What do YOU do when the person you like tells you, they want to be just friends |
 Jan 23 2005, 08:46 PM
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 Bohemian Rhapody adict  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,305  |
 About a week ago, the boy I've liked for like forever told me that he didn't like me as anything other than friends and that he wanted it to stay that way. I just started crying, I was genuinley crushed. Then he covered it all up with fake compliments. They made it seem better at the time, but now that I think about it, it makes me really mad that he just didn't tell me straight-up.I don't know what to do. Is it wrong to cry because someone doesn't like you the way that you like them? Help. |
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Jan 23 2005, 08:50 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
It's completely normal. Trust me, we're all well... for the lack of the better word: "rejected" sometimes. I know sometimes, it's tough to get over it. Maybe the boy hasn't seen your true colors yet? Or maybe he's just not the right person, you know?
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Jan 23 2005, 09:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,312 |
no, it isn't wrong. :( and it happens all the time.
I had the same thing happen to me last fall, this guy I'd liked for years told me he only liked me as friends. But I found someone else and don't regret it at all. :] I would say, even though it seems hard, move on. Maybe he's just not right for you? |
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Jan 23 2005, 09:18 PM
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nothing is wrong with crying...though i think i do it a bit much sometimes
 but yeah if the guy i liked said that to me i'd be crushed too. you'll be fine though, it might just take time.
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Jan 23 2005, 09:19 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
it's ok if you want to cry, no one can blame you; you like this guy and then he turns you down by making lame excuses..the only thing you can do is cry.
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Jan 23 2005, 09:34 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
It's not wrong to cry. It's never wrong to cry. It's normal.
I went through the same thing. You should try to get over him. Because he's not worth your pain. No boy is worth your tears. As my teacher has told me, "Heartbreak is painful. However, it is the past heart breaks that allow you to know the man that can heal your heart." |
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Jan 23 2005, 09:40 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
yeah i'm basically in the same situation as you are, except the guy hasn't told me anything cause he doesn't know i like him. but i know he doesn't like me back..cause he and this other girl are kind of dating but not really. it's perfectly normal to cry..i do that a lot. i think if you really like this guy [and you know it's not just a short term thing] then i say keep your dreams up because you never know. if you want to move on, that's fine too =]
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Jan 24 2005, 07:41 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
crying is normal. what i'd do is i'd go rant about it to my friends, go home, and then get over it.
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Jan 24 2005, 08:43 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Jan 23 2005, 9:34 PM) It's not wrong to cry. It's never wrong to cry. It's normal. I went through the same thing. You should try to get over him. Because he's not worth your pain. No boy is worth your tears. As my teacher has told me, "Heartbreak is painful. However, it is the past heart breaks that allow you to know the man that can heal your heart."  
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Jan 24 2005, 09:12 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
no it isnt wrong. cry, feel better, and move on.
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Jan 24 2005, 11:57 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,702 |
awh! that hurt alot isn't it? hope u feel better soon. I sometimes tell my bf i just want to be friend, but I never meant it tat way, I love him alot. If u love him, just don't let him go.
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Jan 24 2005, 02:53 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
you cry about it and move on and like someone else.
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Jan 24 2005, 03:15 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i dont think its wrong for yu to be crushed...but maybe you should try getting over him...you never know what lies ahead of you...that is unless yu "love" him and willing to wait for him...but whos knows thats for you to decide...=]
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Jan 24 2005, 06:15 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
its not wrong at all, dont worry about it... u were jus upset bc he didnt like you back. i remember last year i liked this guy forever and he never liked me and kept going out wid all these girls and everytime i found out he was going out wid another girl i cried bc it felt like he liked every girl but me, like something was wrong wid me. but i got over it & him. so dont worry, ppl get upset bout that stuff all the time and hopefully u'll move on to someone else soon.
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Jan 24 2005, 06:59 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
no it is not wrong. when you like someone for a long and then you find out that they don't like you the way you liked them, of course you are going to be sad. just try to get through it and y'all will probably stay/become really good friends.
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Jan 24 2005, 10:34 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 24 2005, 2:41 AM) crying is normal. what i'd do is i'd go rant about it to my friends, go home, and then get over it. ya me too... |
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Jan 24 2005, 11:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,632 |
i hope that doesn't happen to me. cuz there's this one guy that i like, i hardly know him except we were in english class last semester and he sat next to me. he was sooo nice and we talked n stuff but i think we were both too shy to talk outside of class. i want to try to sit with him and his friend at lunch even though it'll be hard for me to do hehe. i'm so scared he won't want to know me, or he'll think i'm wierd but so far he was nice. he still says hi once in a while and he glances over at me and i'm so shy to talk to him. do you think it's worth it? cuz i'd like to be more than just friends if he'll let me get to know him.
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Jan 25 2005, 12:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,236 |
don't get too crushed. i mean, it's ok to be hurt... hey, that's normal. but don't let this affect the way you function for the rest of your life. move on and find someone that does love you for who you are...
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Jan 25 2005, 06:11 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
I didn't believe when my crush said she didn't like me....I'm still getting her to like me...Who cares if it's not working...
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Jan 25 2005, 06:17 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I deal and try to get over it. find anoher crush u know. move on
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