i made a total fool out of myself infront of him, >.< now i feel like such a dork. |
 Feb 5 2005, 10:50 PM
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so here goes...
DAY 1-online.. at night. me n my best friend were jus talking to the guy i like... online.... n i had planned to ask him phone number... soo we talked for a while, then i jus said "hey ____what's ur phone #?" ..n he told me.. but somehow there was a digit i missed...so after he went offline. i told my BFF that i'll ask him tml in out active health class, which is the only class i have with the guy. DAY 2--at school... during recess the guy and one of his friends was like... walking towards me n my BFF in the hallway, cuz i was standing at my locker, n the guy's friend's locker is near mine... n so my BBF jus DRAGGED him towards me n was like "hey alice..its ___" n I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO ME BUT I JUSt said "hi" with this ULTRA SOFT VOICE , n i had no idea where it came from. like im ususally really good at controlling myself around the guy i like.. but i just dont know what happened. n i didn't really notice it... untill that night when i was talking on the phone with my BFF n she's like "whoaa alice, i never saw that side of you before...so....inoccent...and...kind..n ....NICE...n LITTLE GIRL LIKE" n im jus thinking  ....she also said that just by that, it kinda gave it away that i liked him.  but uhh... well......me n my BFF have been trying to figure out who he likes for a while now..i think its my BFF but my BFF said that she thinks its me....all i knoe is.. that when my other friend asked him what he thought about me.. he said that i was "nice, funny, and likes to strike up random conversations with ppl..and very outgoing."..he's told me once after i told him i knew his whole schedual"i dont care if you know my schedual..i know your not the type of freaky stalker girls who stalk me all the time like *cough ____cough*..." ....he always laughs at my jokes...n we sorta stare at each other alot in class....or maybe im just reading too much into it.. but we definatel make alot of eye contact.... theres just one thing. my friend asked him one if he liked me..n he said "... ".."......"..."no".....but then.. my friend said that he was SORTA avoiding the question..n stalling... but could'nt she just have said that to make me feel better?? after all. she is my BFF.. but she also likes him too. ..P.S- that day.. i had active health after recess..n he still acted the same around me..still laughing at my LOUD jokes..n we still made ALOT of eye contact. so my question is.. what should i do...do you think he likes me...n i jsut feel like such a DORK>.< sry that its soo long. 
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Feb 5 2005, 11:04 PM
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Lol, I read all of it. :P
Anyway, I think he might like you. Get someone OTHER than your BFF to talk to him since you know she likes him too. |
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Feb 5 2005, 11:08 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
awwwww...u went all shy and quiet and said, "...hi." thats adorable. yeah, i think he likes u. get someone else other than ur bff to find out. ask someone else, maybe a close friend of his thats also a close friend of urs to play spy.
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Feb 5 2005, 11:11 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
no you didn't make a fool of yourself. he probably does like you.
i have done MUCH worse around my crush. much much worse. i just laugh it off. haha... |
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Feb 5 2005, 11:12 PM
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^^^ i LOVE ppl like you =) n dont get me wrong, im not lez hahaha
n well.. none of my other friends really ever talk to him.. n btw i've asked him about..3 times weather or not he likes my BFF me:hey is ___ the girl you like? him: no ----------other time me:hey you know it really seems like you like ____..i wouldn't be suprised...alot of guys like her. him: well i really dont. so dont add me to that list of guys =) oh n one time...the three of us were talking online..again..n my BFF 's comp was screwed so she kept on going offline..about the third time, me: ok she was GOTAA stop doing that. him: yea, its gettin a lil annoyin (she appears online again) him: well, do you want me to add her back into the convo now that she's on again? me: sure...ok. iono if that'd mean n e thing. but yea.... |
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Feb 5 2005, 11:15 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Feb 5 2005, 11:12 PM) ^^^ i LOVE ppl like you =) n dont get me wrong, im not lez hahaha n well.. none of my other friends really ever talk to him.. n btw i've asked him about..3 times weather or not he likes my BFF me:hey is ___ the girl you like? him: no ----------other time me:hey you know it really seems like you like ____..i wouldn't be suprised...alot of guys like her. him: well i really dont. so dont add me to that list of guys =) oh n one time...the three of us were talking online..again..n my BFF 's comp was screwed so she kept on going offline..about the third time, me: ok she was GOTAA stop doing that. him: yea, its gettin a lil annoyin (she appears online again) him: well, do you want me to add her back into the convo now that she's on again? me: sure...ok. iono if that'd mean n e thing. but yea....  ^i'm a dude, so ha! lol when he said, "don't add me to that list of guys." he seems to be letting u kno that he isn't into girls like ur bff. maybe he's giving u an opening to like him or like, ask him out, or..something..iono. sounds like he might like u. do something before he likes someone else.
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Feb 5 2005, 11:40 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
He may like you , I think you should have someone else talk to him and see what he says. You didn't make a fool out of youself either so don't worry
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Feb 5 2005, 11:51 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Feb 5 2005, 11:15 PM) ^i'm a dude, so ha! lol when he said, "don't add me to that list of guys." he seems to be letting u kno that he isn't into girls like ur bff. maybe he's giving u an opening to like him or like, ask him out, or..something..iono. sounds like he might like u. do something before he likes someone else. lmao ... k then i DO love you =) lol *sigh* you guys are the best . i have no problem asking other guys about their feelings.. like just a few minuts ago i asked this one guy who i was pretty sure liked my BFF. n he actually told me he did =) lmao n then i ofcourse told my BFF n shes like "holy sh*t" hahahaha but when it comes to.. HIM....>.< its a while different story. |
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Feb 6 2005, 12:11 AM
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well i think its a 50-50 chance...mabye you should ask him out or something and see what he says..
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Feb 6 2005, 01:38 AM
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ohh god...^^^^^ but im too scared........>.<
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Feb 6 2005, 06:16 PM
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oh geez .. he likes you .. just wait and it's okay if you act like a dork around him, don't you want to feel comfortable around him anyway ?
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Feb 7 2005, 01:07 AM
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^^ well smtms i really feel like he likes me.. but the kind of guy he is.. well he's the shy type, but gets hyper once in a while and thats when he really opens up. he's alot "closer" to my BFF than he is to me.. since i admitt im quite loud, i just go up n talk to him.. but then hes always..not so open to me i guess..he talks to my bff way more..n well...its that neglection that makes me doubt weather or not he does like me.
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Feb 7 2005, 01:15 AM
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You must like him a lot considering you're acting different around him.
:\ I think my crush likes my best friend, too. I actually got jealous. . . he may like you. .. it was kinda tell though. just push yourself and ask him out. |
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Feb 7 2005, 01:20 AM
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yea...
 cuz like.. that kinda stuff never happened to me before... EVER... 
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Feb 7 2005, 02:11 AM
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QUOTE(Feb 7 2005 @ 1:51 AM) i know this one i know this one! i know the answer i know it i know it. well, its obvious he does like you. its OBVIOUS. i was in that guys situation. ITS OBVIOUS. hes SHY. like a dork. like me. it sucks i know. you guys talk a lot and enjoy eachothers company. hes afraid to ask you out cause hes afraid of a negative response. and hes afraid of losing your company. he gets hyper and opens up huh. (sounds like me) ok so get em really hyper and really in a good mood. then... a. ask em how he feels about you aka "how do you feel about me and you? b. kiss him on the cheek and say "you are so great you know that!? (in a hyper tone.". he wont know what just happened and his eyes will pop and glow. his heart will bust out his chest. pick it up and give it back to him. c. start talking really close to him. almost nose to nose. be like "so watcha doin?(in class or something i dont know). be like right up on his face. and then... take him down for the count (take that the way you understand it). just some suggestions. option a seems really nice. a little option b wouldnt hurt. omg reallly?????????????????? cuz like..... k when i started to read ur post i started shaking for some reason.. its just the thought of HIM liking ME is just... n yea... woo i gotta calm down.  ...n honestly, we dont talk that much.. cuz well.. i only have one class with him.. AND HE TALKS TO MY BFF ALOT MORE...she tried asking him...but his response was no...why is that?
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Feb 7 2005, 03:49 AM
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 i'm a d0rk =) Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,870 |
a really cute thing to do if you want to tell him you like him.. is that pretend you need to tell him a secret, and be like psst come here i wanna tell you something... no closer.. cup your hand like your about to whisper something in his ear but actually give him a kiss on the cheek. =)
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Feb 7 2005, 08:44 PM
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...okay then if he DOES like me then how come today at recess..he was standing with his backpack-as usual- with that "group" of ppl, some of which i knoe..n me n my friends walked up to their whole group and i started asking everyone "hey are you coming to fine art's night?"...but the whole time basically his BACK was towards me n my friends...
 ..he was the last person i asked (iono why i always do that...like when i do smthn.. the guy i like always comes last)...n hes jus like "maybe"...really..really...quietely..which is normall for his personality..n the only reason i could "hear" his reply is cuz i read his lips ..his answeres have always been shy n quiete.. whats buggin me is WHY was his back towards us the whole time??he wasn't TALKING to anyone in that other direction...
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Feb 7 2005, 08:53 PM
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i don't think he would give you his phone number just like that if he doesn't like you at least a little bit.
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Feb 7 2005, 09:13 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well....he gave you his screenname, he talks to you, he gives you his phone number, he laughs at your LOUD jokes...you two make eye contact...I think he feels something about you.
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Feb 7 2005, 09:16 PM
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Lol, that was funny :3. I have stories like this too (and I read the whole thing :P). But at least you talk to the guy, I don't even see my crush on the regular.
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Feb 7 2005, 09:19 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 7 2005, 3:53 PM) i don't think he would give you his phone number just like that if he doesn't like you at least a little bit. yup i agree... |
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Feb 7 2005, 10:55 PM
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uhhh well he DIDN"T give me his screen name>.< i got it from my BFF hahahahaha. cuz she has one more class wif him than i do.
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Feb 7 2005, 11:31 PM
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so its NOT cuz..after i sorta gave it away that i like him hes tryin to avoid me cuz he doesn't like me??????hey i aint the prettiest girl in school if ya catch my drift.
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Feb 8 2005, 01:50 AM
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QUOTE ...okay then if he DOES like me then how come today at recess..he was standing with his backpack-as usual- with that "group" of ppl, some of which i knoe..n me n my friends walked up to their whole group and i started asking everyone "hey are you coming to fine art's night?"...but the whole time basically his BACK was towards me n my friends... ..he was the last person i asked (iono why i always do that...like when i do smthn.. the guy i like always comes last)...n hes jus like "maybe"...really..really...quietely..which is normall for his personality..n the only reason i could "hear" his reply is cuz i read his lips ..his answeres have always been shy n quiete.. whats buggin me is WHY was his back towards us the whole time??he wasn't TALKING to anyone in that other direction... he could still like u.. if he's the shy type. QUOTE so its NOT cuz..after i sorta gave it away that i like him hes tryin to avoid me cuz he doesn't like me??????hey i aint the prettiest girl in school if ya catch my drift. i think he likes u. afterall.. he's not exactly ignoring u! lol. he's still laughing.. isnt he? |
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Feb 8 2005, 02:19 AM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Feb 8 2005, 1:50 AM) he could still like u.. if he's the shy type. i think he likes u. afterall.. he's not exactly ignoring u! lol. he's still laughing.. isnt he? ...i see your point... maybe i'm just over -reacting... well since vday is coming up.. n my school is orginizing candy grams.. i'll send him one...=) n ill write.. "dear _______(haha i dont think i should tell you his name ) happy valentine's day=) p.s-i guess you ARE striaght...or at least...thats what you WANT us to think=D n um...yea i knoe im loud....i really cant help it. but hey, at least im not a freaky butt stalker like.. *cough* ___*cough* from-Alice.L-I-U...not L-U-I=)" |
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