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 Jan 22 2005, 09:59 PM
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 07 isz coming  Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490  |
mm k... wellll my 3 best friends planned to go snow-tubing next weekend @ some ski resort, n i found out about it evn tho i wasnt supposed 2, n now im kinda
 .. i dunno, i know its kinda dumb, but would it bother you @ all if you were left out of something with ur close friends?? 
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Jan 22 2005, 10:19 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
if they were my close friends then yes...I'm human you know...
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Jan 22 2005, 10:21 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
yeah...but at least they dint talk about it right in front of you...my *friends* do that ALL the time, im like, wtf
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Jan 22 2005, 10:40 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yeah if they ar ewmy good friends...that would definitly annoy me. i wouldnt get mad at them for it though. i would just ignore it and move on =/
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Jan 22 2005, 10:41 PM
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 No Nose =[ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,291 |
Omg, are you sure they are friends? :S
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Jan 22 2005, 10:45 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
Yeah... 2 of my best friends have been doing a lot of stuff together lately.. and it used to be the 3 of us doing stuff together... its starting to bother me. So i know how you feel.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:47 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
Best friends, eh? How mean of them!
[Moved to RELATIONSHIPS] |
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| *wind&fire* |
Jan 22 2005, 11:22 PM
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confront them...
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Jan 22 2005, 11:26 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Outloved @ Jan 22 2005, 5:41 PM) Omg, are you sure they are friends? :S  ya i agree..if they were ur friends they would at least ask u... |
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Jan 23 2005, 12:34 AM
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 You make me sad. =( Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 |
It seems like they don't wanna include you. I'm sorry, but maybe you just aren't wanted. If I were you I'd find new friends. Or hang out with other people for awhile. You don't always have to do everything with your close friends. I had two best friends before. One really wanted me out because I guess she disliked me or something.. but luckily the other girl was my true friend... so yeah.. me and the other girl are really close best friends and the girl that wanted me to be left out.. is gone.
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Jan 23 2005, 12:37 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
^ Agreed.
It's normal to feel that way. That's just mean. If you're like really best friends with them, confront them. .? |
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Jan 23 2005, 02:39 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
That would bother me too. Sounds like maybe you aren't ass good of friends with them as you thought.... =/ I think it's time to find some other friends that may want to do activities with you. Don't worry....here at cB, no one's left out!
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Jan 23 2005, 03:24 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if they're close then yes it would bother me. i'd talk to them about it if i were you.....nicely.
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Jan 23 2005, 03:35 AM
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hmm yeah i'd probably be a bit annoyed if they are my close friends...but i'd be pissed off if they lied about it (for example, saying they weren't going) instead of just not saying anything.
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Jan 23 2005, 05:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Yeah it happens sometimes with my besties too. It's just pathetic but I wouldn't do anything I'd act normal 'cause I reckon losing a couple friends for this reason isn't worth it.
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Jan 23 2005, 08:40 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
yeha that used to happen to me alot, but now, i just get revenge...=) puahhahaha, i'm evil! sorry...but yeah i was upset about it...
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Jan 23 2005, 09:47 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
i was suppose to go shopping one day after christmas to buy presents for eachother (its a tradition between us 4)
and this year i just recovered from being sick and i knew that i couldn't go, i told the mto go anyways. i felt a bit left out yeah but they are by closest friends and they know that we can make it up. i have cool friends. |
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Jan 23 2005, 09:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
that has happened to me so many times now- i doubt that they were my close friends. and yeah, i wouldn't like it if they lied about it instead of not inviting me.
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Jan 24 2005, 08:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
That happens to me often behind my back. i just let it go, because it's not worth getting mad over.
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Jan 25 2005, 12:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,236 |
i would be pretty mad too...
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Jan 25 2005, 01:00 AM
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 boogie down yo` Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,271 |
definitely..i HATE that feeling
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Jan 25 2005, 06:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
what MEANIES they are....tell them about and say if they are keeping secrets from you then they shouldn't be your friend
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Jan 26 2005, 05:31 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
confront them about it. if u 4 are the best of friends and u have a bond and all.. then it realy isnt right for them to leave u out.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:22 PM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
if something like that happens to meee.. i would just ignore it.. i mean if they dont wanna tell you.. then they dont wanna tell you.. why do anything about it and make it worse? if they dont want to chill with you.. then... its their lost..
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