how do u know if a guy likes you Options

[smyleefaceangel]

...jus curious

[smyleefaceangel]

guyz plz vote......plz plz plz

[sm0kinm0nky]

well it really depends on his personality. Like last year i used to be really shy around girls, and then i started to like this 1 girl and when we were together i got really shy. But, now i like the same girl and i'm not shy around her cuase shes one of my best friends. anyway what i think is that the guy will prolly try and impress you or ilke act differently around you. smiling doesnt mean anything, could be just being friendly and hugs doesnt really mean much since there usualy friendly hugs to people.

[smyleefaceangel]

ok thanx!!! That helped a lot! Anyone else??

Cmon people!!! Vote!!!! plz!!

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

i really dont know. like sm0kinm0nky said it really depend on ther personality

[cRaZiiXbEauTiFul]

for me, its when hes making fun of you *but not it a mean way* and when he asks you something, he looks straight into your eyes

[smyleefaceangel]

Oh ok! Thanx!!! Glad to hear that

[lovescream]

You know he's staring at you, but when you make direct eye contact, he turns away.

[smyleefaceangel]

:)

[dani41790]

uhh all of those i guess. why is there a poll O_o. btw plz dont double post

[shortiiex]

i dunno how i wouldn't know i guy likes me, all guys are different

[smyleefaceangel]

I double posted??? where??? sorry, I didnt know I did, I'm new at this. And there is a poll on this cuz I wanna know how each girl knows how a guy likes them I guess...

[*stephinika*]

hmm it depends really on the guy...some are really obvious about stuff like that, while others completely hide it.

[flyonthewall4590]

guys r so weird...i don't trust them unless they obviously point it out that they like u...my crush once wanted to see how many ppl would actually hug him, but i thought he liked me...it's conusing...

[Shattered_Hope]

depends with the guy...it's different for everyone to tell you the truth...

[xj_liana_tx]

pretty much all of the above.. i guess it's really obvious when you find a guy like you, girls are ultra sensitive

[angelrevelation]

it depends on the guy, but i chose alwayz smiles with his eyes

[blah1234567]

hmm...well it depends on the guy...some guys you wont even be able to tell that they likes you.others stare and some smile or just go up to you and flirt..

[sheddingtears]

most of the time, he usually smiles and looks at me.

[charanjust4yu]

i m havin da same prob

[oiograceoio]

for me.. i think its when he smiles with his eyes..
just becuase it shows he's watching you.. and liking what he sees^^
or maybe its because that's how i show i like someone??
i smile alot ^__^


gRaCe~!

[smyleefaceangel]

for me.. i think its when he smiles with his eyes..
just becuase it shows he's watching you.. and liking what he sees^^
or maybe its because that's how i show i like someone??
i smile alot ^__^
gRaCe~!

Thats wat I do too!!!


Wow!! Thanx everyone!! All these answers really helped me!

[*islandgirl4eva*]

I don't know, and I don't think I ever will...damn them.

[topsyturvy]

where's the "all of the above" button?

but what i like most is when you find a guy staring at you across the room then suddenly starts showin off with his friends.. and glancing every so often to check if you're still looking...

it's also cute when they ask you something completely irrelevant just to look intensely into your eyes...

[Xprezsion]

I think it's a collaberation of a few of them. You know when they try to make conversation with you, smile at you, hug you and flirt!

[ahhishkaren]

Depends what kinda guy they are. I tend to attract that are either assholes, or really really shy guys. The assholes critize everything you do and treat you like crap, thinking somehow that'll attract girls. It's stupid really. Then there are these really sweet guys that keep quiet and never say anything to you. They either bottle it up or write these sappy little poems, but you eventually find out. Lots of examples, I could go on for hours, but basically it really depends on the guy.

[smyleefaceangel]

Wow!!! thanx guyz!!

[*x____duckii*]

There is no way you can find out if a guy likes you, except if you ask him.

[misoshiru]

it depends on the guy, cuz all guys are different.

[blah1234567]

most of them stare at me and are shy around me tho....

[smashedittopiece...]

you know when a guy likes you when he wants to know what your doing all the time eric lepoutre eric lepoutre

[parallel]

I always think when they smile around you cause usually all guys that smile around girls always end up going out with them..well..at least at my school

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

I think that they flurt with you or they all ways look at you when you look away

[piggythepigster]

Well not all of us are shy aroudn girls, I"m not shy aroudn girls and espcialy the girl I like, I coudl talk to her with no problem and everything, but there is so much that I wanna say to her but sometiems you jsut have no idea where to start and when the girls doesn't even knwo what they like its hard for us to talk to them. ANtoehr thing if one they are always lookign at you when your not looking or 2 they always trys to help you in everyway they can.

[smyleefaceangel]

I think that they flurt with you or they all ways look at you when you look away 

Ya, doesnt it make u feel special when they do that?? lol

[FLIPxADDICTION]

i'm not sure how to know if a guy likes you.

[royalfreshness]

All of those can be signs. Depending on the guys you just have to know. Sorry.

[ichiban]

but what i like most is when you find a guy staring at you across the room then suddenly starts showin off with his friends.. and glancing every so often to check if you're still looking...

LOL That's so cute.

Just when they try really hard to impress you, stare at you a lot, treat you differently (nicer, sweeter) than anyone else ... or some guys just hide it.

[blurredvision]

eh.....thats a debeable question

like:


which came first, the chicken, or the egg?

[StrwberriQT]

i think its all of them .. so i couldnt pick one -- i did eeny meeny miney mo ;]
no just playing, i picked smiles with his eyes.

[smyleefaceangel]

eh.....thats a debeable question

          like:
 

          which came first, the chicken, or the egg?

lol

[RUN_away123]

lol uh..........when he flirts n is shy n stuff unless he was like me n juss asked the gurl out......yea no?.....nvm...

[tresa1992]

It usually depends on the guy.

Some guys can naturally be big flirts.

Some guys can naturally be shy.

But different things that apply.

Like if you catch him staring or showing off, he's most likely to like you.

[tresa1992]

Usually, it just depends on the guy.

[brand0n]

U GUYS ARE ALL WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U KNOW A GUY LIKES U WHEN HE SAYS "I LIKE U" :)

[loveylovely]

Maybe if you are in the same room with them they tend to stare at you or show off or something? I'm such a dork around guys so I tend to say the wrong things Maybe if they are really different around only you, like if they are sweeter or more shy or they pick on you a little..but all guys are different, like most everyone has said.

[pick_the_scab]

This guy I like, I know he likes me because hes always flirting with me and says stuff like "I like when you say that, it's cute" then I feel special..and he's always laying down next to me, he's just too shy to do anything about it...bastard

[*mzkandi*]

i dont know it depends....but most guys that like me i dont like back.........

[laughn_l0ser]

some guys get scared. one got scared of me. ever since last year till' now. some guys just dont talk to you i guess. if some guys are mean to you, maybe they like you. i think i did that to a guy be4.

[HotStuffff09]

all of the above...mostly

[shortvi3tlaydee]

it depends on wut kinda person he is

[sweetdreamsx3]

It's a combination of both flirting and getting shy. Smiling doesn't really help because guys smile at me, but that doesn't mean they like me.

[Trolling]

I dont understand smile with your eye? Im the type that pretends to act normal yet is shy around you... If you talk to me theres hesitatation nervousness... No wonder girls dont like me Im a nervous wreck

[interCept]

Sometimes if I like her and I really know her well I'll criticize her. Yeah..doesnt make sense.

But if I dont know her you'll probably catch me staring.

[michelina0kudelk...]

Hey, all you guys out there can you reply as quickly as possible..

Last week i was stuck at home and i started talking to a guy Ive known for a long time but have never really talked to on IM, we talked for close to 3 hrs. He mentioned a couple times how he was sad that he was single for valentines day.. On monday at school he mentioned our 3 hr convo a couple times and waited to walk with me after our class together, we talked before he left to his locker....the next day was semiformal day and i was wearing a fairly short skirt and he said "belt skirt" referrign to a part of our convo because i had said i tried it on, he thought it was funny.. when i got home i went on IM and he started talking to me and said thats one short skirt..etc. and we talked for awhile and we got talking about food (haha yah i know :P) and he said oh were all dressed up we should go out...he was joking of course (it was the middle of a snowstorm) but i still thought it was cute...later he asked me if i had ever had a b/f, i said no becase i havent and hes like REALLY, why, i gave him various reasons as to why i thought so and he tells me he still doesnt know why because im smart pretty funny and nice...later he said we'd have to change that with a wink face we talked for awhile longer and kinda wandered away from the topic... our last couple convos he hasnt said much on that topic hes been away from school for a couple days now and he hasnt been on IM, i think his gramma died, he had told me she was really sick but...do you think he really likes me, i dont know i think so but this guy is really outta my league..

[Oranite]

Just remeber that all guys are different it varies from person to person.

[megan_x3]

i derno... sumtimes guy can act differently around you... like trying to impress you or something.. it depends on his personality. i think when he looks at u a lot .!! and like smiles at u for no reason. .... n tries to talk to u , getting to know you more better.

[aicilah999]

guys. hmm..not really fond of guys.

they've been giving me bad impressions since 3rd grade. I liked this guy, but he kept on ignoring me and stuff and i could tell he didnt like me.
in 4th grade i liked this guy but all he did was talk crap about me. cuz i dont think he liked me.
in 5th grade i liked this guy too but again, he didnt like me. but we are good friends.

AND ALL THE PPL I LIKE DONT LIKE ME!!!!! AND THE 4 GUYS THAT LIKE ME BUT I DONT LIKE ANY OF THE FOUR GUYS. SEE HOW I SUcK? lol yes it sucks thats why i dont care about GUYS unless they are just EXTREMEMLY NICE.

[Jinjjasanaee]

when he keeps getting your attention somehow. it may seem unintentional but if it keeps happening there must be a reason behind it.

[*salcha*]

i guess most of the above

[VGyrl88]

What about eye contact??? But otherwise extreme flirting is how you'd know a guy likes ya..but the other choices are all possible too..

[Peppermiint_rose]

got just the thing..dont know if it is 100% acurate or not though

1) He'll serve you an eyebrow flash. When you first see someone you are attracted to, your eyebrows rise and fall.

2)His lips part. If he likes what he sees, his lips will automatically part for a moment.

3)His nostrils flare and his face generally "opens". The raised brows, parted lips, flaring nostrils and wide eyes give the whole face a friendly "open" expression.

4)He'll try to attract your attention. [self explanitory]

5)He'll stroke his shirt or smooth a label. [meaning you want to look good for her]

6)He'll smooth or mess up his hair. [want a girl to notice]

7)His eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking.

8)He'll fiddle with his socks/shoe and pull them up.

9)Everything is erect. Ahem. What I mean is he'll stand with all his muscles pulled tight, to show his body off to best advantage.

10)He'll let you see him checking out your body. [get it?]

11)He'll spread his legs while sitting opposite, to give you a crotch display. [kinda wrong i understand]

12)He'll stand with hands on hips.

13)He'll play with the buttons on his jacket, buttoning and unbuttoning it.

14)He'll touch his face a lot, while looking at you.

15)He'll start squeezing his glass [whatever he is holding] or roll it from side to side, slightly squeezing it as he does so.

16)He'll perch on the edge of his seat to get closer.

17)He'll guide you by putting his arm on your elbow or in the small of your back. [so hes like 'guiding you' or 'drawing' on your back]

18)He'll lend you his coat or sweater.

[EmmalieV]

he flirts constantly and gives you direct hints.

[seremela_culnamo]

I would have to go with the shy vote, but I really don't know.

[Angel_Cece]

when they flirt with you, hugs you and trys to act normal i guess lol

[lbasketball1423]

i really dont know.  like sm0kinm0nky said it really depend on ther personality

i dont know either

[lbasketball1423]

i really dont know.  like sm0kinm0nky said it really depend on ther personality

i dont know either

[Secrecy831x2]

Actually, a guy could be doing all to show he likes you :]...Guys can be so complicated sometimes

[Yrpsyuna]

well..don't come to any conclusions..but sometimes guys make it REALLLY obvious..soo yeah =P.

[smyleefaceangel]

you see, this guy is a really big flirt!! so of course he puts his arms around me and sit next to me and then say stuff like "You're my one and only" and other lovey dovey stuff like that with a huge smile on his face...and later he says just joking...but seems kinda embarassed...and when I ask him what he sed...he'll just say nvm. i dont know if he doz that to all girls...but by his personality...im pretty sure he does. so its really hard to tell who he really likes. I know he used to like me which came as a complete shock to me...but I dont think he does anymore...i think I'm starting to like him...but I'm not sure.....just lookin in his eyes makes me wanna smile :) I don't know if that helps yall on ur answers. Wow I wrote sum really really long sentences. lol Sorry bout that :)

[DixieDaCutie]

i dunno.... usually guys just come up and tell me if they like me, but it depends on the guy --personality n all tht jazz

[girl_evil]

i chose flirts w/ u cuz wen a guy flirts u can tell easly that they like u so ya

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

as u get older they flirt with u but also they get shy or smile with their eyes. it all depends on the person

[ch33sylici0us]

I think the most obvious giveaway is in the eyecontact. If he purposely looks away if you happen to be looking in the same direction or looks like hes making a really big effort to not make direct contact with you across the class or in the hallway, then you know theres definetly something going on there. Also if he pays really close attention to you whenever you talk in class or with a group of friends and he happens to be there too. yea.. but that only applies to some of the guys.

[Jasminluvsu]

How to Tell if a Boy Likes You... Some Clues:
He might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!)
He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
Then again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date)
If he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event
If his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you).
If he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you)
If he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively"
If he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally.
If he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you
Testing Your Suspicions:
If you think a guy likes you (trust your gut instinct, girls) but you can't be totally sure, try this: Give him your best smile. If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, tah dah! He likes you. If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, he likes you even more. If his smile is the polite kind, or if he frowns or looks away, that's a bad sign that maybe he isn't interested in you after all.

[iced__cappucino]

they go "I like You! "..lol i dunno. never had a bf

[lbasketball1423]

Depends what kinda guy they are. I tend to attract that are either assholes, or really really shy guys. The assholes critize everything you do and treat you like crap, thinking somehow that'll attract girls. It's stupid really. Then there are these really sweet guys that keep quiet and never say anything to you. They either bottle it up or write these sappy little poems, but you eventually find out. Lots of examples, I could go on for hours, but basically it really depends on the guy.

wat if he's popular?

[lbasketball1423]

i'm not sure how to know if a guy likes you.

me either
lol

[CUTEBUNNY160]

me either
lol

me too....

[lbasketball1423]

Hey, all you guys out there can you reply as quickly as possible..

Last week i was stuck at home and i started talking to a guy Ive known for a long time but have never really talked to on IM, we talked for close to 3 hrs. He mentioned a couple times how he was sad that he was single for valentines day.. On monday at school he mentioned our 3 hr convo a couple times and waited to walk with me after our class together, we talked before he left to his locker....the next day was semiformal day and i was wearing a fairly short skirt and he said "belt skirt" referrign to a part of our convo because i had said i tried it on, he thought it was funny.. when i got home i went on IM and he started talking to me and said thats one short skirt..etc. and we talked for awhile and we got talking about food (haha yah i know :P) and he said oh were all dressed up we should go out...he was joking of course (it was the middle of a snowstorm) but i still thought it was cute...later he asked me if i had ever had a b/f, i said no becase i havent and hes like REALLY, why, i gave him various reasons as to why i thought so  and he tells me he still doesnt know why because im smart pretty funny and nice...later he said we'd have to change that with a wink face  we talked for awhile longer and kinda wandered away from the topic... our last couple convos he hasnt said much on that topic hes been away from school for a couple days now and he hasnt been on IM, i think his gramma died, he had told me she was really sick   but...do you think he really likes me, i dont know i think so but this guy is really outta my league..

i was single on valentines day too

[lbasketball1423]

he flirts constantly and gives you direct hints.

are these signs that he likes me? He flirted with me, wrote hi on my binder, slapped my hand, prank called me well he didn’t his friends did, made a face at me so I would laugh or he was inside and I wasn’t or something like that, asked for money and didn’t pay me back yet, argued over me, asked for a pen a few times, probably talked about me, read my paper for me, kept me from falling a sleep in class, he’s always showing off when I am around, he embarrassed me, he thought my scare was cool, smiled from the cross the room, made eye contact with a smile, teased me, was happy to hear that I wanted him to come to my party, invited me to a fake party with only guys well he didn’t his friends did, HE WAS AN JERK, asked what was our L.A homework, also said come on don’t do that to me, went to sit next to me, either he gave his peppermint to me or it was someone else but I’m almost positive it was him, he walked behind me on the way home, I think he and his buds whistled or yelled out yeah at the prep rally, he asked what the L.A homework was again, said hi to me and he was a chatter box today when I was trying to do homework but he was cute while he was talking I think it was kind of flirting with me, he said my name a few times and I smiled, borrowed another pen again, he was @ Rec-hall checking me out and was following me,was at school & waved at me, and looked at me twice. :dry:sum1 reply plz

[Litt0_TeeZy]

like everybody says...it depends on the person, you can't say one thing for everyone kuz not everyone's the same. basically the only thing you can trust is when he tells you he likes you....

[_confuzed_]

i would say all of them mixed together. just look for the hints and when you catch more than a few, tell him how you feel. or, if you want to play smooth, drop some more dramatic hints.

[Teesa]

yeah, it's all of the above..because everyone flirts and hugs, but when it's combined with shyness and things like that, it's different.

[yukichan]

well it really depends on his personality. Like last year i used to be really shy around girls, and then i started to like this 1 girl and when we were together i got really shy. But, now i like the same girl and i'm not shy around her cuase shes one of my best friends. anyway what i think is that the guy will prolly try and impress you or ilke act differently around you. smiling doesnt mean anything, could be just being friendly and hugs doesnt really mean much since there usualy friendly hugs to people.

i agree...it depends on the personality..and please dont double post...

[Elvis_IzBack]

yeh i think smiling with eyes, a lot of eye contact, is definately a sighn he likes u, and when ure nearbye he gets all coy and shy he cant look at u anymore, because he doesnt want to make it obvious. ;P

[xOx_aGnEs]

i wud say flirting, becuase if i like a guy i flirt with them

[Laotian_Doll]

well...I think it's all of the above. But i'm not so sure about the flirting thing. Cuz what if the guy is a flirt? He just likes to flirt with girls? I guess it depends on the guys personality, how he usually acts.

[runforfun529]

Usually a guy gets shy around me if he likes me.

[Elvis_IzBack]

I found all this from sum mad site, but its quite intersting so check it out-


Most experts agree that it takes us less than 5 minutes to decide if we are attracted to someone.

55% of the message we get from someone comes through our body language


38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice


and a pathetic 7% is from what we're actually saying!


'If you're not feeling self-conscious by now, you should be. To make you completely paranoid, here's another frightening thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80% of their first impression of you! '



-Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger - it widens at the bottom to include the the body. The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from one eye to eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.

If someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it's very, very sexy because you can't help but think I wonder if they're imagining what it would be like to kiss me. Which is usually exactly what they are thinking, if they're looking intently at your mouth!


The eyebrow flash -
When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they are equally attracted to us, they raise their eyebrows in return. Never noticed? It's not surprising since the whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second!

The trick is to watch for it when you meet someone new you are interested in. Even better, tell them you're interested on a subconscious level by extending your eyebrow flash for up to one second - deliberately raise them while catching their eye for full impact.

Blinking

If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases and so does their blink rate. If you want to up the odds in your favor, try increasing the blink rate of the person you're talking to, by blinking more yourself. If the person likes you, they'll unconsciously try to match your blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other!



hope sum of this helped!

[coughdroppaddict]

i think it's when he treats you differently than he does other girlrs, and when his friends act differently also. plus, he'll try to impress you.

[smyleefaceangel]

I found all this from sum mad site, but its quite intersting so check it out-
Most experts agree that it takes us less than 5 minutes to decide if we are attracted to someone.

55% of the message we get from someone comes through our body language
38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice
and a pathetic 7% is from what we're actually saying!
'If you're not feeling self-conscious by now, you should be. To make you completely paranoid, here's another frightening thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80% of their first impression of you! '
-Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger - it widens at the bottom to include the the body. The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from one eye to eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.

If someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it's very, very sexy because you can't help but think I wonder if they're imagining what it would be like to kiss me. Which is usually exactly what they are thinking, if they're looking intently at your mouth!
The eyebrow flash -
    When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they are equally attracted to us, they raise their eyebrows in return. Never noticed? It's not surprising since the whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second!

The trick is to watch for it when you meet someone new you are interested in. Even better, tell them you're interested on a subconscious level by extending your eyebrow flash for up to one second - deliberately raise them while catching their eye for full impact.

Blinking

If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases and so does their blink rate. If you want to up the odds in your favor, try increasing the blink rate of the person you're talking to, by blinking more yourself. If the person likes you, they'll unconsciously try to match your blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other!
hope sum of this helped!

wow that really helped!!! Thanx!!!!

[bbyunique]

its all of the above but mostly, if he flirts with you and gets shy around you. if he treats you differently than other girls and when you see him across from you talkin to his boys, and they all look at you and turn away and say something and have no mean faces. lol

[becomingAWARE]

he will have a nice, genuine smile, and single you out from your friends. He will try to make you laugh, and call you for no good reason, just to ask how your day was and say funny little things and make you tell your sister you are talking to god [okay, maybe not that part].
He will give you hugs just because it is friday, and make his conversations with you more interesting than with the rest of your friends.
well, thats how I knew anyway [sorry, im a high from from seeing this boy today].

a give away for every girl: He will smile alot, and try to make you laugh. He will pay more attention to you than other people. And most of the time, people will tell you.

[sheepy]

because it's obvious.

[AnnahhbeL]

i think hugging you and acting shy around you. trust me, i KNOW.

[ktsou11]

i think its when he flirts with you and when he always finds a way to touch you. not like in a sick perverted way but like hugs and stuff.

[technicolour]

You can't really point out one thing..you just KNOW

[shrikeuk]

You ever tryed looking at his package?

Im a guy and well lets just say when ever i see a girl i like im like walking round with a tent down below! - my gf then punishes me for looking at other girls! lol

[mmhmichelle]

i wouldnt know to answer to that poll but i have one. this one guy liked me ALOT so he starred at me everyday..it was freaky. then i got him not to like me by saying i already liked someone. haha.