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 Mar 21 2004, 09:04 PM
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don't you sometimes feel like your girlfriend or boyfriend seems to be way happier with someone else but you? like they rather talk to some other guy or girl than you. and she/he can talk forever with that person, cause they're having such a great time, but not you. doesn't that feeling sucks? especially when you really want to talk to them, but they don't. and you just feels like they don't care. or is that a nono? just a wonder
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Mar 21 2004, 09:12 PM
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My ex and I had a situation like that. I blew up on her and we eventually didnt talk for like a week.
Then she and I talked about it. ( Best.Decision.Ever. ) After, we got tighter than ever. So basically just talk to them about the matter. Don't be afraid to express your feelings. Either that or uhmm break up with them. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Mar 21 2004, 10:46 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
yeah that's happened to me. it might mean you two have grown apart. just talk about it first before you make any "drastic" decisions.
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Mar 22 2004, 10:07 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
well there's something lacking in communication if your boyfriend/girlfriend has a better time taking to someone else and not you .. you should figure out what the problem may be and see if it can be solved .. sometimes people grow apart and run out of things to say .. or it could be something else .. i hope you find the answer you're looking for .. good luck!!
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Mar 22 2004, 03:56 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i feel that way sometimes.. yea it does suck.. it makes me feel useless
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Mar 22 2004, 09:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,823 |
talk to them, and tell them how u feel
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Mar 23 2004, 06:36 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,898 |
the thing is, i did talk to her about it. and now we're just taking a "break" and friends now for a little bit. yeh it's getting worse i guess.. but i can't tell ehr that, she seems so much happy i guess, and i don't want to take that away from her. like, we decided to be friends for a while untill april 9? i think. i guess i'm being selffish here..but i don't want to to lose her...she means so much to me..it's not easy to unlove someone you love.and the thing that scares me is that, there's a chance she's gonna fall for another guy between thsoe time period, and i don't think we're gonna get any closer. that feeling sucks. you love someone so badly, but now you can't show that to them, or even just be with them. yeh it just sucks now..but she seems happy. and i dunno wut to do.
 hahaha i feel so lame feeling like this and even writing it down
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Mar 23 2004, 06:47 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
Uhhh...I use to feel that way sumtimes....it seemed like when he was around me everything was serious...but we took a little break from each other b4 last summer...(about 2 weeks) and then everything was all good again.
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Mar 23 2004, 08:28 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
QUOTE(nearly sam @ Mar 21 2004, 9:04 PM) don't you sometimes feel like your girlfriend or boyfriend seems to be way happier with someone else but you? like they rather talk to some other guy or girl than you. and she/he can talk forever with that person, cause they're having such a great time, but not you. doesn't that feeling sucks? especially when you really want to talk to them, but they don't. and you just feels like they don't care. or is that a nono? just a wonder Yea...it's been like that for a while, i've been putting it off. but *shrugs* me and my boyfriend's relationship is kinda weird to begin with anyways (it's a long story) so yea. I thought of it as me being excessively jealous... |
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Mar 23 2004, 08:44 PM
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 -'<-:-.//Outkast\\.-:->'- Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,215 |
QUOTE don't you sometimes feel like your girlfriend or boyfriend seems to be way happier with someone else but you? like they rather talk to some other guy or girl than you. and she/he can talk forever with that person, cause they're having such a great time, but not you. doesn't that feeling sucks? especially when you really want to talk to them, but they don't. and you just feels like they don't care. or is that a nono? just a wonder well i feel ths way: QUOTE don't you sometimes feel like your girlfriend or boyfriend seems to be way happier with someone else but you? like they rather talk to some other guy or girl than you. and she/he can talk forever with that person, cause they're having such a great time, but not you. doesn't that feeling sucks? but not the rest i kno she cares bout me n everyhintg but she always talks to this guy up front with her but never meh 
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Mar 23 2004, 08:48 PM
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-'<-:-.//Outkast\\.-:->'- Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,215 |
QUOTE(nearly sam @ Mar 23 2004, 6:36 PM) the thing is, i did talk to her about it. and now we're just taking a "break" and friends now for a little bit. yeh it's getting worse i guess.. but i can't tell ehr that, she seems so much happy i guess, and i don't want to take that away from her. like, we decided to be friends for a while untill april 9? i think. i guess i'm being selffish here..but i don't want to to lose her...she means so much to me..it's not easy to unlove someone you love.and the thing that scares me is that, there's a chance she's gonna fall for another guy between thsoe time period, and i don't think we're gonna get any closer. that feeling sucks. you love someone so badly, but now you can't show that to them, or even just be with them. yeh it just sucks now..but she seems happy. and i dunno wut to do. hahaha i feel so lame feeling like this and even writing it downwow that really sux...me n my g/f... lol i dont think we could get aprt to jus be friends  but i hope she doesnt leave u for some other guy.......
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Mar 26 2004, 10:59 PM
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 miss reiko Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,757 |
yea it does suck..
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Mar 28 2004, 05:46 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
makes me feel awkward.. =p but you know what they say.. bf and gfs can last awhile but best friends are forever. haha sorry to bring you down if that did.. you should definitely talk to them about it :D
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Mar 31 2004, 06:34 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea that feeling does suk, but i havent felt lyke that for a whio so i kinda forgot but i stio remember it a litto, but if u feel dat wae mayb u should tawk to them about it n stuff.
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