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 Feb 1 2005, 03:58 PM
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~*Pretty Girls Make Graves*~  Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 93,989  |
OK, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now, but his ex g/ is like still in love with him!! They have been broken up for about 2 yrs, but she still seems to want him back or something!! She starts talking crap about me but she doesnt even know me...but i feel like my boyfriend still cares about her or something even though he tells me i have nothing to worry about, but i dot know what to do. They still talk and all but I wish they wouldnt cause it makes me think he is starting to like her again..or am I just being jealous??I feel like she is trying to get me mad on purpose..can anyone one help me?? Thanks!!
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Feb 1 2005, 04:02 PM
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GOSH! I could swear you are my best friend in disguise....lol she's going through the same thing. But she knows that her boyfriend is going out with her, he loves her, and not that other girl. Just have trust in your boyfriend. Just because he talks to his ex, doesn't mean he wants her back. Maybe talk to him if you're really unsure about it.
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Feb 1 2005, 04:06 PM
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~*Pretty Girls Make Graves*~ Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 93,989 |
Yea thats the advice some of my other friends have given me also..I guess im just trippin over nothing...Well thanks a whole bunch!!
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Feb 1 2005, 10:18 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
my god. he can't talk to his ex? if he starts talking excessively or like, flirty, then smack him across the head and be like, "WHATS WRONG WITH U FOO'?"
if ur really worried, talk to him about it. |
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Feb 1 2005, 10:22 PM
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i think i should jus let him knoe how you feel
personally i think jelousy is normal... ppl shudn't feel bad for being jelous, cuz its just another emotion... and if u never felt jelous it'd be weird cuz being jelous of sm1 else makes it CLEAR that you really care abt that person. why else wud u be jelous? ... like if this ramdom guy goes flirting with some other girl wud u be jelous??? no wayy. so yea..... if hes a good guy he'd understand. and jus tell him how she's saying bat stuff abt u =) muahahah >=) |
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Feb 1 2005, 10:22 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Just try to trust him. Just think of this as a test on how much he actually cares about you. Let him talk to her, but if you see him flirting, then that may be your time to butt in.
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Feb 1 2005, 10:35 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
the same thing is happening to my friends too...except the ppl involved r my friends only...well the advice i gave my friends was to ignore her when shes trying to get u mad...getting mad wont solve anything...and for now just trust ur boyfriend...if he starts talking a lot to her then maybe u should ask whats going on..
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Feb 2 2005, 11:19 AM
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The rapture or the anguish -- you decide! Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,572 |
Yeah, this is what makes relationships interesting. You either trust him, or you move on. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt though -- you start worrying if he's suddenly not available for anything.
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Feb 2 2005, 02:20 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I don't think you should act like that. You are Jealous but there is nothing to worry about. I am sure that he wants to be with you. You have to understand the situation from both sides. But, if she starts talking mad shit, woop her ass...hehe!
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Feb 2 2005, 03:03 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
It's normal to feel that way, I guess. You just need to trust him. If he says you nothing to worry about; then trust his words on it. Talking is only words. But if action is involved, then you got a big problem. Heh.
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Feb 2 2005, 08:31 PM
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don't tripp. talk to him about it. you won't know the truth unless you hear it from the person.
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Feb 2 2005, 09:14 PM
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exactly. but if he's just talking to her and nothing else you shouldn't worry, though i know i probably would to...but yeah just talk to him. but you have to learn to give him some trust. |
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Feb 2 2005, 10:02 PM
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Trust your boyfriend. =\ or talk to him about it if it's really bothering you.
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Feb 9 2005, 06:25 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Don't push your b/f away. Just tell him how it makes you feel..the fact that the girl is a threat to you...and that you're afraid of losing him....if you tell him that I think he'll be aware how it makes you feel.
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Feb 9 2005, 06:43 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Confront him. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. I think you're just a little paranoid cause you care about him a lot. Maybe you should talk to his ex too?
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