Friendship problems, Losing frenz....cuz of fights |
 Jan 29 2005, 10:21 PM
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My friend is totally mad at me juz bcuz i did better than her on a french test and a few other test.....i dun really understand why.....she kps telling me dat i don't deserve the marks dat i got on all da tests....itz not my fault i wanted to getr a gd mark so dat my parents would be glad....n izzit my fault she doesn't do as well as me sumtimes n besides she usually is better than me...also she hates me for not telling her the ans for some dumb hw assignment she didn't bother to do.....wad should i do.....apologize???
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Jan 29 2005, 10:25 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
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1. have posted this in relationship forum  2. play off your friend's silliness as a joke 3. offer to tutor your friend if she/he was serious < might piss her/him off though 4. NOT apologize The most ridiculous thing to do is apologize. What the hell would you be saying sorry for? "I'm sorry I made a better grade than you. I'm sure I'll fail next time and you'll do better." 
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| *x____duckii* |
Jan 29 2005, 10:27 PM
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You know what? Your friend is just jealous. Don't give her the answers to her homework or anything. Try to talk to her. Tell her what you feel, but don't apologize because you didn't do anything wrong. If she doesn't understand, then that's definetly someone you wouldn't want to be friends with.
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Jan 29 2005, 10:30 PM
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QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Jan 29 2005, 7:25 PM) You should 1. have posted this in relationship forum 2. play off your friend's silliness as a joke 3. offer to tutor your friend if she/he was serious < might piss her/him off though 4. NOT apologize The most ridiculous thing to do is apologize. What the hell would you be saying sorry for? "I'm sorry I made a better grade than you. I'm sure I'll fail next time and you'll do better."  ^ whoa.. she took all the words out of my mouth =p not. haha. she has better words than i could ever say.. anyways, don't apologize to your friend. she's overly-jealous and wants to be the best.. seeing as she wants to use you for answers.. i think you should just find better friends.. |
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Jan 29 2005, 10:31 PM
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Thnx for the advice...but ever since i didn't tell her the answers to the hw assignment she's been ignoring me.....of course i dun wanna apologize...but i can't think of anything else....she also hates a few of my frenz cuz of the same thing 2......
Repeated post merged. This post has been edited by uninspiredfae: Jan 29 2005, 10:38 PM |
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Jan 29 2005, 10:32 PM
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QUOTE(summer_gal93 @ Jan 29 2005, 7:31 PM) Thnx for the advice...but ever since i didn't tell her the answers to the hw assignment she's been ignoring me.....of course i dun wanna apologize...but i can't think of anything else....she also hates a few of my frenz cuz of the same thing 2...... ^ she sounds like a bad friend, ditch her, immediately. =) |
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Jan 29 2005, 10:34 PM
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I repeated something twice...oooooppppppsssiiiiieeess.s....
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Jan 29 2005, 11:01 PM
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i guess it is pretty useless to apologize....but if i dun apologize....wad could i do....????
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Jan 29 2005, 11:13 PM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
What you could do first is stop double posting, please, then think about this situation with a cool head.
Listen to yourself. This "friend" gets mad when you and others don't let her cheat off of you. This friend gets mad simply because you made a better grade. Is this what you called friendship? If it is, then I pity you. If it is not, then just get over the situation. Offer to tutor. Say "I can help you to understand the concept, but I really don't think I have all the right answers to the problems". Yes, it sounds corny, but if your "friend" still don't get it, then you should just ignore her. |
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Jan 29 2005, 11:14 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
dont apologize, and ditch her.
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Jan 29 2005, 11:24 PM
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do not owe her a apology cuz its aint ur fualt. let her have it her way cuz she really need to think straight ... she is probably jealous just becuase she sucks.
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 30 2005, 04:59 AM
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thats stupid...she shouldn't be mad at you about that. if she really was your friend, she'd be happy for you or something or at least, not get mad at you.
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Jan 30 2005, 05:19 AM
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Bah, dont apologize if shes bein like that..Shes not a real friend at all cause a real friend wouldnt be mad at their friend for doing better, they would be happy
right? 
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Jan 30 2005, 10:24 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
Don't apologize to her for something you didn't do, she's just jealous and wonders why you all of a sudden got better grades than she does, and she doesn't want to admit that you are better that she is
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Jan 30 2005, 10:52 AM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
ur friend is being an idiot.. if she wants to be mad then let her be mad.. theres no point saying sorrie for something that is not your fault... if i was you i would just tell your friend "yur an idiot thats why yu fail =D" hehe..
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Jan 30 2005, 11:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,260 |
Thnx for all da advice
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Jan 30 2005, 11:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
i think you just ignore her because it's stupid. don't even say your sorry, or give her the answers to the homework. she's jealous of you.
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