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 Feb 12 2005, 01:09 AM
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what do you do when you feel like you cant trust your best friend?
like i donno if she is telling me the truth or lying to me? cause she acts different with different ppl. like if she had to pick between me + someone else, s/he sometimes will pick the other person. and like lets say one day me + her talk about how we dont like that person cause that person is getting on our nerves right? then the next day she goes hangs out with that person and acts all friendly and stufff without me. how am im supposed to feel? betrayed. but then maybe she's just saying she dont like that person just to agree with me ya kno? and then when she's with that person she talks about me. so like playing an act. have you ever felt that way? i mean maybe im being paranoid. but yea... its like a gut feeling. and my gut is usually never wrong. should i talk to her? i mean what if she's like saying i'm just accusing her and stuff? sigh |
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Feb 12 2005, 01:11 AM
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Talk to her about it if it's really bothering you. My friend does that with me, but she's just agreeing with me to make me feel better... which sucks. -.-
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Feb 12 2005, 01:12 AM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 12 2005, 1:11 AM) Talk to her about it if it's really bothering you. My friend does that with me, but she's just agreeing with me to make me feel better... which sucks. -.-  yea but i dont know how to start the conversation. i mean yea.  hard to explain.
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Feb 12 2005, 01:16 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Start the convo something like "I don't feel like your being honest with me.." blah blah blah.
Yeah.. I feel that way about one of my friends too... it sucks. |
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Feb 12 2005, 01:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Be like...
"So I saw you talking to (insert name here) today...what's up with that?" Or something like that. Bring it up randomly if you need to. I always do that. :P |
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Feb 12 2005, 01:54 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
none of my friends do that to me.. =/ i'm so sorry i can't really help... i think you should talk to her more.. maybe you don't know her as well as you think you do.. or maybe you should find a better best friend =)
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Feb 12 2005, 02:53 AM
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yeah my advice to you: go talk to her. if she's really your friend, you guys can talk it out perhaps.
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Feb 12 2005, 03:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
What you've just said...only points to the fact that she's not a best friend at all....I dont know why you both would be best friends in the beginning....forget about her. She "betrays" you and maybe might backstab you too in the near future...........
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Feb 14 2005, 10:41 PM
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Isn't she ur so called best friend??? best frds talk about everything. my advice to u is to talk to her. sometimes people do that, u know, to impress others or the make others feel better. A white lie isn't always bad. U cant stop ur frd being friendly to the girl u hate, i mean, it's always better to be frds than enemies. But all i can tell u is that she's ur friend, but obviously not ur best friend...
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Feb 14 2005, 10:55 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
she doesn't sound like a best friend
 you're supposed to be honest with each other no matter what...people can disagree and stay friends, she shouldn't agree just to make you happy if you're best friends, you shouldn't be afraid that the friendship will fall apart. if it does, you'll see what kind of friend she really is, if she's a best friend or at least a good friend, she'll listen and everything will be all good...if she just leaves, you've saved yourself the trouble of cultivating a friendship with some stupid b*tch |
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Feb 14 2005, 11:19 PM
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 Happy Person Group: Member Posts: 1,729 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,674 |
if that's your best friend ur in trouble
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