Is it ok to like a teacher below 30?, That's for my friend...=.=" Options

[aztecs_ring]

i know it is the wierdest thing happened to my friend but i can't help it...so i wanna noe if its me or my friend IS wierd

[_sarcastic_]

i find that pretty scary, well that's my opinion

[Wishful_Dream]

actually it depends on your friend's age..

[misoshiru]

no its not. well...unless you were already in college, and then it isnt illegal for students to go out w/ teachers.

[whomps]

It's not WRONG but it's not necessarily right >_>
It's not you it's your friend.

[Chii]

no its not.  well...unless you were already in college, and then it isnt illegal for students to go out w/ teachers.

it's illegal if it's your teacher...but i'm not sure if it's illegal if it's a teacher


i personally don't think it's okay...even if the teacher is under 30, he/she will still be at least 10 years older...and dating someone that much older is uncommon for teenagers...well from what i see

[lilxroxy]

omgahh. thats like my friend. -__- she gets so "normal" when he`s around..it`s scary.

worst of all..hes married and his wife is pregnant. buh owell. i think she knws its jst a "crush"

[mouse_3k]

It depends on how old the kid is..but either way, liking a teacher is just plain gross...even if he was 18, hes a teacher of yours and thts..eh..

[*stephinika*]

yeah it depends on the age of your friend...but i think liking a teacher is normal...its when you actually do something about it that it can get out of hand..

[LeAnBaK]

well i dont think its weird cuz there is a teacher at my school and he like 27+ and he look gooood...hahah thas jus my opinion

[novemberwind]

i have a teacher who's like that. he's 28 and i lots of girls swoon over him

i swear it makes me think of some mangas. also, makes me think of that movie, election or something like that.

anyway, it's not really possible unless they've already got something actually going, then they should wait until she/he is old enough.

[sunissed14127]

It's just a crush. She'll get over it, and noting will happen to make the crush go any further, so just dont worry about it.

[megan_x3]

thats weird. y would any student go out with ur teachers. =_____=""

[lady_karamelle]

lol. me and my best friend in jr hi used to have the biggest crush on two of our male teachers. one of them, mr b., was an ex gap model so u can imagine how hott...the other was married. but my friend had this weird obsession with them. I think it had something to do with the fact that they were both really really good teachers, some of the best I've ever had. But I guess as long as u don't intend on pursuing it (like ONE girl i know...ew) then its human. I mean, I have a crush on will smith and hes like, 37 and has been married for 7 years w/three kids!! *sigh*

[NobleSpirit11]

I'm a 23 year old teacher, and I know crushes are normal. (When I was in eighth grade, I had a crush on my history teacher ... who was ironically 23 at that time.)

However, regardless if he or she is 21 or 41, it's illegal for a teacher to date a student.

So if a student approaches me and asks me out, not only would I say no to keep my job, I would say no because I don't want to be a cradle robber! Please ... keep the crush to yourself.

[dani41790]

ewl i find that gross

[177emories]

sick. teacher + student = no no!

i wanna be a teacher at that age... i think i'll be one when i'm 24...

[xkiller_muffiinx]

ew? depends on the age difference. I mean what would a teacher want from a student? o.O;;

[shortiiex]

umm...it is JUST a crush...so it is not like they are going to get married and have kids *chills on back*

[to-devastate]

no doubt; i find that weird. but i guess it's alright.. It's normal to like older people- look at me and chad michael murray. He's like under 30 but like alot older than me. And gosh; he's hott.

[Skyline Drive]

That's kind of odd but I think it's okay if it's just a little crush... as long as she doesn't try to go up to him and confess that to him then I guess it's fine.

[blah1234567]

that gross if you ask me...how old are you?

[lilJdawg]

EW. GROSSS! that's SICK.

[blackbow]

^wtf is wrong with you, its not sick at all.. its just another person, you can be attracted to anyone. why wouldn't you say "eww thats sick" to someone who likes the same sex? what makes liking a teacher any "weirder" than being gay. neither is weird.

although, the friend just has to realize that its a crush not worth having, because nothing will come of it, and hopefully nothing ever will.

[whywasisostupid]

how old is your friend?
i mean its okay to have like a crush, but lets not get obsessive here.

[JessyMarie]

heyy if he*s hott you can crush on him all you lik ... my bio teacher is so fine ... know i have a B in that class (maybe it*s from flirtin though)

[Shattered_Hope]

there's more than one way to look at this:
1.) It's OK if it's a crush.
2.) Anything more serious..and it's a problem.
3.)Even if your friend is of age...I dont think it'd be illegal...but if like the two went out the teacher could always get fired...meh, not really sure, but I think that's it.

[sweetdreamsx3]

It's just a crush right? It's fine as long as he/she doesn't become overly obsessed with the teacher and yeah..

[blah1234567]

is your friend YOU or something?

[bad_girl]

yes.. it totally depends on ur friends age

[rockmyx]

no its not.  well...unless you were already in college, and then it isnt illegal for students to go out w/ teachers.

Agree!

l have a very beautiful and smart prof. last semester and she's going out with my friend right now. My prof was 23 and my friend was 21.

[novemberwind]

thats weird. y would any student go out with ur teachers. =_____=""

because some people think they are SEXY

not mee!

[*mona lisa*]

what's wrong with that? i once knew a teacher who was 30 and man, he was hot! but i just thought he was hot and that was it. nothing more. if your friend is obsessed with him, then she needs help.

[KrunkMuzik]

I think liking a teacher is just wrong! That;s how lil girls/boys be getting raped these days

[mashimaro10]

depends...lol but i guess that's okay? i know some people who have like a very big age difference and they seem happy..

[*instantmusic*]

i had a crush on my 42 year old teacher. dam she was smoking hott. and she was my health teacher. girl, age aint a thing.

... LMAO.

[*tweeak*]

well, a couple of my friends and i were discussing how our 28 year old chem teacher was hot. so i think its fine to say theyre hot, just not actually form a crush

[nevernothere]

"for my friend"... uh-huh... sure..... Go ahead and like him if you want.. but I think that's just wierd.

[Rayj]

I say hell yes.

[hpsm2]

Well, it's okay i guess. Look at Justin Timberlake and Cameron Diaz... Aston Kutcher and Demi Moore! The age difference between them is awfully big.

[ItzOnlySydney]

i guess not. i have a teacher who is like 27;28 somewhere in that area, and he is a local musican and me and my firned marybeth go to all his shows and we stay late after school a few minutes each day to talk to him and just hang out. he's rkly kewl and we're friends =).

[ItzOnlySydney]

hmm...oops! i osted twice ahhh ugh!

[xj_liana_tx]

wow, i personally think that's nasty.

[Just_Dream]

I chose "why not?"

it's okay to LIKE a teacher who's younger than 30, but not okay to DATE one, unless of course the person who likes the teacher is 18 or older.

I know plenty of people who thought our science teacher back in 6th grade named Mr. Sheldon (was was probably 25 at the time) was hot/cute. Of course, I didn't. =P

[mysticalazxn]

friend like sex-relationship...then no
but friend as hangout buddy, it ok!

[Nugget]

welll it doesnt really matter since they wont date..unless the teacher is a sicko and DOES but its really kinda the "i think the teacher is hott" thing..i mean i had that b4..until i realized it was..sick.. but thats me

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whoops i forgot hes under 30..so yea age

[EmoEyelinerx]

Depends what he looks like.

[Mystic Eyes]

Sometimes you can't help who you like. So no, there's nothing wrong with it.

[*Mercy*]

I dont see anything wrong with that.

[*Intercourse.*]

Well Early 20's, maybe? My boyfriend is turning 21 on the 30th so I guess I don't find anything wrong with our relationship.

Also for him to be like 29 and if you guys are in high school I guess there is nothing wrong with her 'liking' him as long as it doesn't go any further than that.

[PuppyChan]

No, I don't think there's anything wrong with your friend 'liking' her teacher. Also, it doesn't sound strange

I know many girls who have taken a liking to their teachers. Not me, though...before you say anything.

[alysaphobia]

I'm sure it's normal, I've heard of people having crushes on teachers a lot... but I've always just found it a weird notion, myself.

[Rachel]

Wow, olllld topic!


Anyway, it is all situational. If your friend is over the age of 18, and it's not her teacher, I don't see anything wrong with it.

[NgocQuyen]

umm. i guess it depends on how old the student is? if the age difference isn't that great then i guess there wouldn't be a problem...i guess.

[tokyo-rose]

It's okay to like him as long as nothing comes out of it.
It's just if she's under 18 and they did anything, they'd both get in trouble.

[MrElsewhere]

Liking ANYBODY is fine. But you have to remember to live in reality, and not in your own little world. Some things can never be. Some things are highly, highly improbable. And others are all too possible. :]