stalking?, is it or not |
 Jan 15 2005, 12:23 AM
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 hannah the one and only~  Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,080  |
k there is this guy i used to like and we went out on a date at one point, i knw there family to. I am 16 an dhe is a year younger. One day he wasnt home and this is b 4 i knew he liked me and I was hanging out with his sister, then we where looking in his room just like doing funny things. I didnt really want to , but then I looked under his bead and there was a few shoes boxes, so then I decided to look in one and it had conversations we had b 4 that he had printed out like 20 convos, then a picture of me, and one time his stepdad borrowed a pencil and it happened to have my name and he accidently took it , then the boy took it and put it in the shoe box?
some people tell me that is kinda stalking do u think it is or not? well for u who asked the date went ok but I dont like him n e more though... can someone close this plz |
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Jan 15 2005, 12:25 AM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
i guess it's sort of stalking, but it was his private box-- sso if he's not openly stalking you then i guess it doesnt really count
 but in a way it does....ahhhh sry
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Jan 15 2005, 12:29 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
meh..it could be coincidences or he's borderline stalking.
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Jan 15 2005, 12:55 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hmm.. it's somewhat scary because you never know what else he might have of yours... Just hope that whenever you brushed your hair in front of him, he didn't secretly stash clumps of your precious hair in another secret box.
But hey, it's sweet though.. You went on a date with him? Maybe he really likes you. How was that date, if you don't mind me asking? But be careful.. he might do something dangerous to you in case he's really.. obsessed with you or something. Sorry, your situation reminded me of a movie that Reese Witherspoon was in. I think it was called "Fear," or something... And her boyfriend was obsessed with her and yea. Freaky movie... 
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Jan 15 2005, 01:01 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think it's an obsession thing...it doesn't seem that bad, i collect things like receipts, empty candy wrappers from the candy he's given me, price tags from things i bought him, i save our conversations but i don't print them out, i have his old school id's from last year, and etc
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Jan 15 2005, 02:28 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
there's a line between stalking and obsession....
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Jan 15 2005, 02:31 AM
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 Dizzy Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,984 |
It on the border between stalking and having a serious crush. If you dont like him no more and you never told him you found it just dont tell him and if he asks you out just say "no".
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Jan 15 2005, 02:53 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 15 2005, 3:28 PM) there's a line between stalking and obsession....  i agree. i used to know this girl who would print out or send me her conversations w/ her crush. i found them quite amusing. 
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Jan 15 2005, 02:59 AM
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 I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
I think that`s cute and sweet. I don`t think you should interpret it as stalking, he probably just likes you a lot. I think you should be more flattered than scared.
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Jan 15 2005, 04:38 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
no it isnt. he's just obsessed with u. and that was BEFORE right?? u said it was before..
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Jan 15 2005, 01:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
he is sort of obsessed, does he have the qualities?? i mean, does he look scary, is he really quiet?? just watch out
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Jan 15 2005, 01:45 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
if you haven't told him to go away it can't be stalking.
legally, that is. |
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Jan 15 2005, 02:35 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 630 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,163 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 14 2005, 11:28 PM) there's a line between stalking and obsession.... He might be obsessed with you. But be careful. You never know what's going to happen next. |
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Jan 15 2005, 02:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I wouldn't call it stalking. Unless he knows a lot about you.
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Jan 15 2005, 02:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Creepy, but sweet. He's OBSESSED WITH YOU. watch out & bee carefull.
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Jan 15 2005, 04:34 PM
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 ^say hello to my eye^ Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,039 |
QUOTE(PAULiNE_x @ Jan 15 2005, 2:59 AM) I think that`s cute and sweet. I don`t think you should interpret it as stalking, he probably just likes you a lot. I think you should be more flattered than scared. i would tend to agree...but since i've never met you or him, i wouldnt know lol
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Jan 15 2005, 04:54 PM
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 GATHER ROUND THE GOOD STUFF Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,104 |
You actually told your friends about that. that's kinda mean. but i don't think it's stalking.
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Jan 15 2005, 08:09 PM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 14 2005, 11:28 PM) there's a line between stalking and obsession.... mmmhmm, thats true. some ppl are obsessed and many FEW stalk and don't even know they are stalkin. |
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Jan 15 2005, 08:32 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
its not stalking...hes just obsessed and obviously likes you
talk to him about it...or just let it go and stay away from him |
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Jan 15 2005, 08:43 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
thats kinda creepy but i wouldnt call that stalking. i would call it obsessive...
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Jan 15 2005, 11:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,972 |
thats so cute.. lol just be flattered and hope he's not like that anymore.
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Jan 15 2005, 11:37 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
rofl that's hella funny. you musted been thnking all sort of things when u saw all of these stuff in the box lol.
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Jan 15 2005, 11:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Don't some people keep boxes and they like, keep the posessions of their ex's and stuff? So maybe when he found out you didn't like him, he kept all of those stuff and just forgot about them.
Or he could be looking at that box everyday or something. Idk. |
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