When you get dumped |
 Jan 29 2005, 08:47 AM
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Tell me if I'm correct,
but when someone gets dumped, he or she usually feels all depressed like there is nothing to live for and they just want to suicide, right? Well, I have never had a boyfriend, and I've never even wanted to even attempt suicide just because I've never had a boyfriend. But I'm sick of hearing all these " omg, my boyfriend/girlfriend dumped me.. i'm so depressed. " because a lot of people haven't even have a girlfriend/boyfriend before and they feel better than those who have gotten dumped. So I guess relationships suck cause people who don't want a boyfriend/girlfriend, they're depressed cause they do. And when you get dumped, you feel depressed. Did I make any sense? |
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Jan 29 2005, 09:01 AM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
I don't always feel depressed when I get dumped. Actually, I only did feel depressed once. You shouldn't be depressed because you don't have a boyfriend! You're time will come, sooner or later! Enjoy the time you have now to be with your friends. Not all relationships end badly. When you get dumped, just realize that there are PLENTY of other guys out their for you.
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Jan 29 2005, 09:10 AM
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relationships dont suck. they give u chances to learn more about eachother and to develop a bond. and u dont neccesarily feel depressed everytime u get dumped.. because if u do spend a minute to think back, then u'll see why u were dumped. and it isnt always the fault of the one who dumped u.. it may be ur own. n even if u're dumped.. it isnt like the end of the world. the world's got plenty to go 'round. "dont give up an entire forest for one little tree". u can always find someone else.. rite? it's just maybe a moment of depression.. but it pays off for all the good times u've had. dont feel bad for not having a bf yet.. u'll get some sooner or later.
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Jan 29 2005, 10:33 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783 |
i've never had a boy friend but my best friend is like that but she's always up guy's butts so when someone doesnt like he she gets soo depressed but she doesnt understand theres other guys. most of the guys never have over 1 week relationships so she doesnt get that sad about them but she gets soo sad when this guy she talks to online that she likes doesnt talk to her 1 day, i was like wtf?!?! but he's a pimp and goes out with 3 girls at the same time but still doesnt give up trying to go out with him
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Jan 29 2005, 11:21 AM
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Uh. yes and no.
when someone gets dumped, they don't ALWAYS have to feel depressed. sometimes their happy & don't want to kill themselves & relationships doesn't suck because you get to experience what your going to do when your getting married & it creates a bond & such. |
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Jan 29 2005, 12:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I don't get depressed. I might get sad for a while, but I don't use the "I'm going to commit suicide" line.
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| *mishyerr* |
Jan 29 2005, 12:40 PM
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It is kind of biased to say that it is annoying to hear about people getting dumped. When you decide to begin a relationship, a real one, you are basically giving your own heart for that person to hold. And you trust them with it. If you really like that person.. and you guys have had something wonderfully truly special, it does hurt a lot when it's gone. I know this from experience. It's true that also, you don't neccesarily get hurt when getting dumped.. But I think the people you are hearing from do have real heartbreaks.
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Jan 29 2005, 01:55 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I never had a boyfriend before so I wouldn't know how depressed I would feel if I got dumped.
People say they're so so sad that they got dumped; well. it's really not for anyone to feel. They want to feel the way they want to. And it depends how close they were with that person. if they went out for like 4 years, then someone gets dumped, that could be painful. whereas a person gets dumped after a 4 day relationship, they might not feel that sad. |
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Jan 29 2005, 02:24 PM
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 faggot Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,328 |
I have never been dumped.. I usually do the dumping because I cant stand one person for too long. Thats really not normal but thats mean... nothing normal.
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 29 2005, 03:10 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 29 2005, 5:47 AM) Tell me if I'm correct, but when someone gets dumped, he or she usually feels all depressed like there is nothing to live for and they just want to suicide, right?  umm...no. i never thought that. yeah i was upset but never to that point... QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 29 2005, 5:47 AM) So I guess relationships suck cause people who don't want a boyfriend/girlfriend, they're depressed cause they do. And when you get dumped, you feel depressed. like i said, it depends on the person and how they deal with it. i don't think relationships suck...they can be great as well as a learning experience. |
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Jan 29 2005, 03:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,831 |
hmm. i don't think people feel that extreme ... but i've never been dumped so i wouldn't know. i've always done the dumping. *sweatdrop* sadness is normal when someone you like dumps you. *shrugs*
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Jan 29 2005, 04:04 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if the both of you agrees to break it off, then you shouldn't feel depressed. i dont know bout if one dumps the other, nver got dumped before
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Jan 29 2005, 04:18 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(InvisiblePopcorn @ Jan 29 2005, 4:01 AM) I don't always feel depressed when I get dumped. Actually, I only did feel depressed once. You shouldn't be depressed because you don't have a boyfriend! You're time will come, sooner or later! Enjoy the time you have now to be with your friends. Not all relationships end badly. When you get dumped, just realize that there are PLENTY of other guys out their for you. i agree...im not always depressed when i get dumped... |
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Jan 29 2005, 04:28 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
woah! i guess well...hmm hard to answer your not really rite in my eyes because like i dont want to b bf-less the rest of my life. and sometimes im happy when i get dumbed! hahah cuz i dont feel to do the dumping
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Jan 29 2005, 05:27 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
When you're in love with the other person and they used to love you, and they break it off, you're obviously depressed. This is because the special bond is gone, ther person that once made you happy is gone. It's really hard to explain love..
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Jan 30 2005, 03:30 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i dont know. i've never been dumped, but i'd say, yes and no. depends on the situation.
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Jan 30 2005, 11:18 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
ive been dumped but i dont feel like it the end of the world.
just a little upset that he would break up with me after all we've been thru. the only time i am depressed, its my parents fault. |
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Jan 30 2005, 11:30 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i'm usually sad for a couple of days, but it's not a life-ending thing.
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Jan 30 2005, 01:40 PM
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watch out for jellyfish. Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,672 |
hrm. i`ll try not to repeat but i agree with most people that posted. i mean it IS biased to say that it`s annoying. i mean sometiems it does get boring hearing people say that, but it is sad wen u break up.
not always though. (= |
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Jan 30 2005, 03:39 PM
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 peace and love Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,946 |
not exaclty.ive never been dumped and i still get depressed.
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Jan 30 2005, 07:53 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
yea but when ur in a relationship, its great
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Jan 30 2005, 08:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i never went out with anyone either, and i probably won't care much
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Jan 31 2005, 02:36 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
When i get dumped, usually i'm very sad...not to the point of committing suicide tho. But some relationships i was happy after the break up. But i mean, it hurts when you get really close to someone, and then you are suddenly ripped apart.. i dunno how to really explain that pain.
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Jan 31 2005, 12:05 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
oh well lifes tough, i guess deal? cause everytime I get dumped, I feel depressed and wants suicide.
Sorry for feeling that. Sorry but whatcha gon do. |
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Feb 2 2005, 10:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
there's a good and or bad side to this....so you're not right..but you're not wrong either...
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