best friend of the opposite sex ?, juzt wondering. Options

[lilconfusedbabii...]

my best friend is a guy .. and like it`s really cool cuz like i can talk to him about things i can`t with my girls, and he knows what my boyfriend is thinking because he`s a guy too, y`knoe ? but the annoying thing about it is that EVERYONE cums up to us and goes "you guys should go out". i would never ever ever ever go out with him. he`s like a brother to me.

anyone else ?

[royalfreshness]

Yea last year i met my best guy friend and everyone used to come up to us and say that or "ya'll look so cute together" blah blah. But I'm still ncomfortable talking to him about things (but then again i don't talk to my girl friends about everything either). But I guess in a way I know what he's thinking and stuf when he talks about girls cos too many times we've said the same exact thing at the same time :P.
But sadly I've fallen for him. The only problem with certain guy friends. I have those friends were i would never think of it and those that I'm like hmm.. xD.

[snak3y3z1001]

best friends are two females. Knew them about 12-13 years out of 17 years of my life

[DFana]

yea i have a best guy friend who happens to be best friends with my bf..it was kinda awkward at first..but it's really cool having a best guy friend (besides the "oh you look so cute together" and "you two should totally go out")..they know what other guys are thinking and are really nice..they don't treat you like a girl..but as a friend..and that's awesome

[blurredvision]

DUH! i already have one....hes like...100000000000 x better then my girlfriends..


[ i'm a girl btw]

[xXirockhardXx]

i dont have a guy best friend but i do know a guy since kinder but i dont concider him a bff :shrugs:

[_sarcastic_]

yeah i have a best friend that's a guy, ppl always say we should go out. eh. but the both of us has bf and gf. so yeah known him for 4 years now

[smilz2dasun]

having best friends of the opposite sex is always a plus. me and my gbf always help each other out when we have problems with a guy/girl we like.. and its interesting to get viewpoints from the opposite sex as well because they think differently than us and can open our eyes to something we're not seeing.. it's always nice to be able to talk to a guy on that level without the intention of getting together.. (unless you are, but that's another story )

[goofipinay]

yea...everyone says we should go out...and his best friend (other than me) keep tellin me that he likes me...it annoys me that whenever we talk everyone starts thinkin he saked me out n i said yea...we're juss close friends..but now he likes me so its kinda weird..
oh yes and 2 of my exes r my best friends too...lol its kool thought except for the fact that my recent ex thinks i still love my other ex...he gets so jeolous..i think thats why he broke up with me ..
it must be cuz most of my friends altogether r guys...i dunno..i think i trust them more ..

[xxtangoisnotfor3]

i always falll for my male best friends.its kinda weird, i mean theyre the only ones i trust with everything, and they always seem to know more about me than any other kind of person in this world.and they do make good boyfriends cause theres nothing to hide.the one thing about dating ur best friend is that if he breaks ur heart u most prolly wont be able to see him as a best friend anymore.cause that happened to me once

[kellyannie]

Yeah, one of my best friends is a guy. It just seems easier for me to get along with guys for some reason... but I still have a girl best friend too.

[Chinchillaman]

my best friend is a girl. Its great. We have know each otehr since forever and we know everything about each other. And do I mean everthing.

[pinayprincess]

i have a guy best friend, i think i have alot kuz i mostly talk to them bout my problems instead with all of the girls

[NeSsA0723]

my best friend is a guy and i wouldn't want it anyother way...i found out the hard way that girls are bitches and only think bout themselves....plz dont get offended

[laugh2much]

yep. ppl say when he breaks up w. this other grl u should go out. this other guy, he's sort of is my best friend well he just makes me laugh a lot and gets me included in stuff and this other guy and we just talk all the time bout stuff and at the end of the day we scream each other's name across the hall. its soo fun. all of them are fun!

[to-devastate]

psh i wish.

[*stephinika*]

yeah. my two best friends are guys (well one if my boyfriend) but yeah..and my ratio of guys to girls for actual friends is interesting...most are guys.

[xj_liana_tx]

no, but i want one!

[KissMe2408]

lol yah i have a best friend that's a guy. It's so awesome. And he's the best. No one really tells us we should go out nemore, because we def tried that. lol just didn't work out, we work better as friends. The weird thing is that after we went out and broke up, THATS when we started becoming best friends, lol it was a really weird situation, but we've been through alot together. and i really miss him I haven't seen him for about 6 months now...it's crazy cuz he lives pretty close by.

[-SuN-KiSSeD-]

one of my oldest and bestest friends is a guy! IT's funny we can usually talk about anything and like we're always there for each other no matter what. He's so helpful too, like he always watches out for me to see if I'll get hurt, and he alwyas knows the guy's side of the story so it's super sweet lol

[lady_karamelle]

I mostly have guy friends to begin with, and all my closest friends are guys. even my boyfriend was my best friend (and still is) before we got together. I think its great cuz they can make more sense of guys (sometimes) than I can. besides..girls are too competitive..I have lots of guy friends and they think i'm trying to steal they're boyfriend. dudes dont care

[*Weird addiction*]

i have a very close guy friend

[blah1234567]

nope...but i have friends of the opposite sex. they are not my 'best friends'

[dani41790]

yea i have a few.

[177emories]

ys i do, whats wrong with that?

[cleec]

Yeah I have a best guy friend that I love to death and people constantly ask if we are "together", and one of my friends came up to me the other day saying how much he thinks my best friend likes me. It's so aggravating because I'm sure these other people have close friends of the opposite sex also.

[silver-rain]

well, my boyfriend is my best friend. but i have a few close good guy friends.

[cocoalightning27]

I have a best Girl-friend, but she's cool and we're both peverted...lol

[Skyline Drive]

Nope, I kind of wish I did though.

[babyxyelloe]

im so, so glad that my best friend is a guy <3 hes the greatest. i mean hes not like your boyfriend, but your companion - hes there for you when you need him to be and he CAN say sweet things to cheer you up - even though he is not dating you. you can be so relaxed around him because hes like that too, haha. and plus, you can talk to eachother and tell eachother why this guy is hurting you or something like that. you get me?

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

both times i've had a female best friend i've ended up liking her, and both times i've gone out with her, but both times they eventually just wanted to be my friend again.

it's totally alright.

btw watch and see, he might have liked you / likes you now / will like you in the future, and if he does try to look at him outside of your 'like a brother to me' perspective cause if a guy gets that (i've gotten it 3 times) it hurts like HELL.

[sheepy]

mhms; always happen but screw those people.

[heyyfrankie]

that happened to me in 6th grade! i was like best friends with this one girl and everyone was like are y'all going out or are y'all going to go out. and we just were just really good friends.

but now my best friend is a guy. me and the girl just kinda drifted apart. -_-

[shortiiex]

nope...i just have my 2 girlfriends

[sammi rules you]

i have a loooot of guy friends.
i usually end up liking them though, and that's troublesome, but they're cooler than my girl friends.

[racoons > you]

ive always had a pretty good mix of girl and guy friends though

my best friends always been a girl though

i love u nicki... awww... agape at work

[sweetdreamsx3]

Why yes I do...lol, but my best friend is a girl and that's also cool..

[pink_tootsie]

my best friends are girls but i have a best guy friend...does that count?

[nevernothere]

Yea.. my best friend's a chick... ppl always think we're going out.. but it's still cool.

[_Emily_]

I've got a ton of guy friends. a few guy best friends too. i think that guys are a lot of the time better friends than girls...girls are too judgemental...

[love-issosweet]

i have only one...but then we don't hang out with each other...just talk...and i've fallen for him too

[xbrokenheartz]

i have only like three guy friends. i can't exactly call them, " best " friends though. it's cool though because sometimes we flirt with eachother in a friendly way. (:

[VGyrl88]

I don't have a best friend of the opposite sex..It's hard to open up to a guy; you can't tell if they're interested or just trying to get into you..Some guys are jerks, while others or sweet but their expressions can be deceiving. You can't really tell what type of person they are.

[Brina]

My best friend is a guy. We've known eachother since about 5th grade, (he's in 11th and I'm in 10th now) and my dad and his mom went to highschool together so our families have known eachother forever, lol. He's my angel and the most amazing person in the world. Yes, he has a girlfriend and that has caused a lot of issues, but we work through it. We stick by eachother because we love eachother. Sometimes we go for weeks without spending quality time together, but we forgive and forget and move on. :satisfied: He's the best thing that's ever happened to me besides God and my best female friend. I just...omg I love them both so much.


I'm done now, lol.

[Eternally_Yours]

well my bestest best friend isnt a guy, but i do have a guy best friend. ive known him since 5th grade.

[avalon*]

He's my angel and the most amazing person in the world. Yes, he has a girlfriend and that has caused a lot of issues, but we work through it. We stick by eachother because we love eachother. Sometimes we go for weeks without spending quality time together, but we forgive and forget and move on. :satisfied: He's the best thing that's ever happened to me besides God and my best female friend. I just...omg I love them both so much. 
I'm done now, lol.

that's exactly -- word for word -- what i would say about my guy friend.

[*instantmusic*]

she f"cked one of my male close friends. </3 The end.

[bravodancer04]

I have a guy best friend and he's awesome..we can talk about anything and its so awesome just to be able to talk to someone like that..and its so awesome bc him and my bf are friends too! lol

[visualfusion]

So if I consider none of my friends... "best" friends... because all my friends are the best... how do I answer this question?

[cewinee]

i used to have loads of guy best friends.. but the ones i thought were my brothers ended up abusing me as we grew older =/ so i try to avoid close relationship with guy friends.. sucks =(

[Brina]

that's exactly -- word for word -- what i would say about my guy friend.

Aww...glad to hear it.

[hoogli]

until i was 5, my best friend was a girl. even though i have more guy friends than girl friends right now, i have found that girls as a whole are nicer and easier to talk to.

[aznhunnie6o1]

Yeah I have guy bestfriends.. I think guys are more easier to talk too and more laid back. But sometimes I need to talk to girls about some stuff.

[*instantmusic*]

thats how a wife happens.

[sparklebabygirl]

I have a best friend that is a guy and we came close to dating

[Mistrunner]

I have have a ton of best friends, because we're all pretty close, but my two bestest best friends are a male and female... and they're also in a relationship. (Awww, hehe.) Anyway, I would never go out with my best guy friend... 1) because his girlfriend is also my best friend, and 2) we're not that kind of close.

[d0rkbaby]

i have a really good friend thats a guy. we used to hang out soo much. and since so many ppl kept on asking if we were going out. we started keeping count. it was actually pretty halarious. personaly i think i have more guys friends then i do girls.

[brokenskys]

my best friend is a guy .. and like it`s really cool cuz like i can talk to him about things i can`t with my girls, and he knows what my boyfriend is thinking because he`s a guy too, y`knoe ? but the annoying thing about it is that EVERYONE cums up to us and goes "you guys should go out". i would never ever ever ever go out with him. he`s like a brother to me.

anyone else ?

my words exactly. well except for my boyfriend doesnt like him cuz he thinks he'll end up falling for me or the other way around. but he's like my brother, really.

[danishcookiez]

they're cool, i just don't like it when ppl pair us up together or something or assume that there's something more than friendship

[XxArsonFreakxX]

my 2 best friends are girls they are like my little sisters and i would do anything for them

[lilconfusedbabii...]

He's my angel and the most amazing person in the world. Yes, he has a girlfriend and that has caused a lot of issues, but we work through it. We stick by eachother because we love eachother. Sometimes we go for weeks without spending quality time together, but we forgive and forget and move on.  He's the best thing that's ever happened to me besides God and my best female friend. I just...omg I love them both so much. 
I'm done now, lol.

that is so sweet. im gonna cry... lol

[XxArsonFreakxX]

wow a lot of people have a lot of opposite sex best friends

[zbrittanyz]

I have a good friend who's a guy, but all my really close friends are girls. There's just some stuff you can't talk about with a boy that you can with a girl. Although my friend starts up just as much drama as any of my friends that are girls.

[lilJdawg]

Yeah, he's my brother. awesomest brother ever.

[ohhxohh]

yeah!! guy friends are awesome

[xbr0kensmil3]

i have a few and only like 3 best girlfriends. i guess i prefer guys cuz most of the girls i know are fakes and the guys i know are interesting.

[xxpimpjuice1227x]

i have 3 bestfriends.... 2 girls and 1 boy..each of them have different characteristic... like my bestfriend Eunice we go to mall and hang out and buy shoes and clothes we go shopping. My bestfriend Jeanelle she just wow shes helps me on every problem i have.. she also knos everything bout me including al my secrets and we also party together and yea.. my bestfriend Mcallison this dude we jus have everything in comment ecxpet sports ..ah crap im poor at sports...

having a bestfried of an oppisite sex rocks..it dosent mean your gay and anything it jus how your social life is.

[sheddingtears]

yeah... kind of. it's kind of uncomfortable sometimes though.

[*instantmusic*]

yes i have one, and i get jealous of every guy she speaks to. she will be in my arms tonight and evernight, and only in my arms, so help me God!

[LoST SouL]

my best friends a guy he meens so much 2 me we have like a lil family n hes like my father kkus he always knows wats best 4 me n hes always there 4 me.. idk wta id do w/o him sometimes i think i 'like' him but i jus think its b/c hes bout the only person who really undertsand me n helps me n listens 2 me i luv him 2 death if i eva lost him id seriously cry

[DanielleMaria05]

Well, my situation is similar, but not the same. I have a best friend thats a boy. I've known him since I was in 2nd grade. I'm now a senior. Yeah, everyone comes up to us, and asks "are you two dating yet..?" "You two will end up married" and blah blah blah, except, heres where mine is different. I'm madly in love with him.. :( Which makes me sad. Well, we've talked about it, and worked this out, but some how, we stay best friends, and I think I like it that way, I'm just scared about college next year, and how things will work out..

[audory]

yeah. i find that guys are really trustworthy. i mean, what are they going to do? go talk w/ their guy friends? "OMG did you HEAR?!" haha. yeah, i have two best guy friends. they're the best.

[LoST SouL]

yea likein my best frined makes me sad too.. im only a junior n im terrified of next yr sinc eits out last yr together i dun wanna go 2 kollege kus idk wat ill do wit out him

[Xerohedra]

Yeah I kind of do

[BrokenHeartsKILL...]

i have a guy best friend. but .. u kno .. the bad thing is .. if you start liking them.

[espionage]

I have a female best friend, yes. And my next two closest friends are female as well. >_<

The bad thing is also when the rest of the school thinks you're going out with your best friend.
It's. Really. Annoying. And. Idiotic.

[123Shot]

Wel my best friend is a girl....wel girls r funner to hang around anyway! Sometimes at least...

[leeniex3]

i have like 4 best friends (:! and 3 of them are girls and one is a guy and I think that my guy friend is much better to talk to. Since he can help me out with my boyfriend and all hehe he makes me feel so much better (:!

[Ballpointpencil]

Some of my closest friends have been guys.
'Course, I must point out that my best friend is also my boyfriend. I've only fallen for a really close guy friend once before, and that was him.
Most of my guy friends are like brothers and that would be kind of... eww.

[LQ_Darksoul]

My best friends a girl.. And I will always love her, end of story. My gf has this deep hatred towards her because of that, its something she will have to get over, and if she can't, then it will probably end. Its about trust. She has to trust me, just like your bf will have to learn to trust you.

[usv04babe]

My best friend is a guy, and he is my everything. I have known him for the last 15 years. We are so close, and it's nice just to have him around sometimes. It is easy to talk to him about anything, and since he is a guy, he is good with giving me advice about other males. I see no problem in males and females being friends, even though some people say that it will only lead to one thing, but I have not seen that happen, and I doubt it will. My boy understands that I have more male friends than I do female, and he knows that my best friend is a guy, and he really trusts me, because without trust, our relationship would be hell.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

well...in my opinion i think that any two people who are best friends with each other n is a guy n a girl then they are eventually bound to have feelings for each other. it may take many many years but thats wat i think. but trust is an important part of the relationship. if there's no trust then it will be hell. trust me i've been there.

[X-Zeifer]

Yeah im so in love with her.

[bad_girl]

yeah.. i guess.

[bakagrl79]

i have alot of guy friends. .but i never had a best friend as a guy.

[AngelTears]

Yeah, then again I consider all of my friends my best friends sence I feel I can talk to any of them about anything.

But I'm kind of uncomphertable around them, public school kind of screwed me up.. I was there till 5th grade which in 5th grade and under if you talked or hung out with a guy that either ment you liked him or you were weird and thats just not what you did.. so I was homeschooled in 6th grade, and thats the year in public school when having guy friends was cool *rolls eyes* So I never really grew out of it till this year!

Now I have a ton of guy friends *nod*

[gossipgirl]

I have load of gd/best frdz hoo are in the opposite sex,
i used to have relationships with them,
i mean,
thats casual'
Love ya*muah

[illuminessence]

I think almost every girl on the planet has experienced the drama that can generate once your best friend ends up being of the opposite sex. In my opinion, ALMOST in every situation, the friendship is doomed whenever your best friend is the opposite sex. One person always ends up wanting more.

[No1_2_NoBody13]

Yes...i have like a ton of them...everyone is always telling me that we should all go out but it would NEVER happen only cuz well why would i want to...so we just ignore it