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Should I, forgive him?
emmalie
post Feb 9 2005, 10:39 PM
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Gah just in case were not going out so this DOES NOT belong in " relationships".

Anyways ,

I met this guy named Kobe..so frikkin fine wub.gif he even called me the day after we met he was uber sweet but we didnt have any typ of relationship at all everything was good till I found out..

He made out like 2 weeks later with a friend/enemy of mine whos in 8th grade..and such a freakin huge whore..

Im a sophmore in highschool by the way..

Hes 19 by the way , anyways , its been about 2 month and his friends are my friends so should i forgive him cause he was "drunk" when it happened and him and that girl havent talked since. Hs been trying to kiss me /talk to me / hook up with me since and ive been rejecting , rejecting and rejecting for that lil incident so i dont know.

SO should I forgive and forget or hold on to my grudge?
 
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supahstah_luv
post Feb 9 2005, 10:42 PM
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i'm a little confused, you said that you didn't have any type of relationship..
so what's the issue here?
please clarify ><
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post Feb 9 2005, 10:49 PM
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I think you should forgive him. Half the things one does when they are drunk they are doing it subconsciously. It wasnt his fault that he made out with that girl while he was drunk. It was his fault for drinking though. He hasnt talked to her..he's been trying to get you to forgive him...so forgive him and give him one chance. happy.gif
 
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post Feb 9 2005, 10:57 PM
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it really all depends on your feelings, like do you trust him enough. and do you like him. ( be selfish and worry bout you first, dont get hurt...it sucks. ) but if you really do answer yes to my questions.. just put your anger aside ( if there is any left ) and just embrace the love =).. but dont wait too long.. " i'll wait for you forever " = i'll wait for you until i stop loving you.
 
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post Feb 9 2005, 11:01 PM
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I think you should forgive him. Guys do dumb things when they are drunk. But that's just why you shouldn't form any kind of relationship with a drinker... 'cause you never know what'll happen.
 
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post Feb 9 2005, 11:30 PM
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i don`t think you should forgive him. or forgive him but don`t get involved with him. i dunno, i just think it`s bullshit, the whole you don`t know what you`re doing when you`re drunk... sound like all your gonna get from him is drama, drama, drama... especially when he`s drunk.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 12:50 AM
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I think you should forgive him & listen to his side of the story. it's bad to be in a relationship with a drunker, they can do stupid things yennoe`.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 01:06 AM
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i think you should forgive him and just stay friends. stay away from people who drinks. they can be nice now and abusive later... that's just my point of view. =p
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 03:10 AM
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You should forgive him. But forgiving him doesn't mean you have to get into a relationship with him. And i mean the guy was drunk and everything and you guys weren't in a relationship when that happened. But if you dont trust him, then don't go out with him. but you SHOULD forgive him
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 03:27 AM
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EVERYONE deserves a second chance =)
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 05:34 PM
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well, all i can say is that if u want to forgive him then go ahead
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 05:36 PM
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sound like a bad guy, dump him.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 07:04 PM
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he is 19.. and he kissed a girl who was 13/14... even though he is drunk.. i don't know.
forgive him for now, but watch out.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 07:51 PM
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you said you had like no relationship with him...so heh whats there to forgive. its not like he cheated on you. you guys didnt even have a relationship you guys were just friends. and did he know that that girl was your enemy? he was drunk...i think thats kinda stupid. what if he does the same thing to you. he'll get drunk and take advantage of you then enever talk to you again? iun no this is odd ive never been in a situation like this. but yeah everybody needs a second chance so whatever follow you gut and if he does it again kick his butt xD
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:04 PM
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She's your FRIEND/enemy? What the?

How old are you? o_OO
Uhm, I think you should "forgive him" (even though you didn't even have a right to be mad) because you weren't even with him when he made out with the other chick. So both of you were single at the time and yeah.

If you decide to hook up with him and he screws with another girl, then you should be mad.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:13 PM
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like everyone else said, you said you don't have a relationship with him, so why get so angry over the fact that he made out with your friend/enemy (i still find that wierd), it's really up to you on how you want to handle this situation, but i say forgive him.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:30 PM
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Forgive him
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:51 PM
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i think you should forgive him, cusz he didn't know what he was doing in the first place. buh if this happens again..
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:53 PM
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i dont think you can entirley countrol what you do when you're drunk..i mean he probably regrets it, people do stupid things when they are drunk. if he's trying to talk to you, atleast listen. then talk it out.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 08:53 PM
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just forgive him. you said so yourself that he was drunk. not like he probably knew what he was doing
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 09:30 PM
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Forgive him. The past is the past. What's done is done.
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 10:26 PM
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ummmmm dfont forgive jus let him cry to ur feet den forgive him and c how ong he would want chu bac dats how much he lov u =)
 
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post Feb 10 2005, 10:35 PM
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I wouldn't forgive him...for a number of reasons...

A) He's freaking nasty for be that old and making out with an eigth grader
B) I'm the type of person who holds grudges
C) I don't tend to forgive people just b/c their drunk

FORGET HIM.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 02:45 AM
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trust your own judgements, look at his action since it speaks louder than words, but don't make it look like you're easy to get with. Blaming something on alcohol is a stupid excuse people still know what they are doing but they need something else to blame for their stupidity. the things people do to get themself out of trouble and looking bad. just remember this "if you do forgive him, but you won't forget
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 04:09 AM
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forgive, but dont go out..
it was his fault for drinking in the first place.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 05:14 AM
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He made out with an eight grader, and he`s 19.

Under the influence of alchohol?

I hope so.

But I still think he`s sick.


Don`t forgive him.

xo, Pauline
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 04:18 PM
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