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 Jan 19 2005, 11:31 AM
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I have the biggest problem with small talks, don't ever know what to say, makes me feel dorky/boring. I'm really good with deep conversations though. Does anyone ever have problems like that?
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Jan 19 2005, 11:47 AM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
yeah..it makes me feel uncomfortable when i have to make small talk.
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Jan 19 2005, 12:48 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
yeah, like when I meet someone for the first time, it's really awkward and uncomfortable for me.
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Jan 19 2005, 12:52 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Big time! I work in Customer Service and my clients always try to small talk with me. I just cut them off.
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Jan 19 2005, 01:22 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Not really. There are plenty of things to talk about... you just have to find out if you're comfortable enough to talk about it.
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Jan 19 2005, 01:30 PM
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yes, actually. i am the worst at making conversation
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Jan 19 2005, 02:44 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
its sad for me to hear that awful awkward silence.
i try to make small talk but when i can't think of anything it saddens me. 
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Jan 19 2005, 02:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,863 |
Aren't we small talking right now?
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Jan 19 2005, 03:28 PM
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[Aиdy] Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,532 |
Yeah, I'm not too big with the small talk...
... So what about this weather? |
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Jan 19 2005, 03:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Small talk...hmm..I'm not really good with small talk. I say some random stuff that sometimes turns into small talk, I guess. It's like someone for the first time- There's only so much I can talk to them about until that akward silence comes along.
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Jan 19 2005, 03:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 775 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,754 |
I hate making small talk. Its annoying
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Jan 19 2005, 03:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
I always have small talk. I feel.... un comfortable when its in person. When I'm online, I just don't really mind it as much. But as I said, I get so dang tensed up with people in person. Its so dang awkward.
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Jan 19 2005, 03:54 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Yeah. :] Always for me. o_O OMG I JUST TOLD MY CRUSH THAT I LIKE HIM AND NOW WE'RE IN DEEP TALKING. lmfao. xD see. i'm happy.
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Jan 19 2005, 05:50 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I absolutely detest small talk-ing. Especially when it's face to face. I just try to get out of there asap
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Jan 19 2005, 06:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
So how's the weather?
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Jan 19 2005, 06:25 PM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
Yeah small talk can be awkward.
*cricket chirps* 
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Jan 19 2005, 06:26 PM
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 blahblahblah. Group: Member Posts: 690 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,045 |
hmmm... i don't really have a problem with small talk actually yeah........
i'm very talkative lol |
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Jan 19 2005, 06:27 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
i can deal with small talk.. but its kindda pointless
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Jan 19 2005, 06:42 PM
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My name is Jason, not imafreakinazn D: Group: Member Posts: 2,008 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,432 |
i don't have that problem
i always have something to talk about ~.^v |
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Jan 19 2005, 06:44 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
it really depends on the person. i hold back a lot with some people but others i feel so comfortable talking with
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Jan 19 2005, 06:50 PM
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 boo. Group: Member Posts: 567 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,376 |
DEFINITELY. eeeek i hate small talk. i loveee deep talks though.
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Jan 19 2005, 06:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Jan 19 2005, 2:44 PM) its sad for me to hear that awful awkward silence. i try to make small talk but when i can't think of anything it saddens me.  yeah, same here. i don't like that awkward silence- so i try to make small talk, but sometimes, i can't think of anything to say. |
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Jan 19 2005, 08:40 PM
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hmm...i don't mind it. depends who i'm making this small talk with...
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Jan 19 2005, 09:28 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i kinda hate small talk..it usually ends with something like sure or ya..lol..so boring..lol..
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Jan 19 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
I have the same problem...I suck at making small talks.
There's always an awkward silence if I don't know you well. It bothers me when I can't keep a conversation going. I feel kinda bad. |
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Jan 19 2005, 09:46 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
life is all about talk. real talk baby! ahhaha
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Jan 19 2005, 09:57 PM
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 banned Group: Member Posts: 1,589 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,768 |
If your conversations are sooooooooooooooooooooooo boring, say "i found a dollar" at the end. that sometimes work for me.
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Jan 19 2005, 10:44 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
it depends on who im talking to. well online i'd always just be like hey wasup. not much. then thatd be it.
but when im talking to someone one on one in person, i'd try to keep the conversation going and not have a silent moment. those times are just too awkward. |
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Jan 19 2005, 11:24 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
yeah... but it's okay i mean i'm not the only one who does that, so i guess it's okay. i mean kim and i dont really have nothing to talk about. just a simple hello and what we did today haha.
same goes to jackie and eve lol. we used to talk a lot for instance, "guys" "crush" and such hehe. But to the people I know very well --- I talk a lot haha cause I can tell them everything on what's happened today with this person and that person so yeah hehe. |
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Jan 19 2005, 11:27 PM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
here's a bunch of suggestions of what to talk about.
- why is it so quiet? (it works for me... everybody talks when i say that!) - celebrities - start acting weird and make them do the talkin (ahahaha) |
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Jan 19 2005, 11:30 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
yeah i'm horrible with small talk. come to think of it, i'm horrible with conversation haha.
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Jan 19 2005, 11:32 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
small talks = life is gay
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Jan 20 2005, 12:35 AM
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 atom smasher Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,827 |
I AM JUST LIKE THAT.
That, plus some other unfavorable things about me, makes me a complete loser. |
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Jan 20 2005, 12:44 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
i'm good with small talks. you just have to know what to talk about & yeah, once you do, you'll get the hang of it.
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