being friends of a person that other friend hates, solutions pls! |
 Jan 28 2005, 08:02 PM
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stage 1- me, friend A, B, C are friends one another
stage 2- B doesn't want to be friends with A anymore because A gets in B's nerves, but A doesn't know how B feels about her stage 3- a fight- started by me (just listening to A's rumors and said B doesn't treat C as a friend, but finally i put a public apology and this fight is over), at that time me and A are friends, and B and C are friends, separately my group doesn't hang out with B's group (B hates A very much) stage 4- A always blames me about losing her friend B, and C also, even now stage 5- me, B, and C got in a better relationship, become friends again, and I am still A's friend, A doesn't know me, B, and C are together again stage 6- A finally finds out i chatting with B and C and thinks i am making out the relationship with them because i am a loner (my view: I AM NOT A LONER!), so A gets mad at me stage 7- i told B and my other friend about this and they both said i was right and i should ignore A what should i do to make me still be friends with B and C without getting A mad at me? |
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Jan 28 2005, 08:11 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that's kind of dumb, why is A mad at you? you're just trying to fix all of this, B didn't exactly tell you why she doesn't like A, you should find that out and try to fix the relationship with A and B
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Jan 28 2005, 08:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
wow, i put my friends in that same situation, wells not really.. but yea, you shuold talk to your friends more, if they dont want to be friends with the other, you cant force them, first thing to do, secondly.. you have to know its not your fault, its your friends problem, you shouldnt always have to help them out, cause that might make the other friend get mad at you, so you should tell your friend to talk to the other friend becasue you just taking to them wont work..
i had to talk to that person and to the other person for me to be friends with both of them.. get it? sorry if it is confusing.. best of luck.. |
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Jan 28 2005, 10:20 PM
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 peggy's here. Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,603 |
in my personal view, A is too subjective, it is a dumb thing for A to get mad at you, so speak out and find out why
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Jan 28 2005, 11:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
your confuseing me...xD
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Jan 28 2005, 11:45 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
A sounds like a b*tch. Ditch her and go hang out with B and C... and go replace A with a D.
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Jan 28 2005, 11:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I think you should leave them alone. Let them work things out by themselves, while you have fun with B & C & find D. [[:
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Jan 29 2005, 02:08 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i didnt get it...sorry...
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Jan 29 2005, 10:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783 |
tooo complacated for me o_O
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Jan 29 2005, 10:22 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
why dont you just let them work it out themselves?
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Jan 29 2005, 05:03 PM
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peggy's here. Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,603 |
ignore A, in my perspective, A is going to be a loner soon if A's personality doesn't change over time
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Feb 2 2005, 09:58 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Jan 29 2005, 12:45 AM) A sounds like a b*tch. Ditch her and go hang out with B and C... and go replace A with a D.  I second this. 
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