so i cheated on him..., what now? Options

[JessyMarie]

my b*f and i have been going out for a lil over 2 months ... we go to different schools, which i guess is cool cause it gives us more privacy ... well i always complain and bug him about cheating, and how i would die if he cheated on me, but he swears up and down he*ll never cheat and he loves me so much! well of course the one weekend i spend away from him i go over to some guys house ... i ended up hooking up with this kid i just met (he*s like a year younger then me, and four years younger then my b*f) at first is was kinda like a joke.. but then i started to realize that i*m kinda like a big whore, i flirt with everyone and make plans with other guys to do stuff ... but then i love my b*f

-kinda weird (super long)... had to get it off the chest

[*stephinika*]

i'm not so sure if i'd use the word "love" when it comes to you and your bf cause it doesn't sound like it. and i'd stop the cheating/flirting...

[*Azarel*]

but then i love my b*f

Um. No, you don't.

[LittleLulu]

if you love him soo much, why would you want to hurt him by cheating?

[Just_Dream]

I agree with Azarel. You obviously don't love him if you can't even stay true to him. Does he KNOW that you cheated on him? So you think of yourself as a big "whore?" It's going to do A LOT more damage if you don't tell your boyfriend as soon as possible.. waiting and telling him at the last minute will ruin everything.

Maybe, JUST MAYBE, you don't deserve a guy like your boyfriend.. No offense, but if you can't even stay true to him, how can you expect the relationship to last? You get angry at him and accuse him of cheating, yet you go and cheat on him.

You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do.

Sorry, but I loathe people like you.

[sexymixelix]

i agree with everyone. there is no way you could love this guy if you cheated on him and realized you try to do a lot of things with other guys. if i were you.. i'd break up with your boyfriend out of respect for him. do it now so he can move on and you can have your fun. you are young, so you don't have to be tied down. obviously that's not something you aren't mature enough to handle such a serious relationship right now.

[NobleSpirit11]

People flirt all the time, so I have no issues with that. However, if you're in a relationship, there are certain lines you should not cross. You broke, smashed, destroyed and severed that line.

If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't hook up with other guys. And what you just said is hypocritical. You can't worry about someone cheating if you do it yourself.

And maybe it's only me, but dating for over two months usually means a relationship is just starting ... assuming you weren't friends with your boyfriend before the relationship, how can you fall in love with someone in two months? (If you two were friends before the relationship ... how could you do that to him?)

End the relationship and move on. It's obvious you're not ready.

[silver-rain]

like everyone said, you obviously don't love your boyfriend if you would cheat on him. you are a hypocrite, and you should break up with him do you don't hurt him anymore.

[misoshiru]

i agree with everyone. you obviously don't love you bf. you're being hypocrtical by bugging him about cheating when you're the one who cheats. you can't commit to relationships either since you've been in a relationship for only two months and you've already cheated on him.

[_sarcastic_]

i agree with everyone, if you said you love your bf alot, then why did you cheat on him?!?! that's going to hurt your bf alot i think you just broke the trust between the both of you. like everyone else i think you should just break it off with him

[blah1234567]

why on earth would you do something like that to your boyfriend?

[*Solipsist*]

You should tell him about how big of a whore you are.
I'm sure he'll understand and not slap you that hard. Then again, I might be wrong. Maybe he'll smack you upside the head - until a chunk of your brain pops out of your nose and your eyeballs fall off - just like how a true pro would do it.
THE POINT IS, he deserves to know.

- Solipsist

[mouse_3k]

i started to realize that i*m kinda like a big whore, i flirt with everyone and make plans with other guys to do stuff ... but then i love my b*f

#1. no s*it ur a slut
#2. bullsh*t you love your bf

I say you should jump off a building because you obviously dont deserve a man right now. i say your bf should dump YOU cause honestly you are a whore and you dont deserve NE good men. People like you piss me off so I suggest you leave all the good men alone so us good girls can take em.


you cheaters...i hate you all..

[NgocQuyen]

i dont think theres anything wrong with flirting...just so long as yu dont have interest in tha guy..lols..but cheating on him str8 up? now thas just wrong...how can you call it love when your cheating on tha person yu supposely "love"...people throw that word around too much...(no offense)

[shortiiex]

so you are hurting someone you love.......you pimp...you need to tell the truth to your bf

[KissMe2408]

sorry girl, but i can't stand cheaters. How can you say that you love this guy, and that you would die if HE cheated on you, but then you turn around and cheat on him?? That is so low. You should tell your boyfriend what you did. Seriously. It's not fair to him. ugh. Don't throw around the word "love" because it is so strong, you have to be so careful on what you say. And it is very obvious that you don't love him, because you want HIM to stay true to YOU, but it's OK for YOU to go out and hook up with guys? man, i really wish i could say somethan and give you some sympathy, but i've been hurt by guys who did exactly what you did wayy too many times. So the point is, Tell him. He needs to know. atleast give him that much respect.

[dahding]

do me a favor, please?


shoot urself at point blank range. u don't deserve any guy in the world. u think u know what love is? pfft.

[sunissed14127]

you dont love him. and I wont be suprized when he finds out...and when he does, he's probably never gonna forgive you. If you know he loves you and he wont cheat on you, and you go and cheat on him, you dont deserve him.

[_sarcastic_]

#1. no s*it ur a slut
#2. bullsh*t you love your bf

I say you should jump off a building because you obviously dont deserve a man right now. i say your bf should dump YOU cause honestly you are a whore and you dont deserve NE good men. People like you piss me off so I suggest you leave all the good men alone so us good girls can take em.
you cheaters...i hate you all..

^agreed

i think you should just own up and tell him, even if you don't i hope he finds out and you can't blame him if he dumps you, it's your fault in the first place . i mean someone like him doesn't deserve someone like you

[sweetdreamsx3]

That's complete BS that you love your boyfriend. Now you wait for him to dump you.

[inorocks]

You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do.

Sorry, but shes right...

[whywasisostupid]

if you 'loved' him, then why wuld u cheat on him.

end urself now u cheating whore.

[heyyfrankie]

all i have to say is that i wouldn't want you as my girlfriend.

[heyyfrankie]

all i have to say is that i wouldn't want you as my girlfriend.

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grr! i hate my computer! sorry about the double post!
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[Euphoria Rose]

I agree with Azarel. You obviously don't love him if you can't even stay true to him. Does he KNOW that you cheated on him? So you think of yourself as a big "whore?" It's going to do A LOT more damage if you don't tell your boyfriend as soon as possible.. waiting and telling him at the last minute will ruin everything.

Maybe, JUST MAYBE, you don't deserve a guy like your boyfriend.. No offense, but if you can't even stay true to him, how can you expect the relationship to last? You get angry at him and accuse him of cheating, yet you go and cheat on him.

You're a hypocrite. He'll probably tell you that as well. Pssh, telling someone to not to do something, yet you go and do the thing you told that someone not to do.

Sorry, but I loathe people like you.

Hypocrite!! You don't love your boyfriend. It's actually vice versa. He loves you, and you are a slut that cheated on him.

I agree with Christina.

I loathe people like you.

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

alright well that was a very whore-ish thing of you to do, NEVER do it again.

hypocrite!

[Nugget]

yea like wut everyone else say..and if ur like going out for 2 months then u guys prolly dont love each other yet i mean 2 months?? unless u REALLY do love him then u wouldnt do wut u did..and u should tell him.. sorry i dont know wut else to say..

[*Programmer*]

well i see you like experimenting....please just save ya boyfriend the trouble. tell him the truth get it over with and let him get on with his life. if you really love him let him go or he gonna be the one getting hurt"not you". and from what i can tell you don't love him..because you haven't told him yet

[dahding]

hah, everyone's blamming her. thats awesome...

[*Programmer*]

dahding :) i took your donkey kong what ya gonna do bout it?

[lilJdawg]

break up with your boyfriend. your definetly a slut.

[bad_girl]

as long as u didnt do anything to the other guy.

[dahding]

dahding :) i took your donkey kong what ya gonna do bout it?

gee, how about, not a give a f***?

[pr33ll]

hmmmmmm....wel....u dun let other ppl cheat on u but u cheat on them, but newayz, everyone makes mistakes, jus dun do it ag~, r u sure u still like him?

[*Programmer*]

gee, how about, not a give a f***?

LMAO!!!!

[lilsweetdevil08]

Was it a joke? If it was a joke then alright! I do the same and I kinda flirt with others...And I love My boyfriend to death. I love him so very much. I have guy friends, what's wrong with that?

[PrideOfAzia]

You should tell him about how big of a whore you are.
I'm sure he'll understand and not slap you that hard. Then again, I might be wrong. Maybe he'll smack you upside the head - until a chunk of your brain pops out of your nose and your eyeballs fall off - just like how a true pro would do it.
THE POINT IS, he deserves to know.

- Solipsist

hahahahah!!!

[to-devastate]

Die, you slutty whore.
You make me sick.

[Xprezsion]

Your b/f obviously doesn't deserve to go out with someone who cheats on him, so you should tell him what you did so he could dump you, and continue going out with the guy a year yougner than you. 'nuff said.

[Shattered_Hope]

*cough* slut *cough*

[sparklebabygirl]

Just dump your b/f your not being fair to him.

[iloveathrun<3]

Hypocrite!!  You don't love your boyfriend. It's actually vice versa. He loves you, and you are a slut that cheated on him.

I agree with Christina.

I loathe people like you.

i agree.. my friend is doing this to her Bf and now she is known as the slut..im sorry thats juss wrong to cheat on the one u u so say u " love" which is BS cause if u loved him u wouldnt have hooked up with him!! thats juss bad!!

[dani41790]

im sorry but i highly HIGHLY doubt that you love your bf. if you love him then you wouldnt have flirted behind his back or cheated on him. man thats like soooo wrong and a bit hypocritical of you. people like you disappoint me a lot.

[Bluefuzzyelf]

would be so funny if ur bf is a CB user..and saw this

[Trolling]

Lol 2months and your in love? ha I laugh... Sounds like infautation to me

[Spud]

You'd be gone if you were my girlfriend.

[melface]

lmao.. you are such a whore.

[cewinee]

then i started to realize that i*m kinda like a big whore, i flirt with everyone and make plans with other guys to do stuff ... but then i love my b*f

lmao. comon.. common sense.

[hpsm2]

maybe you're just a player?

[mouse_3k]

^ um no shes just a slut

[TrueMex3]

wells... basically- if u "loved him" u wouldnt have cheated on him. i guess that [this is painful] you didnt love him, u just like him. there's no point of erasing the past at this moment. just hope he doesnt know those guys, hope he doesnt find out, and dont go on those plans to made wif those guys that u were flirting wif-

[HawaiiGirlie1212]

I HATE CHEATERS!
How can people ever do that to someone they love?
That's just not right.
let the guy go

[whomps]

What'd you do, did you make out with the guy younger than you or what?

Damn, you're a bad person.

[mouse_3k]

I say you need Jesus

[sweetdreamsx3]

I say you need Jesus

Steph. ROFLMAO

[literemix24]

...wow.. you're really something you have like 2 sidesz of you..

[dahding]

I say you need Jesus

got Jesus? Jesus, it does the soul good.

[whomps]

I say you need Jesus

Hahaha that made me laugh:

[pinayprincess]

ahh thaz wut im goin thru its juz that i try hard not to 'flirt' nd shyt kuz i already got a man nd stuff ... thank God i havent cheated... but i have a bad feelin one of us [[me or my bf]] will

[rememberme]

that sux. Ur in trouble for hurting an innocent guy. now he's gonna turn bad and become a slut... =(

J/k

[angelrevelation]

erm... why exactly did you cheat on him...? confess then break up (gently) and admit you were wrong and everything...

[ItzOnlySydney]

yep, just as i thought you have EWS. Extreme Whore Syndrome! sorry darling itz non-curable. but...i think we can put you througha life-long treatment. take two "i will not cheat on my boyfriend" pills twice a day for the rest of your life and see how you turn out.

[FLIPxADDICTION]

it's your fault for hooking up with a younger guy. if you loved your boyfriend you wouldn't have thought of doing that.

[*Programmer*]

no what she needs a god damn chastity belt . cause she can't control herself

[Tinkerballa]

i agree with alot of the above post.... sorry if i sound bitchy but you shouldn't have done what you dont... i mean you complain to HIM and bug him about him always cheating and stuff, but then you go around and do the same thing? i'm sorry that is not love at all..... maybe you are not ready to be in a relationship, because relationships take time and alot of paitent you are basically not to do stuff like that.. but yeah.... if i were u i would either A) talk to him about it , and not do it again or B) tell him you are sorry for what you did and tell him that you are not able to be in a relationship at this time in your life... because if you did it once you might do it again and the second time might be worse.... sorry if this response is so blunt and hurtful its just the truth...

[angelrevelation]

yep, just as i thought you have EWS. Extreme Whore Syndrome! sorry darling itz non-curable. but...i think we can put you througha life-long treatment. take two "i will not cheat on my boyfriend" pills twice a day for the rest of your life and see how you turn out.

ahahaha

[angelrevelation]

yep, just as i thought you have EWS. Extreme Whore Syndrome! sorry darling itz non-curable. but...i think we can put you througha life-long treatment. take two "i will not cheat on my boyfriend" pills twice a day for the rest of your life and see how you turn out.

ahahaha

[sweetdreamsx3]

ahahaha

You're spamming and you double posted.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

well, its a good thing you realized your a whore, cos it wont hurt as much when other people tell you you are.


stop cheating.

dirty slut.


poor boyfriend. you dont know what love is, your just desperate to BE loved.

[LeSLiE]

Wow, I really dislike people like you.
You say you love your boyfriend, than why would you go and hook up with that guy? Yep, you're a whore for sure. I'm proud of you for noticing it.
What exactly do you want us to do about it, though? Your boyfriend did nothing wrong, you did. Now you have to go tell him about it. I know it'll just make things worse, but he has to know that you're a whore, too.
You don't love him.

[y0urelectrikk]

wow, your a bitch. lol, no.. I'm kidding.
but you shouldnt cheat on him.

[*mishyerr*]

You do not 'love' your boyfriend. You are infatuated with him. And I can give proof to that simply because of your messing around. Yes, you are a whore. But who cares? You're probably a teenager with raging hormones and a sexy look. You can pull it off. ;D

But, it's kinda hypocritical to bug your man about being a player, when you're the one doing it.