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 Jan 25 2005, 04:49 PM
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 07 isz coming  Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490  |
mm k i know when a guy is like "will u go out with me?" its asking u to be his gf, instead of actually going out... but anywyss, 1 of my friends thought it would be fun to go on a double date with her/her bf & n me/my bf.... & i was all for it... but then my bf is like "nope srry, school dances is the best i can do, i dont do double dates.." wth !!!-- i really wanna go on a double date though --
  any advice!??!!
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Jan 25 2005, 04:52 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
oh...me!! I have advice...and thoughts bout this from personal experiences...but yeah he might not want to go because of past experiences ask him "why not" because then it will give you some ideas as to why...
also, respect his reasons why, except for excuses. tell him that it will be fun and the guys can pick what to do. make sure it's equal all the way around for costs stuff. =) if none of that works, just put him on a leash and drag him with you! =) just keeding...but just a thought...ha.. |
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Jan 25 2005, 05:53 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ yep, ask him why, maybe he has reasons for not wanting to go on a double date
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Jan 25 2005, 05:54 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
ask him why he dont wanna go, there has to be a real reason behind it. and if he's jus against double dating ask him if u cud jus go on a regular date.
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Jan 25 2005, 06:23 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if my future bf was like tht then this is what would happen
bf: sorry i can only do skool dances me: but i really wanna do a double date bf: nope sorry me: fine then, ill bring another guy wit me. dont be mad cause you lost ur chance. im going on a double date now, ill be home at 11.. |
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Jan 25 2005, 06:28 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 25 2005, 6:23 PM) if my future bf was like tht then this is what would happen bf: sorry i can only do skool dances me: but i really wanna do a double date bf: nope sorry me: fine then, ill bring another guy wit me. dont be mad cause you lost ur chance. im going on a double date now, ill be home at 11..  hahah. hmm, ask him why he wouldn't want to go, unless he would rather spend it alone with you. tell him it'll be fun- and if he doesn't really want to go- why not just go on a date with him alone? |
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Jan 25 2005, 06:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Boys.......tsk tsk
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Jan 25 2005, 08:49 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 25 2005, 3:23 PM) if my future bf was like tht then this is what would happen bf: sorry i can only do skool dances me: but i really wanna do a double date bf: nope sorry me: fine then, ill bring another guy wit me. dont be mad cause you lost ur chance. im going on a double date now, ill be home at 11.. haha nice.  but yeah just ask him why...then deal with it from there.
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Jan 26 2005, 06:58 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
its possible. i know people who are "together" but don't "go out". ohwell, you could always dump him for another guy.
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 26 2005, 01:02 PM
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Heh. little secret. The reason why most guys don't go on double dates is. they feel that they gotta put on "a show" none of us will admit to it but you'll notice we act different. Just a heads up ^.- .
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Jan 26 2005, 05:00 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jan 25 2005, 7:23 PM) if my future bf was like tht then this is what would happen bf: sorry i can only do skool dances me: but i really wanna do a double date bf: nope sorry me: fine then, ill bring another guy wit me. dont be mad cause you lost ur chance. im going on a double date now, ill be home at 11.. *lol* you should do that.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
respect his decision, he has a life of his own too. Not going on a double date is not going to do any harm.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:16 PM
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 Music Freak Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,550 |
sry!!
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Jan 26 2005, 09:51 PM
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Accept his wishes if you love him. Ask him why & cover up for him.
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Jan 26 2005, 10:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,446 |
if he doesn't want to he doesn't want to, you could ask him why but you can't force him to go on a double date, maybe he wouldn't like going on a double date and ask him if he'd like to go w/you alone
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Jan 26 2005, 10:43 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Agreed like some of the above.
Ask him why; and take it from there. Or you could always ditch him :] |
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Jan 27 2005, 03:29 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
he ONLY does school dances? ...gawd.
true, u have to respect what he wants too.. but, is school dances too little? lol... |
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