hardest thing about a relationship, what is it? |
hardest thing about a relationship, what is it? |
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what do you think is the hardest thing about a relationship?
well i'm asking yall.. i haven't decided.. haha. |
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#2
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 ![]() |
not getting jealous, and stuff about insecurity
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#3
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saying good bye for the last time
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trust. insecurity.misunderstandings..the list goes on.
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#5
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i agree on the insecurity, but i don't think that would be my hardest..
saying goodbye.. i hope that never happens.. maybe it will one day... but i wouldn't think of it. |
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#6
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Saying good-bye and getting one last kiss.
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#7
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Getting a piece of your heart ripped off and being stepped on over and over again
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*AngelicEyz00* |
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no sex.
that would be the hardest thing about not having a relationship. Sorry! ![]() |
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#9
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Hm. not being jealous & whatnot.
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#10
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
i agree, saying goodbye for the last time and trust
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![]() ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 ![]() |
problem with realationship is how long it will last. What is the common thing that link them together. But when you share so much info to each other you know almost everything and thing began to get more quiet. THat where sex come along to link pplk together, SO now the problem is "when is the right time to have sex?"
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
breaking up is always the hardest thing
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 ![]() |
breaking up.misunderstandings.
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 ![]() |
yeah.. misunderstandings. saying goodbye...
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*stephinika* |
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probably all the insecurities.
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#16
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![]() the chick who is the alien ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 ![]() |
the jealousy is a big part and then i guess insecurity with misunderstandings
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![]() damn u got owned! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 ![]() |
getting one. and that last moment you guys will ever talk again.
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#19
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how to make it last. that's probably the hardest.
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#20
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Yeah, Saying goodbye-
but i dont know if you mean in the way of... forever like death... or break up. but- what im going to have to deal with this year soon ![]() i see those as hard hard days ahead of me ![]() |
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#21
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now that i have thought about it.. i think it would be insecurities caused by low self-esteem or trust, which link to jealousy in a way and vice versa.. whoa.. so that's basically everything?
insecurities would be the hardest. and i just contradicted what i said up there. ^^ |
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#22
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maintaining it.
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#23
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STOP THE WAR ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,182 ![]() |
well as for me... ive never experianced goodbyes and hopefully not anytime soon.. but i did experianced brakes which totally sux... in my case the first stages of the relationship (lots of insecurities and finding the compatibilaties and weaknesses of the both of u... how they get to ur nerves and you to theirs) also jealousy
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The n000bie oneee :D ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,327 ![]() |
NOT BEING JEALOUS! thas so hard to swallow...
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I personally think the hardest part of a relationship is when you're with someone you really love for a really long time and they hit you...that it OOBER hard
and another hard thing is breaking up with the guy you love and have dated for a really long time over something you know you should dump them for but you still love them and don't want to dump them |
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#26
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how about besides breaking up?
like what's the hardest thing DURING the relationship? |
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#27
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 ![]() |
trust, time apart, and fear
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![]() mmm....beer.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 ![]() |
long after you've said goodbye...letting go would be the hardest.
.edit// After you've broken up, being their friends. Finding out she dumped you for your best friend. Then trying to be your best friends friend. Misunderstandings. |
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*instantmusic* |
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#29
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insecurity, awkward silence, and the truth.
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#30
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![]() Holla if ya hate me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 ![]() |
One word, Truth. Keeping it and making sure it stays there
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#31
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
Trust and acceptance. You have to be able to trust your partner. Secondly, acceptance is important. If you can't accept your partner for the person s/he is, then maybe you don't deserve that person... It's not all about looks, money, intelligence, etc. It's much more than that. So I guess trust and acceptance is intertwined with all the other things as well.
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
the end of the relationshp , honesty in the relationship etc.
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#33
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gRaCiE ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 ![]() |
wen someone breaks your heart n stomps n spits on it like its nothing. that is wat i believe is the hardest part...losing trust...can be the worst...breaking up isnt always the worst wen ur heart has been broken by the person u are breaking up with.
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![]() go go power rangers<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 ![]() |
Accepting his compliments. Remembering that he's not out to get me like everyone else. But I'm doing good with that. Hooray for me!
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#35
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 ![]() |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 3 2005, 7:00 PM) wen someone breaks your heart n stomps n spits on it like its nothing. that is wat i believe is the hardest part...losing trust...can be the worst...breaking up isnt always the worst wen ur heart has been broken by the person u are breaking up with. took the words right out of my mouth. |
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#36
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![]() E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 ![]() |
Saying goodbye, and trust, in my opinion.
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