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ex_multini
post Jan 20 2005, 02:05 AM
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have u ever got in love with ur best (opposite sex) friend?
cuz that's what im going through right now. mellow.gif
im usually ok with expressing myself with girls that i like. but somehow it gets tougher in this kinda situation. any advice?
 
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 03:02 AM
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Don't treat her differently. Stay close, and never shy away. Drop a couple of hints here and there. Eventually, you'll build up to confidence to tell her.

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post Jan 20 2005, 03:11 AM
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well, i'm in love with my best friend, because my boyfriend is my best friend. but i agree, get closer to her and drop a few hints.
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 04:26 AM
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well i feel in love with my best friend to...didnt go really well cuz he was already taken but i knew somewhere that he liked me back to...he just never told me and stuff...but yer now im in love with another best friend cuz my boyfriend is my best friend...

aww i think she should try telling here...hopefully she will feel the same=]
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 06:02 AM
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dont change with her. Remain calm and normal. As far as hint dropping, make it little by little. Dont drop the bomb all at once but build up to it. Good luck, go get em tiger
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 06:10 AM
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don't go all weird and shy, be yourself, drop a few obvious hints
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 09:09 AM
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LMFAO this topic relates to me, i fell in love with mah best friend, and its been 2 months and a week and still going =) soO i dont think its badd.. it might be hard, but once you break the ice, it should be fine =)
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 10:50 AM
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I HATE THAT!!! I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING MYSELF! THEN SHE GOT A BOYFRIEND!! i knwo its hard, but friendships like that are much lest risky than relationships like the one you would like to take it to. friendships, unless something goes terribly wrong will last (probably) much longer than a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. as hard as it is. keep it the way it is
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 11:54 AM
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I have to agree with everyone. Do not change how you act towards her. Simply drop hints to her! Do not do anything drastically just in case she is not prepared for it.
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 01:10 PM
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yeah i noe wut u mean but hey it worked out for me i mean look my bestfriend is now mah gf biggrin.gif
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 04:05 PM
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i think u shouldnt treat her differently too..act like ur normal self wit her..then:(these are options)

-when u think ur havin fun and all then ask her
-bring her fave movie and watch then ask her
-bring some of her fave candies puttin a note in there asking
-if its not too late and shes still available for valentines day then bring flowers candies and a card and ask will u be my valentine? then in the card will u go out wit me or something like that or something..
-just ask her straight out!!

well thats all i could think of..good lucK!!!
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 04:16 PM
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hmmm.... never had that before.... huh.gif
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 06:48 PM
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In the end...you'll tell her..it's inevitable...do yourself a favor and do it soon... happy.gif
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 06:57 PM
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yeah its happened...though i wouldn't say love. but yeah...good tips from everyone. don't change drastically.
 
sheepy
post Jan 20 2005, 07:02 PM
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hm; thats what i happened to me. which i think is better because if you guys do get together; you're also best friends. just don't hide your feelings or you'll drift.
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 07:12 PM
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Yeah, well, not a best friend, just a close friend. don't act, or change just, build up your confidence to tell her.
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 09:35 PM
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yeah, this is what happened to my friend, he ended up liking her back so all is good happy.gif
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 10:08 PM
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i agree with everyone...drop hints slowly..but stay her friend..
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 10:13 PM
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its great that your bestfriend is your crush. Drop some signs that you like her and its possible that she just might like you back. =]
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 11:29 PM
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I fell in love with my best friend, little did I know, he felt the same way about me when he asked me out happy.gif
 
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post Jan 20 2005, 11:36 PM
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yeah..i like my best friend. liked him for 2 years now..oh well. mellow.gif
basically what everyone else said..drop some hints, flirt a little, but otherwise don't change yourself.
 
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post Jan 21 2005, 03:55 AM
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yea i've fallen in love with my best guy friend. we're going out right now =)
 
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post Jan 21 2005, 04:58 PM
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i know what you're talking about, but my advice is..
dont go out with her ermm.gif it's gonna be hard, but relationships usually ruin friendships. when you break up (even though it lasts for lyke years), you usually aren't that close with that best friend and bleh wacko.gif
 
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