i ruined it T.T, i could've fixed it but... |
 Jan 15 2005, 10:24 AM
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Gackt's Wife  Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549  |
i dont know what happened
 ok so heres the story..me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago and... ive never been soo unhappy in my whole life... its have an effect on my friends and everything because im always so jolly and such. well we both care for each other STILL but the reason he broke up with me is because of my "shyness" im not SHY its just that... im really quiet around him and we broke up so we could be friends and all and i could talk to him like i do with every one elce... then when we get past that "we could get past anything" as he would say... so now we're broken up and i understood that there was still a chance for us and its not completly over... well even thought he's a friend now i still cant talk to him... i dont kno how to explain it... u kno how your talking to all you friends and such and when you boyfriend comes then all of a sudden your quiet? well thats me... i dont want to be like this but its like... me mind reflexes or something... i'm probably thinking that he'll think im stupid for saying something i think is stupid.... but I KNOW he wont judge me for what i say or like me any less... i keep telling myslef that but i dont kno what happens when im around him.. i WANT to talk to him but i dont kno whats stopping me... and now he's really upset cuz of it and i cant help it... im just as mad at myself as he is with the situation... i cry my self to sleep most nights and things just arent the same... mm does ne one know whats wrong with me? why i cant just say what i want to say?... ahh dont be mean about it cuz... i feel bad enough for doing this to him 
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Jan 15 2005, 11:05 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I want you back you big sexy beast.
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Jan 15 2005, 11:14 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you're probably shy around him becuz you think you dont deserve him...dont believe me?? then just go out with someone else and see if you're in this situation....
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Jan 15 2005, 12:36 PM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
^u kno that could be the case... cuz i never went out with a boy that i was "head over heals" for you kno? and all the other guys ive been out with, i just liked him... but everyone keeps saying the oppsite, he doesnt deserve me and i should go find better, they're wrong. dont u hate it when people think whats best for you?
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Jan 15 2005, 12:38 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hmm. I felt like my last relationship was my problem, too.
I was always busy and I could never see him, really.. Hmm... if it was your first few relationships, then it's kinda natural to be shy around him. |
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Jan 15 2005, 12:58 PM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
^no this isnt my first... its my 4th... we both admited that we dont kno how to work a relationship and that it never worked out in the past, though
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Jan 15 2005, 02:28 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i know exactly what you're going through. with my ex, it was just like that. i was too shy around him, and after a while, he broke up with me. his reason wasn't because i was too shy, but some other stupid reason. but the actual reason was probably because i was too shy. i guess its good if you're still friends, because after my ex broke up with me, he started ignoring me. i guess, try to treat him like a friend, talk to him more or something, forget that you like him or something and i guess be yourself.
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Jan 15 2005, 02:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
That happened to me & my crush. We like talk online for hours & hours, then when we see each other, we get all shy & quiet. I guess you just have to tell yourself that you don't like him anymore & just talk to him. Since he doesn't judge you then you won't have to matter what he'll think. Just talk to him.
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