boyfriend`s best/close girl friend, your thoughts? |
 Feb 8 2005, 08:28 PM
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questions make me blue.  Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796  |
let`s say you have a boyfriend (or already have one), and you learn that he has a very close girl friend. how do you feel about that? would you get jealous? would you befriend her?
i personally would get jealous, but i would wonder why he chose me instead of his best girl friend. hmmm.. any more thoughts? |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:30 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I'd totally get jealous. Keep a close eye. Guys with girls are hard to trust, sometimes. I'd probably not talk to him, because he'd deny it. Unless you catch them doing anything relative to girlfriend+boyfriend-ish, then talk to your bf. :] Good luck.
nice siggy. 
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Feb 8 2005, 08:34 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
it depends on the way she acts, really. i mean, yeah i'd get jealous but that doesn't mean im gonna go crazy and start keeping an eye on him. isn't that where trust comes into the relationship? i'd just befriend her but if i see something's wrong.. then hell yeah, i'd do something about it.
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 8 2005, 08:36 PM
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yeah it really depends. if he has a close girl friend thats fine...but if it came to such a point yeah i'd get a little jealous but i'd talk to him if i really thought something was happening because otherwise i'd be fine with it...i trust him. besides, i have a really close guy friend and he's not jealous since he trusts me so i believe i should do the same back.
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Feb 8 2005, 08:36 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i dont ever get jealous with that kinda stuff. i get mad. well it actually depends if shes all flirty with him. if she is then id b*tch at her like crazy, but if not then id just be friends with her
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Feb 8 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
It depends on if I personally know her and how she is. Other than that, I probably would get jealous just because he might be with her and not me. oh well.
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Feb 8 2005, 10:03 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i'd get really jealous...i get crazy jealous over these kinds of things when it comes to my boyfriend
 i wouldn't really want to befriend her...i might for his sake but i'd always keep my eyes open  but luckily my current one  has no close girl friends 
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Feb 8 2005, 10:11 PM
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i'd be jealous. oh-so-jealous. but i'd try to befriend her. lols. she could be a great person, for all i know.
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Feb 8 2005, 10:19 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well i'm in that situation right now, my bf has this really close girl friend they're really really close makes me kinda in secure, since i'm so far away from him
 i am abit jealous, i don't really like this girl she makes him like go out with her alone *glares* and made him buy her roses for valentine's day. can't stand her. but at least he tells me these things so i guess i dont have to worry.as much 
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Feb 8 2005, 10:25 PM
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 so give me all your posion and give me all your pills Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,345 |
Thats what happened to my friend.. and she ended up not having him anymore because he liked his girl friend better..and she saw him like dancing with her in not the best ways ever and he gave her his sweater when my friend was freezing her ass off..so i would just be careful and try not to let anything happen with them..like if i know her really well then ill trust her but if i saw them doing stuff i would soo kick some butt
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Feb 8 2005, 10:37 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(iloveathrun<3 @ Feb 8 2005, 10:25 PM) Thats what happened to my friend.. and she ended up not having him anymore because he liked his girl friend better..and she saw him like dancing with her in not the best ways ever and he gave her his sweater when my friend was freezing her ass off..so i would just be careful and try not to let anything happen with them..like if i know her really well then ill trust her but if i saw them doing stuff i would soo kick some butt  that`s really sad. everyone`s comments are great. 
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Feb 8 2005, 11:03 PM
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uhh no comment on that. i have a close guy friend with a really jelous girlfriend.. uhh
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Feb 8 2005, 11:10 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 8 2005, 3:36 PM) yeah it really depends. if he has a close girl friend thats fine...but if it came to such a point yeah i'd get a little jealous but i'd talk to him if i really thought something was happening because otherwise i'd be fine with it...i trust him. besides, i have a really close guy friend and he's not jealous since he trusts me so i believe i should do the same back. i agree... |
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Feb 8 2005, 11:49 PM
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She would already be my friend.
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Feb 8 2005, 11:54 PM
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It's hard not to get jealous, but I do. I try to hide it, but my boyfriend knows me too well. He confronts me about it, but in a joking kind of way. It pisses me off, but somehow he always gets me to laugh and the anger just seeps away.
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Feb 9 2005, 12:44 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hmm... I get jealous when my boyfriend talks to any girls who are pretty haha or any of his close girl friends lol. I still get really jealous when my boyfriend talks to his ex-gf, even though he and her dated back in 6th grade lol. That's 5 years ago, but even so... :/
You must give him space. I need to listen to my own advice, haha. My boyfriend chose me because I had something all the other girls he liked didn't. :] Tell yourself that, that you have something (not tangible) that all the other girls don't, which really attracted him. |
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Feb 9 2005, 01:51 AM
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 crash and burn. Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,791 |
not really. because he probably only thinks of her as a friend. but you know i would get jealous if he hung out with her more than me and she knows stuff about him that i dont know about
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Feb 9 2005, 04:00 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Maybe he choosed you because he wanted make his close friends "jealous"? I don't know, that's just my opinion.
But anyways... yes, I would get jealous. Omg... if Steven and Esther was a close friend... I would die and cry....   Cause I always think like they are the perfect match And and and if I see him hanging out with her more than me, I would CRY LIKE HECK. And think like I didn't win him.
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Feb 9 2005, 04:03 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 9 2005, 12:44 AM) Hmm... I get jealous when my boyfriend talks to any girls who are pretty haha or any of his close girl friends lol. I still get really jealous when my boyfriend talks to his ex-gf, even though he and her dated back in 6th grade lol. That's 5 years ago, but even so... :/ You must give him space. I need to listen to my own advice, haha. My boyfriend chose me because I had something all the other girls he liked didn't. :] Tell yourself that, that you have something (not tangible) that all the other girls don't, which really attracted him. aww...that`s really nice.  thanks.
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Feb 9 2005, 04:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i never had a bf...so i don't know the experience of it....but it depends how close.....and how slutty she is
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Feb 9 2005, 04:09 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
depends on how close they are. if i could ever see flirting between them, i would get jelouse. but if i can tell its just a friendship then its ok. but then if they like spend more time on the phone with eachother and hung out more then i did with him, then id be pretty annoyed..
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Feb 9 2005, 04:46 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
trust is very important in a relationship..
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Feb 9 2005, 06:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I'll have to admit that I would get jealous. Then again, it depends if I like him much or not. If I don't like him that much, I wouldn't really get jealous, but if I truly do like him a lot, then I'll get really jealous.
Anyway, Trust is important in a relationship. |
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Feb 9 2005, 06:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
ERm I would be .. around him every where and all the time and kepp my eye on her
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Feb 9 2005, 06:23 PM
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ughhh that happened to me, he actually ahd two best gril friend who he knew longer and better than he knew me... yeah i wondered why he choose me.. and eventually i got to know them, and i HATE them lol and so yeah i was like you can't talk to them anymore... so he isn't good freinds with them anymore and cut communication, i'm a bitch lol.
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Feb 9 2005, 06:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
well i wouldn't be jealous bec ause i understqand. i'm really flirty with guys and i have many close guys friends. there all liek my broher
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Feb 9 2005, 06:35 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i would get disapointed and sad....and mabye jelous....but then theres nothing i can do about it coz you cant force someone to love ya
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