Big problem, involves the law |
 Feb 7 2005, 08:21 PM
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ok here's my dea, i rly like htis guy i mean like A LOT. and he know i like him and he likes me too. BUT he is one of my good firend's ex and my BESTFRIEND'S CRUSH! now there is another problem he's 22 and im about to turn 13 and he is suexually active. i'm not shure what to do becuz he is a very nice and intellegent guy and we have had some rly intellectuala and interesting diccusions but im scared PLUS i could get in A LOT of trouble w/ my mom and the law im so confused HELP!!!!!!!
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Feb 7 2005, 08:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i really don't think the guy is safe
recently a guy told 5 girls that he loved them and he was about 19, and the girls were like your age, and he gave them AIDS. anyone that age can talk intelligently... it's just a trap. I really don't think you should do anything with him. |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:25 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
he's 10 years older than you...and you're only 12 now...that's so...wow...
 but anyway, think about this logically, what 22 year old will go out with a 12-13 year old? and plus he's sexually active...even if he really did get with you, it's most likely for fun you say that he's intellectual and smart n yada yada, you're only 12-13 and no offense...but i doubt a 12-13 year old will be able to have an intelligent conversation with a 22 year old...it's just a crush you'll get over it since apparently he's your good friend's ex and best friend's crush, it's not a good idea anyway there's a reason why these things are against the law 
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Feb 7 2005, 08:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 359 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,930 |
^well said
10 years is just too much of an age difference. What would motivate a 22 year old to date a 12 year old? |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:32 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
two words: stay away.
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Feb 7 2005, 08:35 PM
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deleted Group: Member Posts: 3,168 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,276 |
thank you so much everyone you posts have helped me think a lil beyond what i was thinking b4
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Feb 7 2005, 08:37 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
two words:booty call
thats called sajatory(lol cant spell it) rape screw him and find someone yur age. |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:39 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
hmm. have u read the story about that one girl tiffany and the other guy? they were seperated by the law, and he's going to be charged for minor molestation - or whatever it is. >___< i think right now, 10 years is a big difference. maybe u should wait until your 22 and hes 32. its as simple as that.
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Feb 7 2005, 11:27 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
wow ten years...a big age difference there..i think u should stay away from him...find someone hus ur own age...
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Feb 8 2005, 09:33 AM
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 crash and burn. Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,791 |
i guess it is really hard if you really like this guy but you'll probably get over it easily. it might be a temporary thing or just infatuation. try to like guys who are ur age or just... stay away from guys for a while
good luck |
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 8 2005, 09:50 AM
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Well, the law certainly is in place for a reason, yanno..
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Feb 8 2005, 01:33 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah. That's definately a "NO"
Why the hell would a 22 year old guy be interested in a 12 year old. Only one thing comes to mind... so enough said. Don't even think about having to do anything with this guy. |
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Feb 8 2005, 03:13 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE now there is another problem he's 22 and im about to turn 13 stop right there. forget about him cause hes 22 and ur not even 13 yet. its kind of a give away that he only want to bang you then leave so forget about him. dont be a dumb naiive young girl. You dont want to be those loser girls that give birth when they arnt even 13 yet. lets try not to be a whore. |
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Feb 8 2005, 03:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 8 2005, 2:13 PM) stop right there. forget about him cause hes 22 and ur not even 13 yet. its kind of a give away that he only want to bang you then leave so forget about him. dont be a dumb naiive young girl. You dont want to be those loser girls that give birth when they arnt even 13 yet. lets try not to be a whore.  well, shes not a whore. but I agree with everyone else. stay away you'll just be in a bigger mess. |
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Feb 8 2005, 04:43 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
You should only be dating people 12-15. You're 13, wtf.. wanting to date a 22 year old.
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Feb 8 2005, 06:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,993 |
you shouldn't be the one worrying, it should be the guy. i had a friend who liekd me and he was 18 and i told him no, i was 13 then come on 22? he's i supose a man. if you really think about it. it be kinda akward. espically if your 13 you'd wanta bf in your school. to hug you, hold you whenever your sad. and people come up 2 u saying "awh you guys go out XD how cute", something along the lines of that. bad choice if you go out with him.
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Feb 8 2005, 07:44 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
My parents are 10 years apart.. but whatever. That's besides the point. =P He's too old for you right now. I mean seriously, everyone here is practically right.. Don't even think about him now unless you're really really serious. But even then, wait til your like 22 or whatever.
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Feb 8 2005, 08:00 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
if i were u, get over him. unless he can wait til ur older which i doubt.
sorry. |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:14 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
 thats gross....hez 22? he probably just wants to make love with you...i bet
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Feb 8 2005, 08:16 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
ask him why he likes you and maybe that`ll reveal more to what he wants from you...
 it`s better to date someone who`s around your age. you`re only 13 and he`s already driving, drinking and sexually active. you know it`s wrong, too. don`t you feel some guilt? |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:27 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
 sweetpea, he's just trying to get into your pants. screw him, go find yourself a 13 yr. old guy. |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:41 PM
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 cookies=love Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,467 |
everyones sayin that this guy's a loser, and that hes just tryin 2 play wif ur mind. i no this sounds really mean, and i bet u really do like him and he seems like a great guy. i prbly would have done the same thing ur doin if i was in ur situation, but cuz im seein it from the outside i can c it clearly... and i sorta agree. i think the guys prbly no good, and im sry
 if u still dont believe this, or wanna believe it, think of this: even if the guy isnt a loser, u still might not wanna go out wif him cuzza ur best friend etc. b/c the guy might b a loser, u definitely dont i no thisll prbly dissapoint u but i think its the right choice in the long run good luck!!!
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Feb 8 2005, 09:17 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE he probably just wants to make love with you...i bet no he doesnt wanna make love with her. he wants to have kiddie sex then leave |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 8 2005, 10:05 PM
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um yeah no kidding..as much as you don't want to hear this, please don't do anything with him. he doesn't sound like a very good idea... |
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 8 2005, 10:09 PM
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whoa....that's just disturbing.....i mean im 19....but gd....i would never go below 17+ lmao.....and that's wayyyy pushing it.....more like 18+
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Feb 8 2005, 10:35 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
that's freaky. but stay away from him. go for someone your own age. ;)
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Feb 8 2005, 11:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
he's going to rape you ..
go find guys your own age |
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Feb 8 2005, 11:51 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
NO. i defnitely say NO.
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Feb 9 2005, 12:27 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
wait wait ..your 13, and you like a guy that is 22? That's cool =]
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Feb 9 2005, 04:19 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
You have a problem with typing? Heh... and spelling >.<;;;;; anyways I understood you, so yeah it's no biggie. Anyways... He seems like a trouble dood for you xj_liana_tx says... I agree what she said. I mean you just turned 13 and like you said he is sexually active and he's 22. He's probably looking for a girl who is ready to have sex with him and finger them. So if you're not ready to do those, don't go for it. Wait until you 18 I guess? Anyways you'll find someone better than him. Don't go for him and don't break a law. If you guys had sex together, he'll be send to court and have to pay lots of fine and also he might go to jail. Do you want to see that from him? I don't think so, so I rather for you to stand back and move on.
I mean I would do the same thing..........................
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Feb 9 2005, 05:32 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
no, i think you should stay away from him.
i don't think he's looking for a relationship with you he just wants to have 'fun' 
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Feb 9 2005, 06:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
He's going to use you for sex or at least try and force you to have sex.
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Feb 10 2005, 01:37 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,236 |
QUOTE(babyxyelloe @ Feb 7 2005, 6:39 PM) hmm. have u read the story about that one girl tiffany and the other guy? they were seperated by the law, and he's going to be charged for minor molestation - or whatever it is. >___< i think right now, 10 years is a big difference. maybe u should wait until your 22 and hes 32. its as simple as that. i read that storY! they are freaky ppl man... you should wait until ur at least 18 b4 you start dating him. that way, you can get rid of ur law problem... |
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Feb 10 2005, 03:07 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
uh....i mean....um.....well, if it makes you feel better..i am 16 and dating an awesome guy that is 21
 lol but i mean if you are 12 years old and this guy is 22 years old?!?! eh....i suggest you don't do that...I mean, yah. I don't know what to really say cuz the guy i'm dating is almost 5 years older...but i mean..12 and 22? i dunno about that. lol. Now if you were 22 and he was 32, then those 10 years wouldn't be that bad of a difference. But i mean 12 and 22? I suggest you wait until you get older...and i mean, ur 12! You don't have to start dating yet! wait a lil longer
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Feb 10 2005, 04:48 PM
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 justchillen Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,145 |
mk first off, ive been in this situation when i was about your age.. and when i look back.. now that im MUCH older, i realize that was the stupidest thing i ever did. having a crush on a 22 y/o just isn't hot. i mean your [SIZE=14]12! [SIZE=1] hes 22! almost half your age. i would frankly be embarassed to post that. and .. if yur BEST FRIEND likes him.. you guys obviously arent that close or you wouldnt even think of liking him. trust me if your 12/13 you need to wait a little while longer before you start liking MEN.. plus thats the point? you guys arent going to get married if your mom doesnt like him.. you wont be able to see him.. and hes not that great if hes thinking of having sex with you possibly since he is SA.. just wait till your 14/15 till you start dating..
thats MY opinion.. thanks |
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Feb 10 2005, 06:10 PM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
22 and 13
i dont see how that can happen! |
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Feb 10 2005, 06:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 452 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,814 |
10 years older, isnt there like a law for dating minors??
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Feb 10 2005, 06:54 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
I'm sure there is somone else. I don't like the sound of this guy at all. Plus, almost 10 years older! Crazyness!
and guys can act like they're smart.. so... dont trust him. RUN AWAY! |
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Feb 10 2005, 06:57 PM
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 title? Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,676 |
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Feb 7 2005, 8:21 PM) ok here's my dea, i rly like htis guy i mean like A LOT. and he know i like him and he likes me too. BUT he is one of my good firend's ex and my BESTFRIEND'S CRUSH! now there is another problem he's 22 and im about to turn 13 and he is suexually active. i'm not shure what to do becuz he is a very nice and intellegent guy and we have had some rly intellectuala and interesting diccusions but im scared PLUS i could get in A LOT of trouble w/ my mom and the law im so confused HELP!!!!!!! _cough_ statuatory rape _cough_
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Feb 10 2005, 10:30 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
ummmm eww leave him away man hes way to old plus i bet chu 100 bucks he gunna rape u so jus dont b more carfull
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Feb 10 2005, 11:37 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
QUOTE(snak3y3z1001 @ Feb 7 2005, 8:37 PM) two words:booty call thats called sajatory(lol cant spell it) rape screw him and find someone yur age. no, no, no! don't screw him. [i'm immature sometimes.] get the freaking [bleep] away from him. |
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