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 Jan 21 2005, 10:03 PM
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 define our lives for us.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293  |
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this might be a little confusing.. so read closely. I feel like I've ruined it all for my friend because she likes my ex so I tried to set them up, but I wasn't at the dance. I told my ex that my friend likes him so now he's ignoring her and I feel like I've ruined it all.  Did that happen to you before? |
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Jan 21 2005, 10:06 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't think that you ruined it, it's better that she knows how he feels because if she never knew she'd be chasing after something that doesn't exist...it may not seem like it but you did her a favor
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Jan 21 2005, 10:37 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
 *reads post again*ok so basically you were supposed to get your friend with your ex but you scared the ex off instead. well, i guess you did somehow blow it by giving the guy such sudden notice.. he might have been able to get used to the idea if you let it rest and let your friend go after him herself. or maybe he just doesn't like her. at least you're confessing to cb..
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Jan 21 2005, 10:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
yeah I think you did her a favor because if he's ignoring her that probably means he doesn't like her right? well you saved her from getting hurt in the future. you can't force someone to like someone.
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Jan 21 2005, 10:41 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
u should have found out if he was feelin her before busting her out to him
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Jan 21 2005, 11:03 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
uh.. what did you say?
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Jan 21 2005, 11:34 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
welps, your right! you did ruin it (:
hope I made ya feel better =D |
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Jan 22 2005, 01:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
 yahh [im actually in ur ex boyfriends point of view] this kid liked me nd one of my friends tried to set me up with him, of course they told me he liked me..i was just disgusted..[i kno thats mean] but i was like why?!!? so i juz ignored him...no one ever ignored me for liking them...the person would be cool wit me if they didnt like me bak..they juz act regualqr... |
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Jan 22 2005, 01:08 AM
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hmm yeah that probably wasnt the best idea for you to do...its sometimes best to not try to help.
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Jan 22 2005, 01:12 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 21 2005, 11:06 PM) i don't think that you ruined it, it's better that she knows how he feels because if she never knew she'd be chasing after something that doesn't exist...it may not seem like it but you did her a favor  that's true. hrm. maybe you did do her a favor
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Jan 22 2005, 03:02 AM
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u didnt ruin it. they didnt have a chance anyway if u're ex didnt like ur friend.
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Jan 22 2005, 03:23 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jan 21 2005, 8:03 PM) yahh [im actually in ur ex boyfriends point of view] this kid liked me nd one of my friends tried to set me up with him, of course they told me he liked me..i was just disgusted..[i kno thats mean] but i was like why?!!? so i juz ignored him...no one ever ignored me for liking them...the person would be cool wit me if they didnt like me bak..they juz act regualqr... same thing happened to me... |
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Jan 22 2005, 04:10 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
that's horrible
though, it's never happened to me...hope you all can work it out 
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Jan 22 2005, 10:38 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well you kinda did ruin it, you should've just asked him how he felt about her.
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Jan 27 2005, 12:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
does everyone do that now, doesnt anyone go up to the person and tell them theirself, wow... look waht the world has gone too.. best of luck to your friends
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Jan 30 2005, 03:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Next time don't butt into your friends business.
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Jan 30 2005, 04:10 PM
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 peace and love Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,946 |
 u shouldve just let them figure it out themselves
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Jan 30 2005, 09:55 PM
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 its jonny the homicidal maniac!! Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,235 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Jan 21 2005, 10:03 PM) >_< this might be a little confusing.. so read closely. I feel like I've ruined it all for my friend because she likes my ex so I tried to set them up, but I wasn't at the dance. I told my ex that my friend likes him so now he's ignoring her and I feel like I've ruined it all. Did that happen to you before? yea i felt it be4....i think i did..[[mickey if ur readi this its jon so yea...]] |
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Jan 30 2005, 11:34 PM
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no, you didn't ruin it. you just did you friend a favor, so now she knows that your ex' doesn't like her & she won't have to know, if he does or not.
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