Make your assumptions carefully |
 Jan 23 2005, 12:52 PM
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in girl's locker, i saw this post about wannabes, and the member is talking about how certain people try to dress like her and everything and then she just calls her a wannabe.
Now, i bought this shirt and i wore it to school and this other girl got pissed because she thinks i copied off her, what the heck?? Maybe i just happened to like it too and there are accidents like that since stores obviously make replicas of shirts so they can do BUSINESS. Also, i almost bought this other hoodie and then the week after i saw the same girl wearing it, if i actually bought it and wore it to school, she would've told everyone what a wannabe i am, and that's really not fair, and don't tell me that "life isn't fair" or all these cliches. my point is that you can't just accuse of somebody of being a wannabe like that, just because they dress like you occasionally doesn't mean that they are doing it on purpose. When most people make assumptions about someone like that, they become hostile toward them and that's one cause for gossips/rumors, you can imagine how some people feel when they are called wannabes especially when they didn't even know what they did wrong. So, just make your assumptions carefully. |
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Jan 23 2005, 12:54 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
my thoughts exactly.
that grl is from my old middle school. ewwwww. :puke: |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jan 23 2005, 12:55 PM
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i've never seen anyone ever wearing a shirt that i owned... except once
 which is odd because you'd think there'd be more people.
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Jan 23 2005, 12:55 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
um. ok? nice story.
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Jan 23 2005, 12:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you can just confront her about
1,000 posts! |
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Jan 23 2005, 01:00 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i agree...never really worn the same clothes as someone to school...i have some of the same clothes as my friends though....sometimes people are like "isn't that lilys shirt" but i dont care, because people are like "isnt that kristin's shirt" so it doesnt really bother me.
and if it did happen i just owuldnt let it get to me..because it doesnt really matter to me that much if i have like the smae hsirt as someone =/ |
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Jan 23 2005, 01:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Jan 23 2005, 1:00 PM) i agree...never really worn the same clothes as someone to school...i have some of the same clothes as my friends though....sometimes people are like "isn't that lilys shirt" but i dont care, because people are like "isnt that kristin's shirt" so it doesnt really bother me. last year i had two shirts this really preppy girl had also, and we often wear them on the same day by accident, and people would say "If I were you, I will never wear that shirt again." People are way too sensitive and tend to overreact. |
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Jan 23 2005, 01:10 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
Yeah exactly. I see people that i don't even know, wearing some of the same clothes i have, but it doesnt make them or me a wannabe cuz we dont even know each other.
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Jan 23 2005, 01:11 PM
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 oh sO GiNi-isH Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,248 |
Yeah...well when people like my clothes they ask "where did you get that shirt?" or something. Its not really being a WANNABE...its more like having the same taste in fashion
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Jan 23 2005, 01:29 PM
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 ..::i<3 POonSKi::.. Group: Member Posts: 1,268 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,022 |
actually i hav no problems about [[wearin the same shirt as other..]]
as long as it looks good on me// i dont care |
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Jan 23 2005, 01:48 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
True True. Oh well. Stupid bastards.
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Jan 23 2005, 02:05 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
People who are like that are so full of them selves well most of them but still why would you get all pisst for someone wearing the same shirt as you?
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 23 2005, 02:21 PM
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i don't care about someone wearing the same clothes so much...yeah its just the same taste of fashion. they become wannabe's when they seem to have the exact same wardrobe..
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Jan 23 2005, 03:41 PM
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 just chillin Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,562 |
i find it funny when ppl wear the same stuff as me, especially when i dont know them... at my school its hard to make enimies, and if u do, its really easy to ignore them.
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Jan 23 2005, 04:27 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Feh.. Some people have clothes that look similar to mines or I have something similar to theirs. Personally I don't care, unless they glare and dog me the WHOLE time that I'm wearing something the same as theirs...
But a friend of mines really gets irritated when people have the same shoes as hers. Haha that's becuase she buys so many shoes and wants to be original. I agree, companies make a whoel bunch of one type of shirt, shoe, dress, etc... So it's natural that there would be at least 10 other people who have the same shirt as you in your city. |
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Jan 23 2005, 04:30 PM
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WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
^ i dunno about that, there's only 511 people in my school..perhaps the ratios change depending on where you live.
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Jan 23 2005, 05:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I think she was offended cause they probably didn't want someone else having the same shirt she did.
Cause like, if some fag that everyone thought was a hobo was wearing the same 30 dollar shirt i was, i would be pissed, too. Does that make me a bad person? |
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Jan 23 2005, 05:31 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jan 23 2005, 1:30 PM) ^ i dunno about that, there's only 511 people in my school..perhaps the ratios change depending on where you live.  Oh, I meant city lol. We don't have to see people to know. I saw a bunch of these shirts at hollister and I saw at least 4 other people at a mall wearing the same thing. 
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Jan 23 2005, 05:48 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
So true. I see lots of people having clothes that are the same, but whatever. If you want to buy something, then buy it.
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Jan 23 2005, 05:53 PM
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 It feels like electricity; Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,331 |
geez. i kinda went through that. my friends like the way i dress. esepcially one of them...but it doesnt bother me. we just plan days to match. people bother me when they assume you wanna be JUST LIKE THEM, when really, yo happen to like the same thing once in a while...
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Jan 23 2005, 06:27 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
ohh good point good point
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Jan 23 2005, 06:32 PM
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i agree cos i have been accused to "copying" someones style... i was like wtf no!...
some people just want controversy and attention... |
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Jan 23 2005, 08:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,380 |
you have a point. good thing we wear uniforms in school
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Jan 23 2005, 08:44 PM
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i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
you do have a point...
one day at school, i wore a shirt the same one that this one preppy girl was wearing, and she was like mad! really angry, and so she told everyone that i went into the store right after her and bought it, becaus e i wanted to be like her...wtf? i don't think so, i hate when people do that junk, it's so gay...and so the whole day she wore a sweater over her shirt so that i looked like the stupid one? well you know what she's dumb, and i could care less, it doesnt matter because she's just stuck up....atleast i didnt have anything to hide.... |
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Jan 23 2005, 08:48 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Never in my life should I have to deal with things that aren't even true about me. Neither should anyone. Crap, if they wear the same as you and get heated on it ... why do they care? It's just a piece of clothing... I mean.. in reality, who really cares.. right?
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Jan 23 2005, 11:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jan 23 2005, 9:55 AM) i've never seen anyone ever wearing a shirt that i owned... except once which is odd because you'd think there'd be more people.Yeah, me too. |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:28 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i agree, but ppl at my school dont have a problem w/ that. they think its cute/funny when other ppl have the same clothes.
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Jan 24 2005, 05:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jan 23 2005, 12:55 PM) i've never seen anyone ever wearing a shirt that i owned... except once which is odd because you'd think there'd be more people.that's probably because they saw you wear it and they are scared to wear it and of being called a wannabe |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:27 PM
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 atom smasher Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,827 |
I'm trying not to EXPLOIT names now. That way, without a brand name, no one can diss you. I recently bought a Puma hoodie before many people wore Puma stuff... I was unique for a while... until people swarmed in with Puma stuff... Luckily, I can still wear it without being called a wannabe because people here are just nice like that.
I like plain white T's. |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
^exactly, i was trying to avoid brand name in my post if you noticed.
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Jan 24 2005, 07:32 PM
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atom smasher Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,827 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Jan 24 2005, 4:29 PM) ^exactly, i was trying to avoid brand name in my post if you noticed. woops. I didn't think you were implying the same idea. My bad. |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
^i didn't specify in my post
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Jan 24 2005, 07:33 PM
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 ShAdOwKiNg Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,033 |
pretty stupid hing to get pissed at...y cant ppl copy me
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Jan 24 2005, 07:36 PM
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 HOY!!!!! Group: Member Posts: 268 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,098 |
they're a buch of haters!... u should say, "At least I look better in it!"... haha...j/k... but the worst u can do is change your image just because u/she/he dress like someone else...
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Jan 24 2005, 07:37 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
i agree with you. make your assumptions carefully.
it never happened to me before, though. but if it did, i wouldn't mind. |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:41 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
People at your school are.. over.. uh what's the word then.
They're just pissed because they thought you weren't good enough to buy clothes at the same stores as them or have the same style. |
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Jan 25 2005, 09:30 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Heh there are few people who are like that in my school
especially the korean peoples ehhh... good thing i'm not like that. if they wear the same clothes as me, i dont get so suspicious on them. i just be like "oh cute nice clothes!" hehh and they notice that they have same clothes as me and just laugh it off. i dont mind as long as she doesn't copy me EVERY single day... lol..... anyways... in my freshman year... I had Health class with this girl name Susan. who had a same name as me. And my health teacher called... well lets clear this out, susan is american...so i'll say american susan so it wont confuse you. anyways american susan got called during the attendance... and now it was my turn. she asked me "how do you say your name right? is it sun min? or sung min?" i told her it's "sung min, but you can call me Susan." and american susan thought i copied her name... and it was on rumors that i copied her name...wtf?! i mean i had name myself susan since 7th grade...gosh... I had to look at american susan's face cause it was like she was staring at me right after i told my teacher to call me susan. so she was looking at me like im a b*tch... and she told her boyfriend and her boyfriend told her friends... i was like wtf?!.... so yeah but when i turned sophomore and my 2nd semester...she ignored me. which is a good thing cause i hated to see her looking at me like im a bad girl...gez. i named myself susan because it meant "lily" and i love lilies...so i named myself susan... gosh that american susan...aiish. |
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Jan 25 2005, 10:28 AM
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ive NEVER seen anyone wearing the same clothes as me! i wouldnt like it much but then i wouldnt confront the person, i didnt make the clothes, i bought them, just the way she did
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Jan 25 2005, 01:44 PM
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 WANTED..for sexyness Group: Member Posts: 1,050 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,290 |
umm one kid. hes older then me and got the shirt because idk, i got it first tho so he took me idea...*crys*
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Jan 25 2005, 03:38 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE um. ok? nice story.  ^my thoughts exactly..
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Jan 25 2005, 03:59 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i'd just go kick their ass if they called me a wannabe, haha but that wouldn't happen... if anything ppl copy me, but i wouldn't say anything like gossip or romours i have better things to talk about iwth my freinds... and i understand how the fashion world is like... stores copy stores...
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