Is it normal for a girl to ask a guy out???, Help me and give me pointers to guys. |
 Jan 30 2005, 10:33 AM
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Is it normal for a girl to ask a guy out? There's this one guy at my school who I have a major crush on but he's usually shy around me....sorta.
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Jan 30 2005, 10:38 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
it can happen...doesn't happen around here often though. but if you like him, go for it
 i would never do it though *shivers*
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Jan 30 2005, 10:44 AM
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 ferrero rocher<3 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 |
theres no real correct way to do it. guys dont ask girls out because its whats guys do but because they really like her/him. i've done it twice or more (cant remember) & 2 outta 2 times went successful. dont be scared, ask him.
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 30 2005, 10:45 AM
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if the guys shy he's not gonna make the first move your going to have to.
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Jan 30 2005, 02:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Yes,
it is okay. Unless you want to go old-fashioned. |
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Jan 30 2005, 02:45 PM
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if you think he likes you, go for it!!! maybe he likes that you were bold/brave enough to do it!
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Jan 30 2005, 03:13 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well if you know he likes you back then you go for it, but if you aren't too sure bout his feelings for you than i suggest you get to know him a little better first before asking him out.
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Jan 30 2005, 03:22 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
oh, yes. it`s normal, but if you`re uncomfortable with it, then think otherwise.
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Jan 30 2005, 03:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Yeah, it's normal. If you like him then go ask him out because you'll never know how long you will be waiting for him to ask you out because he's shy.
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Jan 30 2005, 03:55 PM
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 DANG forgot to add a border XD Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,973 |
i dont think theres anything wrong with doing that...i mean if you like someone you should tell them how you feel ^^ even if it means you gotta ask him out lol
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Jan 30 2005, 04:02 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Duh. What do you think? It's wrong? Guys can ask girls out anytime, and vise versa. Guys just ask girls out more often.
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Jan 30 2005, 04:52 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,637 |
 Gee thanks. This sure helps. Maybe I will ask him out......but it's my first time and all so it may take some time to think over. 
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Jan 30 2005, 05:08 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
wellz, what i say is go for it cuz what if some other girl ask him out and he sayz yes? then u already missed ur chance so yeah, i say go for it
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Jan 30 2005, 10:27 PM
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 i . am . a w e s o m e Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,151 |
theres nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out! but id never do it cuz im too much of a wuss...
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Jan 30 2005, 10:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
Well sure, if you're really confident about it then go for it.
My friends tell me that if girls ask a guy out, they're being despreat. I don't believe that though. Just do what you feel. And what do you mean by it being normal? |
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Jan 30 2005, 10:52 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
well its normal now. go ahead, ask him out. try getting him to come out of his shell first tho.
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Feb 2 2005, 11:34 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
yes...and there are numerous topics on this..
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 3 2005, 12:13 AM
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^^
agreed. and yeah its totally normal...if you're brave enough, go for it! 
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| *salcha* |
Feb 3 2005, 12:49 AM
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sure,
plus sadies hawkins dance is coming up (well, at my school anyway) |
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Feb 3 2005, 01:27 AM
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 Nobody Knows Your Heart. Group: Member Posts: 388 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,906 |
go for it. it's not wrong, it's just what society tells you to do. or just being old-fashioned.
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Feb 6 2005, 07:07 PM
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 so give me all your posion and give me all your pills Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,345 |
Go for it angela =D!! hehe this likeur best friend right here!! damn boy!! ask him!!
~ mucho luv indira =D |
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Feb 6 2005, 07:10 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
Thats sorta a turn on 0.0 A girl asking a guy out
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Feb 6 2005, 09:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
^^ Is it really? Hmm...
Anyway, I agree with AsianJennyx91 |
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Feb 22 2005, 06:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,594 |
yep its normal, but some guys think its weird, its usually the guy that does it, but i heard that if a girl is really desperate than she does ask him out
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Feb 22 2005, 06:07 PM
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 j'adore dior Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,477 |
i've done it ALOT
but my new years resolution is not to. i'm waiting for the guys from now on |
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Feb 22 2005, 10:50 PM
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 chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
write a note hand it to him.....and walk away...he will tell you if hes interested
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Feb 25 2005, 10:06 PM
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i asked my guy friend 2 go out..but twasnt formal..jus hanging out at the mall..lol
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Feb 26 2005, 04:46 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,752 |
i think it is completely normal..if you know what you want then take some action!
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Feb 26 2005, 02:13 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
My friend asks out guys..but I don't agree with it..I think that the guy should ask the girl out..but that's my opinion..
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Feb 26 2005, 02:16 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Yes, it's very normal, I do that all the time. =]
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Feb 28 2005, 05:43 AM
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if a guys can do that how is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out? yeah.
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Mar 12 2005, 01:43 PM
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well if ur tired of waiting for him to ask him go ahead and do it but my friend did that once cuz the guy was too shy to ask her they had a lunch date then the day after he didnt want to talk to her hes like i just wanna be alone after that his sister called and told her to break up cuz he wanted to and my friend is like no im gonna cuz he doesnt have any balls to break up w/ her i was like w/e then after that the next day she wrote u suck on his locker lol it was funny but this guy u say he has a major crush on u then he might not break up wit u so ya
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Mar 12 2005, 01:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
like i would never do that..it is a guy's job....but girls have to do something beside showing off their boobs
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Mar 12 2005, 01:51 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i practically asked out my first boyfriend. lol! he asked the question but i made it obvious. hehe. but yea thats the only time. n im still with him. ^.^
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