my boyfriend fergets im there Options

[ilauqh]

okay my boyfriend & i have been going out for almost 4 months now. i love him he loves me, everythings okay. but... we are walking together and then he stops and says hi to this girl he is friends with, i dont like her much but dats not the point. for the 4 secs he goes and says hi to her it feels like i dont even exist. he acts like im not even there. shud i tell him? iono what to do.

edyt// ur all making me sound so bad and jealous while im really not. i didnt say anything to him... i let him have his space. he talks to pleny of ppl i dont care, its jus the way he talks to this girl and seriously starts like looking at her in a way... iono ferget it.

[HongKongDong]

Shouldn't this be in relationships

You should talk to him. Maybe because you don't like the girl it makes you jealous and is what makes you feel that way. Yup talk to him about that >=]

[toodlepops.]

tell him. a relationship needs a lotta communication.

[Tung]

guys should ALWAYS be closer and holding and all over you, if like a female friend of his is around. that's how it should be. but if he wasnt like that, then maybe he has feelings for others, and isnt totally 100% with you.

[HelloSunshine]

Hmm...you should talk to him about it that doesn't sound like a good bf to me

[xXirockhardXx]

Yeah you should really talk to him just so you wont feal like that all the time they talk 2 each other hope everyting works out

[RandomHero]

You should tell him how you feel when he does that so he knows that it hurts your feelings & if he is a good boyfriend then he won't do that anymore. But don't tell him not to talk to other girls because that is just overprotective & nobody likes an overprotective girlfriend >.<

[jennyjenny]

It's FOUR seconds.
You're saying like he thinks you're invisible because he wants to talk to his FRIEND to say HI? Gosh, control him, why don't you?

That's like.. if you see one of your friends to say hi for FOUR seconds, would you want your boyfriend to get pissed?

If it bothers you that much, tell him.

[mouse_3k]

he has a life too...let him live it. if he wants to say hi to someone, let him. dont be to clingy..he cant be your little puppy forever..

NE who, i should move this.

-Moved to Relationship-

[to-devastate]

It's FOUR seconds.
You're saying like he thinks you're invisible because he wants to talk to his FRIEND to say HI? Gosh, control him, why don't you?

That's like.. if you see one of your friends to say hi for FOUR seconds, would you want your boyfriend to get pissed?

If it bothers you that much, tell him.

I agree.
It's only FOUR seconds. C`mon. Let him have his own friends. Even if he had girl friends and he said hi to them doesn't mean that he forgot you're there ...

[sammehmyst]

In my opinion, it seems like you're a little too demanding over your boyfriend.

[_sarcastic_]

well you should talk to him, and yeah like the above said, it was only a while, he has other friends too. i dont think he did forget you i mean if he did he would probably walk off with that girl instead of you

[silver-rain]

yeah, i agree- talk to him. hah, sometimes i get like that too- but its because i get insanely jealous when he talks to other girls...

[heyyfrankie]

well, if he is saying hi to someone, do you want him to look at you while he is saying hi to them or what? i mean, he is saying hi to someone, how is supposed to pay attention to you while he is trying to talk to someone else. y'all can still love each other but sometimes you just have to talk to others. my advice: get over it.

[xj_liana_tx]

i know people like that.. whatever, don't worry about it.

[pinayprincess]

yeh! man if you have a problem with your man, tell em

[dahding]

if he ever breaks up with u, god, ur going to be a damn waterfall of tears. four seconds. OH NO! THE APOCALYPSE HATH COME! HEAD FOR THE HILLS!




and its a friend. so now he can't have friends? what the hell u want him to do, talk to rocks, so he'll pay more attention to u?

if ur really that jealous and touchy and needy and clingy, then just give him a little squeeze on the arm like ur snuggling. but then again, if u keep on thinking like this and then u get jealous all the time, he might dump u. so...yeah. get used to it. he has friends. if it really bothers u, talk to him about it.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Give him some freedom or get dumped.

[carmen77198]

just ask him about it... its good to talk

[lilJdawg]

Give him some freedom or get dumped.

^ i agree with her. you have to give him some space for his friends like he gives some space to you for your friends.

[istolearock]

um.. it's 4 seconds... i guess if it really makes you feel uncomfortable, tell him.

[istolearock]

^ i agree with her. you have to give him some space for his friends like he gives some space to you for your friends.

also that, cuz he needs to be able to breathe around you... probably when you talk to your guy friends he's not very comfortable either...

[bad_girl]

talk to him. i would be jealous too.. lol.

[mistaken_identit...]

I say don't forget it's a relationship, so things work in both ways. So, as they said above he needs some space, some freedom with his mates, that's right as well. There shouldn't be anything like that in a relationship, but it's okay to feel like this 'cause you have a right to and things happen for a reason.

You should talk to him about it, and if he breaks up with you, you haven't done anything wrong. You're just saying how you feel right? You can't control how you feel like.

[*stephinika*]

no you don't sound too bad. you're just one of the girls who actually admits her jealousy sometimes...but yeah you do need to give him space. if you really have a problem and you and your boyfriend can actually talk, talk to him about it.

[cewinee]

ummm haha okay some ppl are being alittle too harsh in their opinions lol so keep it cool ppl! haha =)
but u get wat they mean right? when they say "OMG UR SUCH A DEMANDING BITCH" hahaha.. they jus dunno how to say it nicely i dunno haha..
but yeah.. it does SOUND like ur *controlling* or watever lol but obviously you're not.. you're jus a normal girlfriend jealous about ur boyfriend talking to another girl (you don't even like) in a different way..
i guess my opinion would be that.. ok it's tricky.. either that.
1. the girl you don't like is the ONE you don't trust so it's making U super paranoid about ur bf thinking HE's the one flirting or however u think of it..
2. ur bf really is being obvious when he's talking to girl.. obvious enough that ppl would think of it as he's really jus flirting with the chick..
3... WELL u get wat im getting at! =)
ur either just real paranoid (which is freakin normal!) or.. He's jus really flirting with the chick.. or or! the GIRL could be the one jus MAKING it look bad to you..

WOW CEWINEE'S GOT ALOTA THEORIES hAHahh jus wanna help in detail

either way.. you gotta talk to him about it =) IF he's all like "no no we're jus friends. of course i love you. bla bla bla" then check the nxt time u guys see the girl n how he's talking to her.. i mean dont expect him to IGNORE her or anything! k! =) jus see if he's talking to her differently letting u know that nth's going on between them. k? =) gluck =)

[shortiiex]

um....if he does it again...just leave and see if he really noticed and if he does...then say you went to the deli

[CrazieFreshie]

Wow, this sounds like I could've written it. My bf and I have been going out for 7 months, but he always brought up his ex while he was talking to me, and blew me off for her twice. I felt so hurt/betrayed, and I didn't talk to him about it until a month ago. He said he honestly had no idea he did that. I won't lie, it still bugs me, but nobody's perfect and if he does want to get back together w/his ex...he's not the guy for me.

I hope it gets better!