Another "does he like me?", My friends really aren't helping me... |
 Jan 25 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true...  Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954  |
My situation is alittle bit different from other girls' relationships.
I have this really good friend who i can call my "best friend". A few weeks ago he started paying alot of attention to me. He started sitting with me during lunch and always hanging around me. I started liking him when he came to me and tried to solve my problems with another guy (which didn't end up very well) He was really sweet to me and comforted me and even told me he thought i was hott (Possibly just his opinion and nothing more and nobody has ever really told me i was anything more than descent looking). All of my friends think he likes me but he's been acting differently. Now he never sits with me at lunch and doesn't ever talk to me that much anymore. Plus, he pays attention to my friends now more than me. Its getting pretty obvious he doesn't like me, but before i blow him off i wanted to get someone's opinion. |
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Jan 25 2005, 10:19 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Maybe he's going through some changes during life. Hang around him more and see what he does.
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Jan 25 2005, 10:20 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
Maybe he found out you liked him and wanted to get away a little bit.
Or maybe he feels that now your troubles are gone and he can go back to the way you two once were: friends. |
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Jan 25 2005, 10:26 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
Maybe he's acting awkward around you because he found out he likes you. Try and work things out and ask him what's going on.
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Jan 25 2005, 10:27 PM
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Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Ok thanks. I'll just remain his friend and see how things go.
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Jan 25 2005, 10:40 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
maybe his friends are making fun of him for being so *sweet*, idk..i agree with everyon else though
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Jan 25 2005, 10:50 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i agree with what everyone said...hang out with him and try to better know him..
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Jan 25 2005, 11:09 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(FLIPxADDICTION @ Jan 25 2005, 11:26 PM) Maybe he's acting awkward around you because he found out he likes you. Try and work things out and ask him what's going on.  I agree. 
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Jan 25 2005, 11:21 PM
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^^
agreed. just remain friends with him for now at least. |
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Jan 25 2005, 11:26 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
tell him how u feel.
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Jan 26 2005, 01:17 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,231 |
I went through something very similar. My now boyfriend of seven months acted exactly like that...when he finally admitted to my friend that he liked me, he stopped talking to me for a week. Contrary to what we girls think, boys have feelings to sort out too. lol
U'll regret staying quiet, so if there's an opportune moment...go for it! Or if ur a wuss like me, get a friend u both share to do some snooping for u.  Good luck!
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Jan 26 2005, 03:46 PM
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 Rock out X3 Group: Member Posts: 319 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,317 |
no he hates you
 no I'm kidding...it seems he kinda it starting to like you, yes...just make sure you don't ruin your friendship |
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Jan 26 2005, 03:52 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Maybe he does really like you.. and just ignores you because he thinks you don't like him.. hm. i'm not sure.
; isn't this suppose to be in relationships? ; |
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Jan 26 2005, 06:35 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
maybe he started liking you and is trying to make you jelous by talking to your friends more? i dunno guys can be stupid like that
 if he's your best friend try talking it out with him
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Jan 26 2005, 06:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
this guy.. is weird
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Jan 26 2005, 06:44 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
well did you try sitting down with hima adn telling him your felling about how you dont like kissing him all the time and holding hands? well if he is that way and you dont like him then mabye you should break up coz hes not your type or somethin
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Jan 26 2005, 07:50 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
he's gay.
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Jan 26 2005, 08:08 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Just talk to him. There's no point in playing the guessing game with us.
Moved to relationship. |
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Jan 26 2005, 09:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Hang around him or talk to him about it. don't ruin your friendship over a relationship.
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Feb 3 2005, 10:07 PM
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Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
You guys thank you so much! I talk to him about it and he asked me out! He did actually like me! Thank you Thank you thank you!
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Feb 3 2005, 10:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Awww, that's cute! Congrats with you two! :D
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Feb 3 2005, 10:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
puberty......
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Feb 3 2005, 10:14 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ Feb 3 2005, 10:07 PM) You guys thank you so much! I talk to him about it and he asked me out! He did actually like me! Thank you Thank you thank you!  Good luck! 
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Feb 5 2005, 01:41 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,365 |
aww im sorry to hear that .. but see i had that situation before . he was just a good friend of mine, and we started being close and pretty much kinda flirting . then i had a tingle feeling for him, until he kinda knew i did, so he acted weird around me .. so what i think is that he likes you too, his just too shy to "act" or even tell you. so dont worry . but i hope things will get better.
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Feb 5 2005, 01:48 AM
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 rawr. Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,529 |
aww that's so cutte! best luck you 2
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Feb 5 2005, 03:20 AM
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that routine is known too well. he helps you out when your in need. then he feels that he needs to act cool and like he doesnt care about anyone to try and get you to go after him, so he talks to your friends and whatnot and just says hi once in a while.
yo blow his day away. be like, hey i apreciate everything you did for me, and i'd like to talk things over with you about it. hes gonna be like hmmm... YES! finally. then just talk all girly on him like yall do. " you know i've liked you since.. blah blah " |
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