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[lovescream]

Haven't seen a topic.. most chanes yes there are, but umm, that was then, this is now!
=]

Are you close to your parents?
Mom?
Dad?

I'm not. My mom is too NOSY, mean, disrespectful and when i'm pissed, she tries to joke around which makes me more pissed off.

o.O How about you? Close to your parents?

[inthemudhole]

Ooh. I remember a thread like this. ;x

Koff. Anyway.

I'm not really close to my parents anymore.. nope, not really.
I'm not closer to either one of them.

[Skyline Drive]

I am close to my mom she is like the one person in the world that I trust and I tell her everything. My dad is conceited sometimes that bothers me.. it's an odd situation but he is still a great dad and very supportive of all my decisions.

My brother.. on the other hand is a total jackhole. I know you didn't ask about siblings but just thought I would mention that.

[LadyXTor]

I'm close to my parents and give them all my respect.

[sharerol]

I'm not close to either of my parents. They aren't even around half the time.

[sweetxpinay_0910...]

I`m not close with them, but I respect them. I`m not close with any family actually--

[silver-rain]

I'm not close at all with either of my parents, especially my mom. grr, she pisses me off so much. with my dad, its ok, he doesn't bother me that much and i don't bother him that much either.

[lovescream]

^ same.
My mom just pissed me off, along with my grandmother. This is why I don't respect them, because they never act like they respect me.

[lilJdawg]

Uh no way. My mom is never close to me, she doesn't know anything 'bout me, she makes me piss off & try to make jokes that are not funny, funny. She always suspect that i have a boyfriend which i don't & comment my friends, "OHH, SHE DRESSES LIKE SHE'S IN A GANG, OR WIERD" shut the f**k up. ohh, opps, sorry for my explicitness.

[*stephinika*]

no. they want to be. but i don't. we fight a lot and they are very unreasonable. i can't wait to move away...

[*Azarel*]

.. parents.. Eh. We're not close.

[redpeony]

i talk to my mom and brother about anything
the fahj.......not so much. he loves me and i know it but he's just so anal sometimes and i can't stand that.

[sadolakced acid]

we're close like a pinky and 4th finger. pinky of left hand, 4th finger of right that is.

i wish they'd get out of my life more...

[*Azarel*]

we're close like a pinky and 4th finger.  pinky of left hand, 4th finger of right that is.

.. I like that one! Haha. It made me smile. YOU, SIR, ARE AWESOME.

[sadolakced acid]

thanks.

[Shorty435]

I'm not close to my parents, I don't really talk to them that much, but I know that if I ever needed anything they would be there.....

[Chii]

i hate my mother, she's such a b*tch to me all the time, whenever she talks to me, she either calls me stupid or idiot or all these things, i hate her, she can never leave me alone for 5 minutes

she's always in my f*cking face
"you're so fat" (even though i weight 109 pounds )

"you're so ugly"

"you're skin is horrible it's supposed to be better than mine, my skin is smoother and i'm a lot older"

"you're dirty"

"you're hair is disgusting"

"you're so stupid, you were born here aren't you supposed to be smart?"

"where the f*ck have you been? it's 8:15 you were supposed to be home 15 minutes ago"

"when are you going to do your goddamn homework you dumbass?"

"what are you going to amount to?"

"you're such a slut," and et-f*cking-cetera

[bad_girl]

i dont want to be.. lol.

she's always in my f*cking face
"you're so fat" (even though i weight 109 pounds  )

"you're so ugly"

"you're skin is horrible it's supposed to be better than mine, my skin is smoother and i'm a lot older"

"you're dirty"

"you're hair is disgusting"

"you're so stupid, you were born here aren't you supposed to be smart?"

"where the f*ck have you been? it's 8:15 you were supposed to be home 15 minutes ago"

"when are you going to do your goddamn homework you dumbass?"

"what are you going to amount to?"

"you're such a slut," and et-f*cking-cetera 

that's so mean!!

[Wishful Thinking]

i hate my mother, she's such a b*tch to me all the time, whenever she talks to me, she either calls me stupid or idiot or all these things, i hate her, she can never leave me alone for 5 minutes

she's always in my f*cking face
"you're so fat" (even though i weight 109 pounds )

"you're so ugly"

"you're skin is horrible it's supposed to be better than mine, my skin is smoother and i'm a lot older"

"you're dirty"

"you're hair is disgusting"

"you're so stupid, you were born here aren't you supposed to be smart?"

"where the f*ck have you been? it's 8:15 you were supposed to be home 15 minutes ago"

"when are you going to do your goddamn homework you dumbass?"

"what are you going to amount to?"

"you're such a slut," and et-f*cking-cetera

Whoaaa~ O_O Oh well.. my mom is more nicer than that..thank god. =o My dad is horrible though. Like today he drove me home, knowing I was sick and MUTE(I lost my voice) anyways, my head was dizzy because I couldn't see properly.. I wasn't supposed to go to school.. >< but my dad made me.. =_= Anyways, on the way home there was really slippery ice.. my dad yelled at me to movee but I didn't and I slipped and fell.. it hurted real bad and he started yelling at me like, "why didn't you listen to me you idiot? your such a dumass to not listen to your own father. Blah blah blah." =_= He almost killed me the other day.. knowing I was unable to breath in smoke.. >< I mean cigarette smoke.. cuz he was smoking the other day...which was yesterday. =.="

[Just_Dream]

My mom can say really cruel things to me, which hurts my feelings... I hate it when I try so hard in school and I get good grades, but just because whenever my mother sees me around the house, I'm not doing homework and she thinks I'm lazy and failing in class. (Yea I know, that was a run-on sentence). And it irritates me when she depends on me so much about helping around the house and what not, when she could always ask my older sister for help.. Bleh but my older sister is such a "female-dog" that my mother has to always complain to me about everything. But I'm nicer and closer to my mother than my older sister is to my mother. You see, my mother went through a great many of terrible situations and it was really tough for her when she lived in Vietnam. She cooks dinner, cleans the house, drives me home, etc., so deep down I really do love her. I just hate how she often bothers me about the littlest things and it irritates me. But I still am close with her.

But my father is an entirely different story. He's the single person that I loathe the most. He's crazy--he yells at my mother for the stupidest reasons. You know what's so rude about him? Whenever I was little, he would always call me "cho-(insert my viet name here)" and I always though he was just saying I was a dog or something, like a cute animal or something like that. About two years ago my mother got angry at me and called me that. I was like "okay..." and we were at my niece's house in Palm Springs. Then My niece says "omg, why did your mother call you that?! That's so rude! That's calling you a bad name." She said somethign along the lines of that. I was like.. WTF?! But it was my FATHER who always called me that.. my mother rarely called me that. What kind of father would say that?!

Erg, and I HATE how my father would hit me when I was little. He even hit me when I was 13 (7th grade) when we were driving to Santa Ana. Did I mention that my father is a pervert?! I can finally admit that my father was a pervert. If he wasn't such a f*cking pervert and tried to touch my leg--he sat in the driver seat and I sat in the passenger seat behind him--when we were in the car, he wouldn't have gotten his stupid hand stepped on as I tried to defend myself by kicking his hand away. I accidentally smushed his hand against the thingy (in the car where you can put stiff in, in the middle of the car) with my platform sneakers. And then he yelled really loud and then stopped the car as wel were backing out of the driveway and he opened my car door and pulled my hair. He pulled a group of hair out of my head and it hurt like heck. YES, I was THIRTEEN then. I hated him so much...

I hated my father, for all that he did, for being such a terrible father. Not ONLY did he beat me because I accidentally hit him because I WAS TRYING TO DEFEND MYSELF FROM HIS SICK GRASP, but he also hit my mother. He would yell at her when he lost the damn keys! It was his fault.. He always tries to act like he's right in everything. He tore my whole family apart. That's why I only live with my mother and real sister now.. He kicked my half sister and half-brother out of the house. But hey, that's good because they have a better life now, away from him. I visit them a lot. And another half-sister moved out and she hates him too. Everyone hates my father. There's so much more to say but I don't think I'll explain any more.

But one more thing... the reason why so many people dislike my father is because of his infidelity. I trust that you all know what that means. I hated him for that.. how could he do that to my mother? Not only does she STILL cook for him, but she even did his laundry once, etc. My father moved out, and his ugly-arse gf is such a gold-digger, puts on a lot of makeup and looks like a FOB (like she just came from Asia), looks like a whore (her face looks slutty -_-), and can't even cook, clean, or do laundry. How pathetic.

I guess my father and her deserve each other. They are disrespectful as well as dependent.

[kellyannie]

I'm not really that close to my mom. Like I don't tell her stuff that goes on in my life and stuff like that. I get along with her sometimes but we fight a lot. She's not really mean it's just that the stuff she does just annoys me.. alot. I've been trying to be nicer to her though because I'll admit I get pissed at her even when she doesn't do anything. I take out a lot of my anger on her lol. And for my dad, well I can't be close to him because he died before I was born. I think I actually get along better with my grandparents than my mom... sad I know. But they are like my second parents.

[1--GIRL]

Yeah, I'm super tight with my mom, but I'm not that close with my dad because I only see him on weekends and yeah..

[DixieDaCutie]

i guess im ok with my parents. my dad's easier to get along w/ , and my moms always up in my face about school.. but no major problems. sometimes i say stuff that really ticks/upsets my mom, but we usually get ovr it

[misoshiru]

no...not at all. my dad's ok. my mom just annoys me.

[Shattered_Hope]

not that close anymore..what can I say? you grow up and you change...