i need input, relationship thinking put on hold |
 Jan 22 2005, 12:28 AM
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hrmm.. wells yea.. i meet my ex just two years ago, and she meet me uhh four years or so.. didnt really "meet" untill summer of 04, great memories.. started to hit it off during winterbreak.. now were apart cause of some drama caused by the parents of the girlfriend. so we decided to wait a little bit.. around 6 years to be exact.. meaning no dating no one else.. so you got any input on that..
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Jan 22 2005, 12:58 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
well 6 years is alot if you ask me...well personally id probabally date someone because you never know if youll ever see her again...she might move to a new state far away and stuff like that...
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Jan 22 2005, 12:59 AM
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uhh ...defince input...
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Jan 22 2005, 03:29 AM
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6 years is too long. u cant vow to waste 6 years of ur life for someone who might change a lot. maybe u can have an on/off relationship? i mean.. u cant just put someone on hold for THAT long.
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Jan 22 2005, 04:07 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 22 2005, 12:29 AM) 6 years is too long. u cant vow to waste 6 years of ur life for someone who might change a lot. maybe u can have an on/off relationship? i mean.. u cant just put someone on hold for THAT long.  I agree but good luck with that 
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Jan 22 2005, 07:33 AM
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6 years is pretty long, don't just put your life on hold because of someone well unless you really love that person. maybe you can have an on off relatonship like bad_girl said
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Jan 22 2005, 05:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
no...you shouldn't wait six years.....you give up alot of your life that way...
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| *krnxswat* |
Jan 22 2005, 05:55 PM
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She's prollie get a different guy.
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Jan 22 2005, 07:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Whoa. 6 years?! that's long. I don't think you should be wasting your life on her because during these 6 years, she might change & your feelings won't be devoted to her anymore.
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Jan 22 2005, 11:29 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
wow 6 years???thats long....and she might change during the 6 years so maybe u shouldnt wait....well if u decide to wait, good luck...
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Jan 23 2005, 03:16 PM
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i see her at least 3 times a week and in sept i might see her 7 times a week.. and yeah.. no moving anytime soo and yea.. who know.. input as in your opinion on it..
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| *Azarel* |
Jan 23 2005, 03:23 PM
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It's a long time to wait, but a sweet idea nonetheless. I hope it works out, although I'm a bit cynical about it.
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 23 2005, 03:31 PM
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interesting idea...but why 6 years?
 thats so long...
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Jan 23 2005, 04:34 PM
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 i'm a d0rk =) Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,870 |
maybe it could work. since sometimes you'll try your hardest to get over them and start liking other ppl but just find yourself coming out of those crushes still liking her.
but i like the on and off idea. since i know this couple that they have been on/off for 4-5 years. but then now they are totaly broken up because the guy doesnt like her anymore. and has moved on.. but the girl still cherishes the 4 years spent together... atleast you'll have the memories? really its all on preference. and how long your willing to wait or how much you really like them. |
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Jan 23 2005, 04:37 PM
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 oh sO GiNi-isH Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,248 |
well depends...if youre sure you really love her and that she loves you back then maybe its worth the wait
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Jan 27 2005, 12:17 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
lala, thanks for all of your advices.. made me really think, but we're gonna wait, but iono for how long... we both feel the same for each other, and know the feeling will only grow strong, so im hoping its worth the wait..
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