampons and they havn't broken their hymen, so ya, I think ti's rpetty rare to break your hymen that way... |
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Mar 16 2005, 11:09 PM
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it really depends on alot of things like the guy and how u are on the inside like how your bulit everyone is different
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Mar 16 2005, 11:26 PM
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QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Feb 18 2005, 8:40 PM) Yes. it does. I was 6 when I did it. Hurts like a mothereffer you were six?!?!? ...okay, you gotta be joking or maybe a spelling mistake? ...I really hope you meant 16...umm, otherwise, that's kidna scary  EDIT ahh, good, you were joking *phew* |
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Mar 16 2005, 11:45 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Feb 17 2005, 6:08 PM) what the f**k, they cant make it illegal for you to have sex if your under 16. it is considered stagitory rape or whatever if your under 16 and the person is over 18 but other than that there can't be laws making it illegal for you have sex. hmm, well I don't know....my mom once read a list out of the newspaper about which countries have laws about sex and how young you're allowed to have sex...I have no idea why she was reading this to us, it was really embarrassing, umm, maybe she was trying to give us a lecture or something, I donno...anyway, I don’t' remember exactly what the list said but it was something like, country #1 sex illegal below 18, Country #2 sex illegal below 16, country #3 sex illegal below 14, country #4 sex illegal below 13. At the country #4 my mom was like "omg, I can't believe they let children have sex 13 and above, that's just horrible, I can't believe it, it's just so blah blah blah etc." hmm, ya, she got kinda worked up... ...that’s what I remember anyway, I could be wrong, it might not have been laws just kind of what’s acceptable or something... |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:34 PM
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QUOTE Tampons don't usually break your hymen, I've worn tampons for a year and my hymen isn't broken, plus all my freinds I knwo wear tampons and they havn't broken their hymen, so ya, I think ti's rpetty rare to break your hymen that way... you can TELL if your hymens broken ? i dont think you can, not that i know of. its just a little skin unless your sticking our finger up there to check if your hymens still intact .. how would you know? its not really rare. thats how a lot of girls break their hymen before sex. and yeah pretty much what other people have said. it hurts the first time if your not wet or lubed cos it feels like hes forcing it in. and if its bigger it hurts more because your vagina has to expand more and all that. |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE(actionrobot_go @ Feb 13 2005, 11:34 PM) DON'T HAVE SEX! EVER! You'll die a thousand times if you do, and burn in hell with Satan himself LMAO. i heard it hurts. i dunno though. i never tried |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE i dont think you can, not that i know of. its just a little skin unless your sticking our finger up there to check if your hymens still intact .. how would you know? its not really rare. thats how a lot of girls break their hymen before sex. uh yea.... how do u kno if its torn????
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Mar 29 2005, 05:56 PM
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Dude, I'm in like Middle school and half of the girls at our school arn't virgins anymore. This girl just started going out with this dude and they had sex within the first few weeks they were going out, then like the next day shes like "Oh The first time hurt so bad".. and it was just sick.
They arn't even togetther anymore. It sickens me.
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Mar 29 2005, 08:58 PM
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For some girls, it hurts as much as a hiccup. For some, it causes them tremendous pain. Even if their hymen has been broken by some other means (tampon, strenuous physical activity), it could still hurt a lot for them. In addition, it also depends on how gentle the guy is. Usually, its a little less painful for the woman to be on top the first time, because she gets to control how much of the guy's equipment can go in. Some people never even fully insert it inside the first time because it could be so painful. But you just gradually get used to it, and it becomes a lot better.
Don't worry though, every girl varies. |
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Mar 29 2005, 09:00 PM
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my first time did hurt and i was soar all the next day but it was worth it
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